The other day at Follies I was sitting in my favorite high top chair and getting dances from a pretty wild dancer that I have known a long time. While totally nude she jumped up in my lap CG style and started rocking back and forth. And then she asked me to smack her ass. Well I was trying to hold onto her with both hands to make sure she didn't lose her balance and fall off me backwards but she insisted. So I gave her a light couple of smacks and she said harder. I tried to comply but with each set of smacks she kept yelling harder. To me it was more like being at a rodeo than a strip club. Spanking does not do a thing for me. I was glad when she got off me. She did not get me off. :)
I agree with ShadowCat regarding ass slapping. It doesn’t get me off.
I’m a bit rough when fucking civilian women - and I’ll restrain them - and snap their asses and tits. But in the club - it seems more for show.
There are dancers who will smack their own asses when on stage. I think the sound of the smack is intended to draw customer attention - as it’s not really arousing at all.
The other day my ATF asked me to slap her ass.I did it. She told to slap harder. I did it. She asks me every time I take dances to slap her ass.She also asked me to slap her tits during VIP.
I enjoy it occasionally with some of the thick big-booty ebonies I get with in the black clubs - but it's more of a medium-stength smack - the ones that ask me to smack it seem like I can't do it hard enough but like others it's not in my nature nor does it turn me on to smack it super hard (plus I got small soft hands like a chick that are not that good for a good smacking) .
I'm not sure how many strippers I've taken to the VIP in the past 5 years, whose asses I DIDN'T slap, but I think I might be able to count them on one hand :)
The "slap my ass" thing is just a buzzkill to me, like over-the-top fake moaning and girls who "take charge" acting like they're putting 910% effort into their performance at a porn shoot. Domination play like pinning her against a wall with her clearly enjoying it can be fun, but actual violence just doesn't do it for me.
I guess I'm in the minority, but I love that shit! And that glorious link chessmaster posted is the exact reason why. I don't like hard smacks, but the ones just like demonstrated in that video. When you smack it like that and you see that jiggle and wobble......that shit turns me on hardcore!
I understand it. But it has to be an ass that I find attractive already. And I would refer to it as spanking, not slapping. You slap a face, and spank an ass.
Remember, everything is about sex, except sex; sex is about power.
In one club a few dancers wanted me to do that and they got me used to doing it. It was not a turn on for me. Was it for them? I hope so or they were wasting my time. I never wanted to slap a dancers ass too hard because if she didn't like it, next thing I might see is a bouncer saying time to go. You hit her. In some clubs, I've seen guys get kicked out for light slaps but the dancer never asked for it.
I'd rather be lightly slapped in the head by natural titties. Much more fun especially if you're in between and getting slapped in between before the boobs swallow you up. It can be a turn on for a dancer to take her boobs and surround your hand while you move your hand up and down between both boobies.
It's also fun if a dancer takes your hands and puts them on her boobs for whatever reason she says. One dancer with implants did that and said her doctor said her breasts need massaging every day. Another dancer did that and said she was married but her husband is ok with this. Last I heard, they changed the rules not allowing that in local clubs. I can hope rules got relaxed while I've been away.
I had a similar situation where the dancer put her tit in my mouth and told me to bite her nipple. She kept telling me to bite harder. I guess nipples were made to endure sucking and chewing but it felt like if I bit down any harder it would eventually cause some damage. Just like the OP said, it was more like a rodeo than a dance. :(
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last commentI’m a bit rough when fucking civilian women - and I’ll restrain them - and snap their asses and tits. But in the club - it seems more for show.
There are dancers who will smack their own asses when on stage. I think the sound of the smack is intended to draw customer attention - as it’s not really arousing at all.
Once again, damn good link Chessmaster!
Remember, everything is about sex, except sex; sex is about power.
I never wanted to slap a dancers ass too hard because if she didn't like it, next thing I might see is a bouncer saying time to go. You hit her. In some clubs, I've seen guys get kicked out for light slaps but the dancer never asked for it.
It can be a turn on for a dancer to take her boobs and surround your hand while you move your hand up and down between both boobies.
It's also fun if a dancer takes your hands and puts them on her boobs for whatever reason she says. One dancer with implants did that and said her doctor said her breasts need massaging every day. Another dancer did that and said she was married but her husband is ok with this. Last I heard, they changed the rules not allowing that in local clubs. I can hope rules got relaxed while I've been away.
I also allow them to spank me in the same manner. It actually is a turn on for me.