Comments by Ch3ll (page 9)

I agree with Ishmael with the keeping I simple. However, I just get straight to the point and ask are you doing dances? If so, and they aren't repulsed by me, then they're in my lap. Unless a song is starting as this is happening, usually the conversation begins when they're in my lap. And I tend to lead with some of the starters Ishmael stated. Also, nowadays if the conversation doesn't flow for whatever reason, I don't keep shooting conversation starters. . Instead if Im liking her I'll just sit there quiet and rub her if shes cool with it.

If I could relive the moments of first being at a particular strip club I'd say yes, the treatment was better than subsequent visits. However, in my opinion all of my follow up visits have been better because by then the stripper and I are more comfortable with each other and I know her limits. In regards to management, subsequent visits have been better than the first. I haven't had any club disturbance issues or dancer issues so usually it's treatment of being allowed in without my VIP card or finding me a seat, but that's about it so far.

I usually go for the ones showing the most skin. If she has on a one piece that covers alot or her bottom does then I usually cross them off unless they rank as a 9 or 10 on looks.

I don't think that's high if you can afford it. However........once you learn what you can get for your money you'll probably be coming in less than that. When I first started going I was spending anywhere from $180 up to $300 and going every weekend on a Saturday. Nowadays I spend probably $400 - $500 or less every couple of months and that includes SCing and OTC. As far as lifetime of me enjoying this hobby, I'd say I'm somewhere between $7k to $12k and it's been roughly 3 years.

When you don't make eye contact with her because you don't want her to come over.

Mine has been ongoing for a little over two years with my fav. We don't get together on any interval, but we keep in touch. I'd say our otc hookups are like once or twice every two to three months.

Lol. I like WillMunny formula. I think the dancers take into consideration some variables as to how they rate a customer until proved otherwise from their on experience. Nonetheless, of those variables some may be deal breakers, because there are dancers til this day that have seen me in the club to be considered a regular, and never approached me for a dance.

Yes, 100% of my workplace has to use the computer daily. I work in the IT department and know for a fact our Internet browsing is monitored by two organizations. One, a parent company of us and the other a third party if you will. I would never try to browse to TUSCL or even put it in a Google search. I'll admit I do my fair share of browsing that's not job related, but not to the extent of too much time doing so, or content deemed inappropriate. If something is categorized under one of the blocked categories, for example gambling, you'll get a blocked page when trying to go to the site. I've seen only a couple face disciplinary action due to there browsing, but it's usually been coupled with poor performance, not just inappropriate browsing. I think someone would have to be pretty "don't give a fuck" or just don't know any better to try and go to a porn site at work or something that would come under tough scrutiny. When we cutover to the monitoring solution we have now the guy wanted to verify by me going to a porn site and I opted to try social media instead. I just use my cell phone for all my TUSCL browsing while at work.

I've never heard of nearly that amount being exchanged just for convo. I recall reading an article on here or old thread where the customer just wanted convo/time and paid for it, but even he I don't think was dropping over a $1k just for that. I myself have gave for convo/time but only $5 to $7. I'll give some extra if services rendered are exceptional.

@Cashman I agree. Her simple hey message have me thinking...where, when, funds lol

I'll admit they still tend to fool me. I'm just not falling that hard for them like when I first started SCing. My current fav I see OTC, I off and on fall for her. She'll say or do something when we are OTC and it makes me think wow, she does have some genuine feelings or wants to get with me. However, days later she does something and I'll say to myself what the hell was I thinking.

I do especially if we're going to meet OTC pretty quickly. But it has proved confusing and helpful at times. One stripper never would reply to texts initially and when I looked it up it was a land line to an elder man. However, one night in the club she mentions how her stuff got stolen and she got a new phone and needed her contacts back. Well she texted me right then and there and sure enough it was her number. I looked up another stripper and found that she did or had dabbled in escorting. Now if you really want to know, if you have Facebook and she does too and registered with that number you can search the 10 digit number on Facebook and get a result.

Well when I was in Cocoa Beach, FL I took a stripper VIP and nothing as extreme as your experience, but when we came back to the main floor she laid on my chest and just pretty much laid there. No talking, I was rubbing her. I eventually said something because I thought it might cost me for her just laying on me.

In my opinion, I think you're biting off too much for a first time OTC. I know my first time I was nervous, worried, etc. and it probably showed. I'm assuming this isn't her first OTC. Others on here have recalled their first OTC and nervousness and so on. That being said, they'll probably sense it, and take advantage of that if they have cruel intentions. I'd recommend going OTC with your favorite 4 or so times so you get comfortable and can feel her out on how each OTC goes down and interactions between OTCs.

Wishing you a speedy recovery.

Nothing is wrong with front room making out. I do it with two favs of mine. As far as seeing them in the club it varies. Nowadays it's as frequent as I want, which really is a gamble because I just go and if they are there then all the better if there isn't some new hottness I'd like to try. Anyway, I prefer to continuously see them in the club until it's clear they'll never meet OTC, that is if their dances are subpar in the club. There are a select few I may never get OTC but their dances are quite exceptional.

I've had it happen a few times. At a club I like to frequent floor dances are always $10, but come to find out from a truthful stripper (oxymoron) the dances are $7 and that's what she charged me. I ended up giving her as if the dances were $10. Another stripper at this same club quoted me $15 in a $20 per dance VIP, but this was on a slow night so I guess she was trying to make what she could. I ended up paying her the norm too. Another was in VIP with a dancer but the deal only came into play after x amount of dances. Its always nice to run into that stripper that will cut a deal. Last night had a new stripper to me try to charge me $20 for floor dances in an area that's always gone for $10 in my experience.

I've been to Cheater's and Inner Room the two times I was in Orlando. Both were good atmosphere and girl selection. Touching was allowed, no privacy in VIPs it's an open room.

I got some fight posters from a dancer after a fight night, since we were going OTC after club closing.

I think it depends on the club. If it's a popular club already and they're hosting the fight you'll have a nice turnout of dancers. On the other hand if it's a mediocre one, you'll have a bunch of strippers too, but the vibe they give off is different since it's a small customer to dancer ratio.

Nowadays my limit is usually $100 - $140. I'd say of my 10 last visits I've depleted my limit twice. Nowadays I spend usually $3 to $40. I've learned money is best spent on strippers OTC.

Happens all the time. Doesn't matter if it's busy or slow. Sometimes they just come my way before I even get seated well. Others they're with a regular or chatting it up with some customers or other strippers or on their phone. I used to hate when that would happen. Now, I just sit back relax, enjoy my drink and the view of the strippers and chalk it up to money saved.

There is one stripper I miss the club I frequented when I started SCing. I took a gamble with her because I didn't see her giving too many dances and she was a thick Latina. I rate her a 7 on looks. Well, she gave some high mileage dances. No, BBBJ or FS that type stuff in champagne room, well at least that I never got to see. Our last encounter was in the CR and she wanted me to position my dick a certain way in my pants, which I did but then the song ended and I was out of what I planned to spend that night. Since, never saw her again. Each time I came to the club I only had my eye out for her until I realized she probably didn't work there anymore. To this day after about 2 years passing, still haven't seen her there again.

Hard to tell. Never had one hurt themselves, but a couple couldn't OTC because they were sick.