Comments by eyeofodin (page 10)

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You need to look up the local "morality clauses" in the city/ county/ state to see if unaccompanied women are barred to cut down on the risk of prostitution -- I know it was the case years ago in some jurisdiction in both Ohio and Indiana.

Two for sure..... I attended both of their graduation parties and one I was even at their ceremony, just by happen stance

The majority of both men and women in western society agree with the second form of feminism and as has been stated above I see no conflict in her statement. If you are about 50 or older, the second wave of feminism is what was being pushed for in society..... I remember going to ERA marches and my Mom and her friends "streaking" for change as a kid. If you look at the numbers, the third wave is almost universally rejected (depending on the survey 70%-90%) by both females and males alike yet is what is being taught in universities and pushed as the Utopian movement in the media. Sadly, the advancements made over the last 100 years + of equality feminism are being disregarded as passe by the more for lack of a better term radicalized anti male / anti establishment modern feminism. IMO. There was a time that an ERA era feminist was glad to have a man hold the door for them, then in the late 70's early 80's the change in ideology started to occur and women would get offended by what was once considered a polite gesture. I make this point as an example of the rejection on third wave feminism...when was the last time you held a door open and got chewed out for it? The validity of her statement depends on the era you were born, educated, came of age and form of feminism one embraces..

Define which generation of feminist you are judging her statement. Wave one - right for equal political representation. Wave two - equal social rights and wages. Wave three - anti male, female centric where male society is to blame for all the ills of the world.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/work-in-progress/2013/12/05/six-surprising-negotiation-tactics-that-get-you-the-best-deal/#7e8f68645976 key is do your research 1st..

Darkblue, I don't drink or do drugs, but I could walk into any club in the country and within 15 minutes have a pretty good idea of who is on and who is dealing without having to ask. I must just be more aware or in tune with the seedier side of life than you... spending years working in nightclubs probably helps as well.

I second Ishmael's thought. or "I told her no and asked where is it available" a cop.

never have, never will........ our worlds / lifestyles are non compatible. enjoy the fantasy but do not confuse it with reality.

Pam Grier

Many of the dancers I run into like "todays" country and have no idea what traditional country sounds like or even county from 10 years ago.... modern country is what disco is to rock n roll or what Kayne West is to Grandmaster Flash and the Furious Five. One needs to define the era of the music before assuming a genre is homogeneous, us old men remember country with a back beat and a twang.....it's not so any more....much of it is Jimmy Buffet style party music with electric guitars.

20 ish years ago when "Brown Eyed Girl" was playing and I remarked about how I loved my first pocket am/fm transistor radio, it was a beauty........"what's a transistor radio?"... I knew I was old.

Has anyone else ever helped a dancer take advantage of guys that make it rain? It is a fun sport and can be very lucrative for the dancer. It's a long story, if anyone want to read it I can follow up later in the day with details.

I break down my rating system into 4 parts: face, body, attitude and then an over all score. Met hundreds over the 30+ years of visiting clubs who are a nine or ten in one of the categories, a hand full that meet two of the four, and only one that I would say was a solid 9+ all around in the three scoring parts to make up the total package. Met a 10 face, 9+ attitude and a 7+ body last night at Crazy Horse in Bedford Hts, Oh last night...... honestly the highest rated dancer I have seen/met in years..

"Pussy ain't nuttin' but meat on the bone Suck it or fuck it or leave it alone!" -Two Live Crew Do what makes you happy and not get in trouble with the wife. If she has suspicions, then you may have taken the fun too far already.

I took it as sarcasm......my bad.

My preferences are along the same lines as yours. Years ago I was on the road 100+ day a years (and enjoy the thrill of the hunt) now maybe 10 with most trips being turn and burns. I enjoy the familiarity of the local clubs now and not having to do all the foundation building needed to enjoy an out of town club. Guess I've just gone and got complacence and lazy in my old age.

"well thanks for all the help. you are all indeed a stand up group of guys. very helpful" How is any one here not to know you are not a abusive ex, a psychopathic stalker, a dealer looking for payment, or a pimp? And what of the moral if not legal ramifications if some one helped you track her down and you had bad intentions? You received the same deserved treatment as a dance looking for some guy she went bbfs with, got knocked up and is looking for a guy in indy about 5'9", with a scar on his chin, dark hair, wearing a Rolex, with a benz key fob and Gucci slip ons. Don't get self righteous when you are asking for help that is out of bounds on a site of fiction and wishful dreams. So yes the folks that made fun of you are stand up guys. Some times it not about what you want, but what is the right thing to do... time for you to grow up and act like an adult.

Then like others have said, you just need to ask the rules up front and be prepared to get ROB'd.

"Not romantic feelings. But investment none the less. Can be emotional and/or financial." WHAT???? it is an escape from reality not reality. Think of a SC as an expensive movie outing or going to see what ever play is hot on Broadway... a few hours of diversion and a nothing more. If you relate going to a SC to a financial and god forbid an emotion investment.... you have some problems.

A vicarious life is one not well lived. Instead of asking others about a low mileage VIP (which has the answer in the question), go spend a few dollars and give it a try and report back. 6-1/2 years here on this MB... and you want to know what others expect? Hell after only reading a thread or two the expectation level of folks here is obvious.

DR99 posted this https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/03/education/edlife/christina-hoff-sommers-sexual-assault-feminism.html under a different thread about waivers but it supports your thoughts. This third wave,victim style of feminism is a radical departure from traditional equality feminism.

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/11/03/education/edlife/christina-hoff-sommers-sexual-assault-feminism.html pay attention to the third q&a.......

In the last couple of months, I've had a couple of dancers tell me how they were sexually assaulted in the club. Ranging a boob touch to digital penetration. All at a fairly high contact club. The dancers with a semester or two of community college, truly do consider even a brush against the thigh without asking consent is assault. I do agree with them that a guy trying to fist them w/o permission in the VIP is assault... but as to date the management just blows off even the most aggressive actions by the customers. I think the club management will have the most exposure to the wrath of the dancer before the customer, the dancers having the police programmed into their phones for customer violations is not far away.

the only way to be well equipped is Practice. Practice. Practice...... good luck and have fun. btw, I have not been to Providence in 7 years so I have no clue as to a good club.