Comments by Lurker_X (page 15)

I voted for Gary Johnson, the outcome of the election surprised me... But I don't think it is any surprise that Trump is a lying narcissistic scoundrel. That doesn't necessarily mean I would prefer Hillary though.

I think the ratings formula need some improvement. It is a pure average across every review since the website began. Reviews older than about 2 years don't likely convey much about today's policies or dancer quality.

Right now I am keeping my 401k in the "stable" fund and waiting for the next bear market before reallocation. I dabble with a few low volatility dividend oriented ETFs in my available brokerage accounts, but I am more focused on paying down mortgage debt on my rentals. It is a safe 3.75% return to squeeze debt out of my life while the market is high and risky.

Like prior posters... I never take my ATM card into the club. By coincidence all 3 of the clubs I visit the most have bank ATMs just a few blocks away, so I have hit those just before entering. I usually leave the club with some cash that I do not finish off during the week, then add to it again for another club visit. I mainly use cash to buy lunches, or go to the vending machine.

I have been working and saving most of my life... Including college when I would work and attend classes. I graduated with several thousand saved and no debt. It is about damn time I enjoy the money I earn.

Within 2 years, weed will probably be legal in Vermont, Rhode Island, Delaware, and Connecticut. And based on statements by future Democratic candidates for governor in New Jersey, Illinois and New Mexico odds are some of those states will follow.

I accrue my checking account about 4 to 5 months in the future... Plan for all known expenses like auto insurance, property taxes, utilities, some reserve for rental repairs, etc. I put 5% minimum in my 401k. This allows me to make good estimates of leftover "pad" in my monthly cash flow. I do not spend all of it on strippers, but *if I wanted to* i could throw about $1500 a month on that. Realistically save several hundred and pay down mortgage debt... And put another several hundred towards girls.

Not as much as I thought I would have... But not doing badly either. I have several rentals, paid off two of them, own my home too. My 401k is worth about what a basic starter home is. I cannot quit working but assuming I quit clubbing... I could work part-time and live off the net rent, wait until social security.

Maybe this thread should have been titled "the dogs got to me." Just about any club has some uglier women that you normally feel like ignoring. This is how you learn about the hidden extras you might have missed... Then you get to decide if you will make an exception to your standards.

I have one fake FB profile with a face that is not mine. Sometimes if I have little to do I will click around on FB Live from my old desktop machine. Never put their app on my phone.. I ick. I don't need more bloatware.

Facebook is very creepy how it ties recommended people together. I have seen similar discussion, how someone can use a separate e-mail, separate physical computer, separate phone, it can still "out" you.

Preaching to the wrong crowd here. PLs generally like women and would confess a need to be near them and touch them. That doesn't mean we pander to them and give them anything. It is enough to be emotionally and financially disciplined around women... We don't need a pile of MGTOW dogma.

When you get to scrape chewing gum off the bottom of your shoes when you get home - you were in a dive.

Charlotte is very "c average" for clubbing. You can do better elsewhere but there are choices and an out-of-town can at least scratch his itch. Gold Club is right beside the Tyvola station if you are spending time in uptown... Very easy to take the Lynx train there and back, avoid traffic or worrying about driving drunk. Leather & Lace in Gastonia is a hole in the wall, no proper privacy there and it does not draw good looking dancers - but yeah you won't spend much at $5 per song. Paper Doll on Wilkinson in west Charlotte is OK. Drink prices are fair, some nice looking dancers, $10 laps can be fun. But it isn't an extras club.

^^ if she was someone I knew, I would have called her on it - ask why she wasted so much time. The club is a place where you can "be real" with women.

I only made it about half way through that pile of text before scrolling to the comments to see if anybody else could figure out the OP's point.

It is not just us, go to a club during shift change and listen to the aggravation of the floor manager trying to text strippers, and figure out which ones are really going to show up!

I'd say it is not a factor... I don't put my hands there unless she leads them there. If she will kiss and allow breast play and grinding off, I'm content

Sometimes a stripper is still living with an "ex" and he puts up with her as someone to help with utilities. I agree the real lives of these women can be very sad, they blew their money on so many foolish things, then become stuck/trapped in a crummy living arrangement.

Isn't commonly true at any club that there are some "extras girls?" The club I'm going to tonight, it has been admitted to me by several strippers that there is a lot of outside activity - however it is the fatter and unattractive strippers doing this, so they don't make the cut for me. The problem with SW is that tries to push this reality into the background as if it isn't even there.

In spite of throwing money on strippers I do make sure to fund my 401k and make extra payments on my rental mortgages. I want a secure retirement that also allows for travel and debauchery.

Clubs have been removing true "rooms" over the past decade. More often nowadays the VIP room is more like a low wall cubicle and possibly recorded on camera. A club that still has true rooms with walls and doors is becoming the exception and they'll charge a high fee for offering this feature.

Just watch some Youporn.com for free, use their filters for you favorite fetish.

I am 49 and started going to clubs regularly a few months ago. Where did my 30s go? Where did my 40s go? Too much time at work, time spent paying off debts, time wasted on personal ads and introduction services... Random women I met in life on the train the bus or at work. I wanna touch flesh, I can afford this, and don't wanna be asking where did my 50s go? There is only so much waiting you can do in life.

Good grief, maybe nobody will reply to your numerous questions... Just put you on ignore right away