Comments by a21985 (page 12)

Early 30s. Viagra is far from needed, no gray hairs on my ballsack yet, I've got enough money to enjoy myself (without worrying about cutting into potential retirement funds), and I can somehow trick younger dancers into thinking I'm young enough to be able to relate to whatever the hell whippersnappers are up to these days. Millenials just have that unspoken connection with each other.

@Shailynn- Phoenix clubs get the best looking girls since they get to recruit girls right out of ASU. It's the best thing Arizona State grads can do with their degree, I should know, I lived there for a bit and married an ASU girl. That said, between Phoenix/Southwest area and Detroit/Midwest, all my fond strip club experiences are from the Michigan clubs despite my Tempe/Phoenix beginnings, so I have a strong bias between the two on what's best. But if I think rationally, outside of Detroit, the midwest/rust belt SC scene is pretty damn supbar, while people only have good things to say about most Phx clubs and Vegas is the (albeit overrated/overpriced) Mecca of strip clubs. The Desert southwest for the win.

I actively seek out under 25 aged strippers and have the most fun with them. However, I usually end up regularly frequenting dancers in their late 20s.

Haha, you did daty, but she wouldn't give you head, and you ended up paying her?!?! Bahahahah. C'mon Larry, that's amateur shit. She's not technically a ROB, it's just that you didn't do you due dillegence and gave her full control since no expectations were set. Lesson learned...hopefully.

It is crazy. Lot's of people don't really make it because the low level jobs don't provide a living wage. Many are forced into government assistance and/or debt they can never climb out of. But like many here can tell you those things should be temporary even though success in the real working world is not something that comes overnight. It does take time and hard work. I remember my first job out of college making a bullshit $8/hr. Now what I used to make in a day, I make in like an hour of work. One day, stripping won't be an option for you, you know that. It's delayed gratification, but the sooner you get acclimated in the workforce, the sooner your serviceable skillset will grow. Good luck to you but welcome back for now.

@ime - unprecedented opposition?!?! His party has a majority in both the house and the senate and he was able to handpick a supreme court justice. Just what in the world is your definition of "unprecedented opposition" because from my vantage point, if he is indeed halfway comptent and has ideas/plans that are actually good and realistic, his actual resistance is close to nil and only is self created as excuses. "Noise" from the outside and media is not unprecented opposition, its simply being the president, especially when you're not doing a terribly great job and aren't very popular. Obama absolutely had to deal with that, George W certainly did as well. Don't make excuses where there aren't any.

@dom - Real curious here...what do you mean by "mandates for things not everyone needs or wants (maternity, etc...)." That struck a bit of a nerve with me, so before I misconstrue anything and look like a complete jackass by responding to hastily, I'd like to be educated on what you meant there.

Nope, don't care. Of the 3, Vince has been nothing but helpful while Rick and Dougster can get annoying in their own ways (dougster does it on purpose and on occasion its funny, Rick's OT opinions are often opposite of mine and presented obnoxiously). The latter 2 do have moments of clarity and insight, there's just a lot of me subconciously or purposely blocking them out.

It must be spring, because there are way too many guys on here recently falling in love with strippers who only love money and drama.

Oh shit. Niiiiiiice.

Politely and honestly, there was a lot there you could've done much much better gere. First off you are acting like an extreme RIL, she's just a stripper, and even to a stripper who's just after your money, desperation ain't good look for anyone. The waiting around thing was super creepy. That would freak the shit out of me, so imagine what a girl who deals with questionable people everyday thought about it. Lastly, the money thing. Really? Why do all of this and then go out when you didn't know if you have the money to cover it? It's beyond baffling to me. Thats asking for trouble in so many ways. Really at this point, I wouldn't blame the ATF in the slightest for breaking it off with you and it might do you some good if that happens.

The Seinfeld scene reddit users created out of this occurence was amazing. It's gold, Jerry, gold! https://www.reddit.com/r/bestof/comments/6fofni/jerry_seinfeld_rejects_keshas_hug_several_users/

Difference between modern day satirists like Groening and Parker/Stone and a rogue activist/documentarian like Moore is the former creates commentary that sheds light on a topic with enteraining, while the latter leaves a path of destruction in it's wake in order to make a point. Long story short, one of my cousins is now dead thanks to the events that occured after being misled and public shamed in a documentary by Moore. I'm a liberal, but I despise Michael Moore more than more than even the most anal of conservatives.

@ppwh - perfect impression, just like he'd say. @Subra - this just might be the most reasonable weekly challenge I've seen.

@subra - would you say that in this case, buying dances is a chumps game and that it's best to treat her like any other girl by wooing her in the front room with lunch and under the table handies? Also, have any links on tarot card reading and architecture while you're at it?

On second though flavor #2 just made me gag by the sound of it, and flavor 3 sounds like it would be a dissapointment.

OTCheddar. BBBJalapenoCIM. Air Dance Puffs.

"Sadsak's in love with a stripperrrrrr!" But seriously, there are a ton of strippers, no matter how special one seems, they're still a dime a dozen. If she's not giving you what want, move on. I would not crown a girl my ATF or even CF if she's not meeting my expectations for services rendered.

I'm under the impression a fair amount of them are swingers and cucks, whether or not they're open about it. Another sizeable portion probably care more about money than the sanctity of their relationship. Past that, there probably is a group of absolutely oblivious morons, but my guess is there are a lot less of them than there are of the former groups.

Lowes heard about the great job they were doing there with moving and packing, so they hired them.

Hey Kill, kinda sounds like you're trying to date strippers whether you realize it or not: Dinners, hanging out, sometimes sex, working on "projects" together, et... That's cool. Just come out and tell us next time rather than beating around the bush.

@Kill - I don't think anyone has issue with you wanting to do what you want to do at a club. But there is a couple issues here: 1. How you came out guns blazing and talking down to everyone. Regardless of what you want to believe, you are on a forum with a lot of guys much more experienced than you when it comes to clubbing, and many more who are ay least damn good at getting what they want at a SC. If you want meaningful advice/conversation here more than simply ego-stroking and bragging, then that's most certainly not the way to start out. 2. What is having a "connection" mean to you, and what in fact are you doing with these girls. A connection seems hard to accomplish with out a conversation (which you said you don't care about), you don't pay for sex, you don't date them...so is your "connection" leading them on and having one night stands with girls who are supposedly decebt? I dunno, I may have missed this, but I don't recall this ever being answered. 3. Are you actually looking for advice or do you have any meaningful advice to share? This topic seems to have very little purpose unless it was intended as a humblebrag.

I'm confused. So are you saying you meet girls at strip clubs who don't have any baggage and don't really fuck customers, and then you fuck them for free and move on? Or are you saying you meet girls at strip clubs who simply are good at holding a rational, coherent conversation and then you fuck them at the going rate?

Moral of the story - your quest for a "decent" girl is pathetic. Since were all PLs here, as long as you have your epiphany that makes you realize your way of clubbing is absolutely no better than all our other pathetic styles, you'll fit right in. Old PL dogs can still learn new tricks.

@kill - whats the relevance of finding a "decent" girl unless you are looking for a girlfriend (not necessarily in real life romantically or plutonically, but maybe for fantasy purposes for GFE in the club)? I don't think anyone here goes out of there way to look for an asshole dancer with tons of baggage, but unless they have delusions or are looking for more outside of the club, most people don't really care about finding a girl who is "bring home to mom" material.