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6 years ago
If you watch too much porn it can kill your libido. Porn is designed to be a hypersensitive version of the real thing so that you keep wanting more of it. The problem is that it tricks your brain into thinking that sex is something that it isn't. So when you get back to a real woman, you have no mojo because your brain is expecting the hypersensitivity of the porn.
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6 years ago
When the rule is "look don't touch" then I'd agree that it's a waste of money. But if you get to interact on a more intimate level, then it's well worth it.
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6 years ago
It's much like allowing a door-to-door salesman into your home. She sits with you to sell herself to you. So really you are granting her the courtesy of allowing her to sit with you while you decide whether you want a dance. Sometimes I'll give her a few dollars if I like her and want her to come back another time. Also if she approaches me in a way that I find to be impressive I'll give her a tip. But at the same time I have to be careful not to blow the money for 2 dances on dancers that I am not going to get a dance with.
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6 years ago
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Cashman1234He/Him - He’s a filthy pig. That’s him in VIP with another whore.
I had to take exception to Sharon Stone's revealing dress. If wearing black was about protesting the objectification of women but then she puts herself out there like that, it trivializes the purpose.
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6 years ago
You might want to look into the holistic approach. If you're indiscriminately taking antibiotics they probably aren't doing anything (as mentioned above).
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6 years ago
I say YES you can get too cool with her if it's causing you to spend more money on her than the amount you had budgeted. You might get a few freebies every now and then but if it gets too good, before you know it, you'll be taking her out on shopping dates and spending more than half of your paycheck on her.
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6 years ago
I agree with what was said about the ignore button. I use it too. I don't mind a little bit of off-topic discussion every now and then but for the most part we are here to give SC advice, to get SC advice, or just to read what others have said. If you're here for any other reason, you need not apply.
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6 years ago
Being that human trafficking is big in both states, I'd say that your scenario is very plausible. I imagine that the girls who escape from a trafficking situation would consider the club atmosphere to be mild in comparison. Going from being a "sex slave" to actually getting paid and being able to choose your clients would probably make them lie about their age without giving it a second thought. So based on what you're saying, I'd be very reluctant to go to a SC with a minimum age of 18. I wouldn't even be comfortable with someone that young.
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6 years ago
I've always said that the extra money spent on an electric car will buy you a lot of gas. Even when we were well over the $3 a gallon mark, the extra $30K spent on an electric car would go a long way. Either way I'm still optimistic that one day the technology will get better and it takes the early adopters of this type of vehicle to give these companies the "push" that they need to make it better.
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6 years ago
It's not self deception. It's just that people don't want to admit that they're not really working even though they are at work.
Stripping is just like any other commission based sales job. You have to hustle. You have to build clientele. You have to master your craft. And you have "sell" yourself by knowing your audience and how to appeal to them. The strippers that do these things make the big money. Simply getting naked and shaking your tits isn't going to cut it. Sure, it'll get you a few tips on the stage and maybe a couple of regulars. But if you have to treat it like a business or a "real job" if you are going to make any money doing it.
So at the end of the night when the true hustlers tally up their earnings the stragglers want to be in that same conversation. When they've been at the bar playing video poker all night it wouldn't surprise me if they bragged about having a better night than they really did.
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6 years ago
I find that cash is king when they see you start peeling the 10's and 20's off of your stack of bills.
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6 years ago
" What surprised me most was that I instinctively stopped when the first song ended...she laughed and pleaded for me to keep going."
Face it. You have been subliminally conditioned into being an exotic dancer.
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6 years ago
I'd like to believe that "whatever you think" really means "whatever you want" because she wanted to do the extras for a good customer that she likes. Like if you've ever gone into an independently owned convenient store and you bought a bunch of stuff and you forgot that one last small thing. Sometimes the guy behind the counter will say, "just gimme a dollar" or he'll let you take it for free based on the amount business you've done with that store in the past. And I think that with the dancers, sometimes these little extras are meant to keep you coming back rather than it is a way to make a few more dollars. But at the same time, they aren't going to be foolish enough to say, "Oh no....that's OK. I don't want anything for my extras."
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6 years ago
It could have been a mistake. I am looking at this from the perspective of my IT consulting business. I'd never give my client's phone number to a competitor. I wouldn't even give their number out if I didn't want to service their account anymore.
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6 years ago
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Cashman1234He/Him - He’s a filthy pig. That’s him in VIP with another whore.
I did that once after we had a bad snow storm that crippled the area for a few days. There was no better way to relieve the cabin fever. But I'd never go during a storm.
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6 years ago
If I was in the club owner's position, I'd rather that you leave pissed off to never come back again because if I gave you your money back, it would only set the precedent where you will want/expect your money back every time you have the slightest issue or problem. I have no problem with providing good customer service but I'm nobody's bitch. If you are going to belly-ache over $5, you're telling me how cheap you are.
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7 years ago
I had a similar situation where the dancer put her tit in my mouth and told me to bite her nipple. She kept telling me to bite harder. I guess nipples were made to endure sucking and chewing but it felt like if I bit down any harder it would eventually cause some damage. Just like the OP said, it was more like a rodeo than a dance. :(
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7 years ago
Piercings bother me. Studs or hoops are OK in the earlobe. But hoops or studs around the outside edge of the ear, and the "industrial" pole going completely through the ear from one side to the other is disturbing. Also piercings in the nose, cheek, mouth, bottom lip, tongue, back, eyebrows, or nipples is a no-go for me.
Reptilian tattoos are a deal breaker where they have so much ink, they look like a reptile.
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7 years ago
"Girls like money, real money."
So true. Me and a few friends threw a bachelor party. We had a DJ, food, plenty of liquor, but we forgot to get change. Nobody had small bills so I had this idea that we use Monopoly money instead. People who came to the party could exchange their large bills for the game money and use it to tip the dancer. Then at the end of the night she can bring us back the game money and we would give her the equivalent in real money. Long story short, the idea didn't go over very well.
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7 years ago
There is a preconception of what men think that women want. So the dancer tries to play into what she thinks that men want to do. I've had dancers try to do all kinds of wild things thinking that I would find it exciting. When I told her that it was disgusting, then she recanted and said, "Thanks! I wasn't really enjoying that either." So I think that this whole spanking thing is her wanting to appease your fantasy.
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7 years ago
Compared to some of the crappy looking women I see in the club who manage to be busy all night long, I'm sure you'll do just fine.
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7 years ago
Tell her "I'm done." or "I'm gonna get up now."
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7 years ago
I agree with skibum. You really can't make a comparison between the two because they are completely different worlds.