Building up horniness level
joc13
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I have a date later tonight and I want to be good and horny when I see her.
I thought browsing a cam site would help, but while I've been able to see some hot women doing kinky stuff, I guess the camming appeal has worn off. I did almost talk a cam girl into becoming a stripper, but she said arranging childcare would be too tough.
What's your favorite go to activity to "fluff" before a date? I'll probably end up in Follies for some dances, but it will take tons of self control not to give in and bust a nut in there first.
I thought browsing a cam site would help, but while I've been able to see some hot women doing kinky stuff, I guess the camming appeal has worn off. I did almost talk a cam girl into becoming a stripper, but she said arranging childcare would be too tough.
What's your favorite go to activity to "fluff" before a date? I'll probably end up in Follies for some dances, but it will take tons of self control not to give in and bust a nut in there first.
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I guess I could go to one of the "lesser" local clubs where I could get turned on by the eye candy but run no risk of busting a nut
It's well accepted that testosterone is released during deep sleep and I stay off the caffeine the day before and get to sleep on time. Day of the date I like to do a lot of cycling in the morning. Not clear if that releases testosterone, but it definitely stirs up the endorphins. Also like to eat light and low-fat that day so that blood goes were it's supposed to go instead of your digestive system.
My suggestion is to go out with someone you find attractive. I've never had a problem getting horny when I've done that.
All this pre-date prep talk sounds kinda gay.
@subraman good points. Follies probably is too much. Date isn't until 9pm anyway, and I don't want to be in Follies that late.
Maybe dinner, around 6, at a place like twin peaks or tilted kilt would be the best. A little eye candy, eat early enough to get digestion out of the way. Then some porn on the laptop at the hotel waiting for her to show up.
I find this point fairly brilliant
Have you considered that you might be gay? (Not that there's anything goes wrong with that)
It sounds likely if you have to try to get horny when with a sexy lady.
Picked up a few tips. Thanks.
I'm assuming this date is with a civvie and not P4P. Maybe that was mentioned but my attention span can by that of a 4 year old.
Many of these suggestions sound good, did anyone mention the obvious Viagra?
In any event, if the equipment doesn't rise (I'm assuming now that is what you mean) just focus on her. Oral, fingers, fist, baseball bat, whatever it takes. I get aroused when she does, and if not at least she won't be disappointed and there can be date #2.
I guess I wasn't clear enough in OP. Not needing to build up horniness to get going, needing to build it up so the "results" don't take too long to get to, and are as impressive as possible.
Obviously, with strippers ITC and P4P girls they get frustrated if they have to work too hard to get you off. They want you to nut quickly so they can move on to next. In this case, not sure what the deal is, but she seems frustrated if she can't get me off quickly the first time (or at all).
I guess I just don't understand the problem...
By that point I can’t even see straight when the date starts but that sure is a fun 3 minuets! Lol
@shailyn exactly, but sometimes even a week of abstinence doesn't shorten that first time. I know she'd be really happy if she could come in, blow me off in about 5 minutes, get her off in 5 minutes, clean up, and hit the club for a couple hours (she has the same taste in strippers that I do, and I went through Subraman's SC training for buddies with her, so she knows how to behave), and then just go with the flow the rest of the night
Actually, I've used Follies a couple times to help make up for bad dates.
And I've learned my lesson about taking dates to Follies. Too much stimulation when there with a date.
Probably too much information, but if I want to build up a nice load, I will find an opportunity to achieve several erections staring with my morning shower and "building up" but not having an orgasm. I've have also experienced one girl that seemed to think it was a race to get me off more quickly. Unless it is a "by the hour" situation, I would explain to her how much you enjoy the build up and taking your time. The aforementioned girl did catch herself and slow down on our third meeting. I haven't seen her for some time though so I don't know if she'd remember.
All the prep work also seemed to make getting started additional times easier, but finishing a second or more time was still problematic. I know we hear that women want men to last longer, but I think there is a point where they lose patience and just want you to be done.
Abstinence prior to a date is a good way to prepare. But sometimes it can be a long time between orgasms.
You, sir, are amazing.
I changed what I ate and drank yesterday, and it seemed to make a difference - I was energized after dinner instead of lethargic. I skipped using a strip club as a fluffer, and at the very least it helped my wallet. I watched porn, but I picked videos that reminded me of her - similar appearance or situation.
She remarked about how ready I was for her, and fessed up to the porn watching. She asked to watch too, so that helped get things started again later.