Tips on starting conversations with strippers interested in
OrganicTea
A lot of reviews and discussions talk about waiting to get approached by strippers and while that works, it doesn't all the time like when there are many strippers that you do not want to approach you, and you are targeting one or two specific ones.
Recently was in such a scenario and the stripper was on her phone for quite some time, so when she got off walk over and started teasing her about being on her phone, which worked real well for later since showed that could lead the conversation etc.
A failure was when looked desperate to get her attention, mumbled talking to her, awkwardly accepted few dances, were tame got taken advantage of since show being a true PL.
There is also just giving them the look of you know what's up but have to be at the right place right time for that again.
What are some other ways to start the conversation with strippers instead of the other way around? What has worked for you?
Recently was in such a scenario and the stripper was on her phone for quite some time, so when she got off walk over and started teasing her about being on her phone, which worked real well for later since showed that could lead the conversation etc.
A failure was when looked desperate to get her attention, mumbled talking to her, awkwardly accepted few dances, were tame got taken advantage of since show being a true PL.
There is also just giving them the look of you know what's up but have to be at the right place right time for that again.
What are some other ways to start the conversation with strippers instead of the other way around? What has worked for you?
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I try to keep it simple, though. "How is your shift going?" "Is it always this busy/dead here on (X) day?" "You look like you're in the mood to chat."
It's their job to interact with you. You don't actually have to try that hard. It's not kung-fu.
If she's actually talking on the phone, sure, waiting is acceptable, but if she's tapping with her fingers then just walk on over, she'll welcome your money.
Also if you are talking to the bartender ( sitting at the bar) ask him/her for an introduction if approaching a dancer makes you uneasy.
We make this more complicated than it needs to be because junior is involved. When I first started clubbing, I probably let junior take over my thinking right away. Over time, one learns that acting normal and under control works fine. If things are going well, junior can have fun. If things aren't going well, there are other houses to look at or other realtors to talk to. You are the buyer.
Also, nowadays if the conversation doesn't flow for whatever reason, I don't keep shooting conversation starters. . Instead if Im liking her I'll just sit there quiet and rub her if shes cool with it.
Star Trek is vagina repellent.
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It's important to relax - so it's a bit less unnatural as you chat with half naked beautiful girls.
Some people seem to be answering a different question: "what do you say to her for the next 30 minutes, so neither of you get bored out of your minds", which is an entirely different topic. Despite not being a great conversationalist in general, I seem to be blessed -- or cursed -- with the ability to hold a vaguely interesting conversation with a 20-year-old stripper as long as we're both buzzed; plus I have some topics in reserve that are a hit 100% of the time, and I whip them out when conversation comes to a halt (that, or just order another shot -- another conversation igniter)
I was at another club recently and also had a great convo talking to a twenty something dancer about playing the original Zelda game on Nintendo.
As long as the topic is something in common between custie and dancer, it's fair game for convo.
Examples
Where would you go if you could travel anywhere in the world?
What is one place in the world you wish you lived?
What’s the coolest thing in this city no one knows about?
Most women I know, dancers or not, will talk 30 minutes about any one of those topics alone .