For you OTCers out there, where is your preferred location of the date? If you guys go somewhere that's not "free" like a hotel, motel, Holiday Inn, do you factor the cost into the negotiated price or is it an extra expense that you just eat for the convenience/comfort. The price of even a discount place can cost close to how much some VIPs charges for their half hour or hourly rates, making it less economical from a financial or time-consuming point of view.
In my limited experience in OTC, I have always used a hotel. It has always been just the cost of doing business in my mind. In fact most of my OTC experiences lately have included dinner and drinks as well as a hotel. The clubs I visit, usually have extras available up to and including FS in vip, so girls that I do OTC with are usually exceptional in my mind. They are ones that interest me above and beyond just their body. Given that fact I enjoy their company a great deal the extra expense is generally compensated by the experience.
As with most things on here, the answer is "it depends".
I approach all OTC (and SB) situations from an initial proposition of going out and then going back to her place for the sexy fun. This has worked out about 75% of the time. The last two girls I've dated off SA though (neither has made it to true SB status), have had really unkempt apts so while the location is free it is sometimes a little scary.
With SA girls I've had pretty good luck convincing them that a fancy overnight date in a hotel (dinner, clubbing, etc) should count as part, or even all, of their compensation for the evening. No such luck with OTC strippers.
Always a hotel. Never a fleabag place, but not high luxury either. I do this primarily for security and privacy reasons. Others meet at their own homes or the stripper's place. That is a level of risk I don't want.
Generally, I absorb the room fee as a cost of business. But, if a dancer gets greedy, I'll remind her that I'm paying for the room. I've used the line "You don't get to charge pro escort rates, because escorts pay for their own rooms."
Everyone has their own way when it comes to this topic. You'll need to figure out what works best for you.
With my ATF, her apartment since she was single and childless. With my other 3 OTC girls, fairly cheap chain motels (Days Inn, Super 8) for $50-60, a cost that I just absorb for the pleasure of their company.
3-4 star hotels acquired on Hotels Tonight or Hotels.com. I wait until I have confirmation that we are meeting then book the room. Like several of the other guys I consider it, dinner, drinks part of the cost of having a quality, full GFE.
Hotels. I don't think I'd be comfortable going to her place until a high level of trust has been established. I, too, travel extensively for work, so hotels are already a given. My ATF and I enjoy a nice dinner more often than not before retiring for the evening and she considers that part of her compensation. In the rare instances I've OTC'd too close to home to justify a hotel on my expense report, I've used points accumulated from the hotel rewards program for free nights. I'm loyal to one brand and travel quite a bit. The points add up quick.
My home is easily #1. That said, I can count on one hand the number of strippers who have been to my home -- and still have fingers left over. I need to seriously know and trust her before I bring her to where my family lives (obviously, my kids are off with their mom during my OTC time). But some of the most amazing times can be had with a home as home base ... including the fact that, 100% of the time, the stripper ends up staying the night.
Hotel is next. The problem with hotels in this area is that most add $200/night, and that's to mucking fuch, especially if we'll only be using it for an hour. Luckily, the Recharge app operates in SF now, so I can rent a high-end hotel for an hour for $50.
Hot tubs are a distant third. By far the most convenient, but even the really nice clean ones I use have a bit of a psychological ick factor, a layout that doesn't allow for a lot of flexibility as far as fun sexual adventure, etc
Thanks for the responses, guys. It seems hotel or similar is by far the top choice. The girls' place is probably avoided due to the possibility of drama (crazy boyfriend/husband, kids possibly, parent(s) even for the youngest girls; i wonder if anyone here's ever done a stripper at her freaking parent's home of all places ). Your place might have similar drama, well not the parents unless your not a chump. Too bad i don't travel much, certainly not enough to get OTC on a single first time strip club visit, although some TUSCLers have mentioned being able to pull that off.
I can just imagine corpulent ol' @MrDouche taking one of his post-menopausal, rotten-toothed, meth-whores out to the local Super-8 -- "a cost he can just absorb for the pleasure of her company."
Almost always hotels. The comfort and security, along with the potential for a longer, more relaxed session are well worth the price and minor loss of convenience from the club. Most of the decent hotels in town are normally in the $70-90 per night (outside Derby Festival and big conventions), and even the 4.5 and 5 star places are usually sub 100 if you use one of the many discount apps. And of course, there's the local per hour places, one of which is $50 for 3 hours, and pretty clean.
I've gone to a few stripper homes, but many of them are sad. Either because they're dumps, or because they're a testament to physical poverty.
Sometimes a stripper is still living with an "ex" and he puts up with her as someone to help with utilities. I agree the real lives of these women can be very sad, they blew their money on so many foolish things, then become stuck/trapped in a crummy living arrangement.
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I approach all OTC (and SB) situations from an initial proposition of going out and then going back to her place for the sexy fun. This has worked out about 75% of the time. The last two girls I've dated off SA though (neither has made it to true SB status), have had really unkempt apts so while the location is free it is sometimes a little scary.
With SA girls I've had pretty good luck convincing them that a fancy overnight date in a hotel (dinner, clubbing, etc) should count as part, or even all, of their compensation for the evening. No such luck with OTC strippers.
Generally, I absorb the room fee as a cost of business. But, if a dancer gets greedy, I'll remind her that I'm paying for the room. I've used the line "You don't get to charge pro escort rates, because escorts pay for their own rooms."
Everyone has their own way when it comes to this topic. You'll need to figure out what works best for you.
I'm not what you'd call classy.
Hotel is next. The problem with hotels in this area is that most add $200/night, and that's to mucking fuch, especially if we'll only be using it for an hour. Luckily, the Recharge app operates in SF now, so I can rent a high-end hotel for an hour for $50.
Hot tubs are a distant third. By far the most convenient, but even the really nice clean ones I use have a bit of a psychological ick factor, a layout that doesn't allow for a lot of flexibility as far as fun sexual adventure, etc
I did.
LOL! What a lucky girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I've gone to a few stripper homes, but many of them are sad. Either because they're dumps, or because they're a testament to physical poverty.