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6 years ago
@ChiliPalmer - I think a moderator would be amazing!
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6 years ago
Uhh
I have gotten to the point of rejecting any review with names
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6 years ago
I think yes
To me in the before video she looks like a b cup and the a solid d cup in the later vids.
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6 years ago
The only thing I will add is that it's best if possible to phrase the conversation in terms of what the other person wants not what you want.
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6 years ago
I am a big fan of Babymetal
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6 years ago
Not my type. Pass...
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6 years ago
Yes! Everyone start using ignore!
Beforehand not enough of us used it so reading through threads was a pain as you only saw half the conversation. Now that more of us are using the ignore feature more liberally it actually works.
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6 years ago
Yes and no. If we were in a position in life where the money she made stripping was both substancial both in terms of it's amount and it's life impact then yes. For example if we were struggling to make it and pay for college then stripping would make a lot of sense. But I am not exactly hurting for money so it wouldn't really make financial sense for a partner of mine to become a stripper.
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6 years ago
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steeldog65I swear, it's just shrinkage due the cold
Top 3 Worst non-air LDs:
3. Brand new stripper who semi grinded with her torso/arms/head perfectly rigid.
2. I think the girl was creeped out by my rain pants and did not make any contact. So basically airdance but I could touch her tits.
1. Baby stripper who absolutely POUNDED my lower abdomen with her pussy. I was bruised and sore for over a day. I tuck downwards so she luckily missed my dick or I would have been injured.
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6 years ago
Getting on prozac has to mean a pretty big change in your emotional state. Being able to LDK for me requires a clear head and if my personal life is hectic it can be impossible to achieve. I personally can go from it being really easy to impossible. Last time I went though an impossible phase I did the following to get back on track:
1. Take a break for while
2. Refrain from orgasm for a few days before a visit
3. Go to the club with a more relaxed mindset and focus on enjoying the experience even if there is no orgasm
4. Find a dancer I know does a really good job and not worry about cost
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6 years ago
Hopefully more of us will start using ignore.
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6 years ago
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PiggiePigs likes getting dirty
Names = Bad
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6 years ago
Sorry DC but boringloser definitely called it...
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6 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
Is the picture going to be public on our account forever? Do I need to dress up for this?
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6 years ago
I like tats but not that many. Pass...
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6 years ago
@nicespice - I am curious what parts of the tuscl discussions you think trend towards "echo chambers"?
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6 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Interestingly the term noble pervert is super old. I think the original story is where the PL takes in a homeless young prostitute. He cares for her expecting that one day she will love him, of course she doesn't. He get's angry and calls her a bitch (or the 16th century russian equivalent).
As far as the specific debate about noble perversion debate between Muddy and Rick Dugan I come down in the middle between the two of you. Can a PL help a dancer with something in their life, absolutely. Can a PL help a addict dancer get clean, possibly. But a PL should never expect anything in return for their actions. And should be aware 99% of the time helping an addict is really not helping them. And I would totally agree with Dugan that taking personal satisfaction for helping an addict is delusional.
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6 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Yeah I thought the same thing
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6 years ago
1. Management has to have hard rules to prevent dancers taking advantage of the system.
2. Like Njballa said some girls would never go on stage if they weren't forced.
3. Clubs and dancers want you to pay for VIP options which usually include keeping her off the stage. It's one of the reasons to upgrade from regular dances to VIP.
At my home club there is no traditional VIP options but you can pay $20 to the club to keep a girl from having to go on stage. There are a few higher demand girls that I almost never see go on stage as they always have customers who pay it.
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6 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
With the new ignore system you have implemented I have used it a lot more.
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6 years ago
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founderslip a dollar in her g-string for me
@founder - Sorry to hear you are frustrated with the discussion forum situation. Is there anything we can do as regular forum participants that would help? Are there any guidelines for what you want to go on in the front room vs vip?
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6 years ago
@DC9486 - A dollar parade is when instead of being allowed to tip a girl on stage she has to go around the room after her stage set and ask each individual PL for a tip. Tipping rules and etiquette are way different in different places, for instance besides the dollar parade another oddity is my area where there are no tip rails, no expectation to tip if you are near the stage, and at some clubs people just don't tip the stage much at all.
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6 years ago
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LiwetIf she walks away smiling, you spent too much.
1. Spend a little more than the bare minimum for the service you want. Tip really well.
2. See the same dancer for a few weeks in a row.
3. After a few visits ask the dancer what her boundaries are.
4. If she says no to something you want ask if that is a hard no or an occasional light touch is fine.
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6 years ago
I agree with papi. I think some things about the way the strip club is run don't make any sense to dancers or customers but actually make sense in the bizzaro world of strip clubs.
There is something I heard about Lotus (car) dealerships. That salespeople there usually try to talk prospective customers out of buying. Lotus cars are pretty hardcore and a lot of prospective customers end up deciding not to buy them. People that want to buy a Lotus are going to do it regardless and the reverse psychology seems to almost talk them into it. So even though it seems counter intuitive it makes sense to try and dissuade customers from buying a car. They weed out the time wasters. There are probably a lot of similar things in strip clubs, decisions club managers make that seem counter intuitive along with genuine lazyness.
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6 years ago
I posted about this a long time ago but the cops came into the club with a warrant to arrest a girl. Nothing at all changed in the club, it was business as usually with titties being grabbed right in front of the cops. The girl however ran and hid in the VIP so the cops had to go around and search every corner of the club even interrupting lap dances to find her.