Are strippers' boyfriends really that stupid?
MrDeuce
Illinois
Thursday, June 8, 2017 11:53 AM
From January to March I enjoyed a number of dates, including four sleepovers at her place, with my ATF, who had starting dating an ex-con on home detention in his mom's trailer. (True story!) On our January date, after I hadn't seen her for three months, I asked her if I had anything to worry about from the BF, and she clarified the whole situation: he had been released from prison last year and would be sporting an ankle bracelet for a *long* time, so he wasn't in any position to interrupt us. When I asked her if he knew about our date, she explained that he knew we had gone out for dinner and thought she was just "doing dances" for me in my hotel room. In fact, she was "doing BJs" for me in her bedroom :)
This happened three more times (plus an afternoon) over the next two months, and apparently she told him the same unbelievable (to me) story every time. My question is: Can he really be stupid enough to believe that his stripper girlfriend is merely doing air dances in a hotel room? I should mention that her club is well-known, at least among hobbyists, as an extras club.
I have a follow-up question: What percentage of strippers' BFs know that their girl is either sucking or fucking customers, ITC or OTC? How many even care as long as the money is coming in?
Call me old-fashioned, but I can't imagine knowing that my girlfriend or wife was engaging in sexual activity with other men for money!
This happened three more times (plus an afternoon) over the next two months, and apparently she told him the same unbelievable (to me) story every time. My question is: Can he really be stupid enough to believe that his stripper girlfriend is merely doing air dances in a hotel room? I should mention that her club is well-known, at least among hobbyists, as an extras club.
I have a follow-up question: What percentage of strippers' BFs know that their girl is either sucking or fucking customers, ITC or OTC? How many even care as long as the money is coming in?
Call me old-fashioned, but I can't imagine knowing that my girlfriend or wife was engaging in sexual activity with other men for money!
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It's stories like this that re-affirm what we all know: Strippers are the caviar of the sex industry.
1. Try asking the question the other way around. The hot chick goes home at night to a dude who gives her the total shivvers about how alpha-male he is (never mind whether or not she is correct about his alpha-status as based on his criminal conviction/s; and, never mind whether or not she OUGHT to be interested in that potentially "wrong" type of guy; just, mind whether or not she DOES get turned on). She says, "Honey, are clients that stupid? I mean, there I was treating him like he was God, but he even KNOWS that you are a damn MONSTER OF A MAN and I'm still seeing you. I take his money, I take LOTS of his money, and all he fuckin' thinks about is whether or not he can get his wee-wee to squirt. I mean, he can't be SO stupid that he somehow thinks that I actually APPROVE OF or LIKE him, can he? Anyway, here's the cash, go get some blow. Did you order the pizza? OK, then, I'll phone Hungry Howies ..."
Heh. Jus' sayin' ...
Option 2. So, have you ever seen the girls who strip at MOST low-scale down-market clubs in smaller cities, when they're in their civvies? There is some girl who is about a 6 on the ultimate over-all scale (OK, so technically she's a 4 in LA or an 8 in Seattle), but she's still young. She knows how to put on LOTS of stage-make-up; she still has a young girl's body; she hasn't started adding "adult fat" in that way that most of the girls at college put on the "freshman ten" pounds right when they move out of the house. One reason she hasn't added the "freshman ten" is, that she can't get into college. Another reason is, she is on meth-amphetamines or cocaine or at least a lot of coffee ALL THE TIME. So, as far as her looks, as long as the lights stay low, and you don't think about her appearance in "real world" terms but rather you simply ogle the female assets and (as we are wont to do? yes we are, aren't we?) simply compare the one girl on stage to the other three girls you've seen on stage that night, she is a STUNNER. And there she is, some dopey 22 year old with no prospects at all, mom and dad disowned her when she got a tattoo or when she ran away from Mormonville, UT, to the "big" city of Boise. Or Buffalo. Or some other place that starts with B. Imagine that she's living in a trailer park. A skinny barely-post-adolescent pimply-faced white boy drives her to and from "work" (the strip club) and tries to perform the act of "I'm as tough as Eminem, this is Five Mile baby" with his backwards baseball cap and she sees RIGHT THROUGH HIM. But what the fuck, she's not going to DUMP him, is she? I mean, at least there's a ROOF and that breakfast place in the trailer park and the next door neighbor will spot her a cigarette when she runs out. Meanwhile you're paying over $300 an hour just for her company.
I dunno. Jus' sayin' ...
@25: Of *course* you're picking a fight -- it's what you do! And I know she has other regulars, including a few that she sees OTC, but I'm the only overnighter.
@a+digits: "swingers and cucks" -- I love it!
@jackslash: Yes, I'm increasingly aware of her questionable veracity. She no longer fools me, but she may still be fooling him.
@papi: She has a weird attraction to bad boys, as I've indicated before. Besides money, I represent the upper-middle-class values with which she was raised and which she has been rejecting since she was a kid.
@Book Guy: Yes, it's quite possible that he is totally in the know and that they have a good guffaw when she gets home from blowing me a couple of times. What I pay her, BTW, is only about $450 (ranging from $350 to $525) for a 16-hour overnight date. Oh, and she's one of the cutest girls in the club and has a bachelor's degree. She just makes horrible choices in terms of boyfriends and drugs.
But, getting back to the first sentence. Did you ever see that episode of Seinfeld where he's with the hot chick, and she is basically the skeleton key to life? Movie sold out? He sends her to talk to the theater, she gets them in. Speeding ticket? He has her talk to the cop and he gets away with just a warning. With some of the strippers I"ve been with OTC, life is like a less-sitcom version of that ... they manipulate men, successfully, constantly.
@justme: Oh, I don't care about his feelings in the matter. I also don't get any special thrill from "nailing the ex-con's stripper", as @Subra so colorfully put it. I'm just mystified by this degree of cuckoldry.
@rane man: No doubt many strippers are pimped out, but I'm pretty sure that's not what's going on here. I think he knows what she does but she makes so much more money than him that he suppresses that knowledge.
There girls have a right to their private lives, they want long term attachment. A guy who has got to wear an ankle bracelet has only two choices is life, comply, or start a revolution.
Some guys get these fitted to them very early, and the only time they can ever take them off is when they get tossed back into jail. It is tough.
In the organization I am building, those who go for it, will have life long memberships to look forward too. So for example a woman, she should come to dump her outside people who don't measure up to our standards. But then also, we will be always fighting for progressive reforms and for those with the least, and even trying to stimulate revolution. We will never have anything like Recovery or Rehabilitation. But we will have Restorative Justice.
And MrDeuce, remember, you are fucking the girl, so you are no better than she and her other guys of all types.
SJG
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I don't think most of the boyfriends care too much, just as long as the dancers keep giving them money.
Tip to estimate how long a dancer will stay married, check the credit rating of the boyfriend. Low credit ratings are much more likely to get divorced.
Simultaneously, she has talked her boyfriend into believing that she only gives you lapdances, and he likely believes that because he also wants to fuck her. He also probably wants (and gets) a cut of your cash.
People talk themselves into believing a lot of improbable things. Double that when there's sex involved.
Consider that the only person in this scenario who has all (or nearly all) of the facts is the stripper.
But I have more respect for that guy than I do for video girls' boyfriend. He knows all about her being a whore, and she says that he knows exactly what we do together, and he's fine with it. She says it's because they have an "open relationship."
And you're paying for his drugs and Xbox.
Who's that stupid?
How much do you think he cares about here?