is it possible to find a 'decent' girl in a club?
Ok so I'm new here I just discovered this site but I'm definitely not new to the SC scene. Been going to several different clubs for years and everything that I've learned I did on my own but there was always alot of things that always remained a mystery to me. And after reading alot of the stuff on here, it brings some clarity to me. But to be honest 90% of the what's posted on here sounds like bullshit you fucks made up to fuel your egos.
But my biggest question I have is...is it possible to meet a decent girl in a strip club? In my opinion...yes but it is extremely rare. What I mean by decent is that she's not a prostitute, she's not a golddigger, not a drug addict, has a good heart, and she legitimately likes you.
I know what most of you fucks are thinking, why would you want to date a stripper? Just fuck her.She only wants your money. Etc...
What you have to keep in mind is that not everybody has the same motives for going to a stripclub and not every bodies SC experience is the same. As I stated before, I've been going to strip clubs for years and I've met some of the most amazing girls and honestly I think if you're intelligent enough you can easily sort out who's fake and who's real. Actions speak louder than words...
But my biggest question I have is...is it possible to meet a decent girl in a strip club? In my opinion...yes but it is extremely rare. What I mean by decent is that she's not a prostitute, she's not a golddigger, not a drug addict, has a good heart, and she legitimately likes you.
I know what most of you fucks are thinking, why would you want to date a stripper? Just fuck her.She only wants your money. Etc...
What you have to keep in mind is that not everybody has the same motives for going to a stripclub and not every bodies SC experience is the same. As I stated before, I've been going to strip clubs for years and I've met some of the most amazing girls and honestly I think if you're intelligent enough you can easily sort out who's fake and who's real. Actions speak louder than words...
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And I haven't found that being a prostitute has much bearing on whether or not a girl is "decent."
Yes, here are decent dancers out there. I've met several and I don't even get out all that much.
And it's: 90% what's here is 'chest thumping fibsters' so GET IT RIGHT! ;)
Look, I'm not into prostitution (or cheating on spouses) and I used to look down on full service (FS) sex workers, too. But the dancers taught me that's not cool. So don't look down on FS sex workers. They're humans just trying to survive with the opportunities they have.
I kind of used to be like you 2 years ago in that I was horrified I what was written on the Tuscl forums. But I've come to appreciate the libertarian unmoderated free speech aspect of it. But there are a lot of successful, intelligent men and women here. :)
And don't get twisted, real stories and fake ones, a big part of this hobby (if not the biggest) is ego stroking...even ones like this where you talk about how good you are at finding "decent girls." Anyways, welcome to the site, we look forward to your insights!
As for the specific question, since I'm known for falling "in love" with my dream strippers, I have to agree that there are definitely decent girls in the club. I wouldn't say that they are extremely rare, but they are a distinct minority. These are the kind of girls that I like to pursue, assuming hat they are young and gorgeous.
Ace!
"It's a strip club, not a girlfriend supermarket"...
That's actually the whole point of this article for me...because to me that's exactly what it is. Like I said every bodies experience is different. You might not see it like that because your motives are different. It wasn't mine in the beginning until I started to meet girls that were special. I had no idea it would turn into a lifestyle...
At a personal level I might not want to date such a girl (unless she gave up the life and a bunch of other things clicked) but it is seriously non-brilliant to look down on them for that reason alone.
And if you find a JohnSmith69 style DS (that's dream stripper since you're new) be sure to share plenty of crazy stories! :)
Step two is to define nice/good/decent.
I'll refer back to a recent comment I made on here which is most strippers have baggage but I have my own fair share as well--meaning I don't judge and they deserve every chance as I do to be treated with respect until they prove otherwise.
Having said that trying to date a stripper ( as opposed to a person who happens to be one for a living) is a bit like repeatedly putting your hand on the lit burner of a stove and wondering why the result is the same time and again.
But do share some crazy stories. Crazy stories = aces!
We all say how fucked up strippers are, but ever think the person who asks that is so fucked up as well that they can't find a traditional relationship with a normal girl? Or they can't find a normal girl as hot as a stripper willing to date them, because they may look like a troll themselves?
Carry on.
Strippers who have their life mostly together have options, and want men who want them for more than just their sexuality. None of the girls I know are even with guys who have money, or who are expectionally hot. Strippers have normal romantic feelings ab guys, but we are exposed to so many that it becomes obvious when there's a real spark, vs a guy who is just a good "catch". But is a guy looking for a gf in the club even a good catch? He prolly just wants a free sex worker.
Strippers actually like lots of guys, but that's not the same as having romantic feelings. You can tell if she really cares ab you bc she will buy you gifts, or pay for things. Strippers are very generous towards their loved ones. Her not accepting money from you might just be bc it's not how she is using you.
But if that's not what you're looking for you will never see it.
God Damned Autocorrect !!!!
Old PL dogs can still learn new tricks.
Either here as a troll or to try to get validation that you are the guy you imagine you are...
Either contribute or troll somewhere else...
He's looking for a decent girl. Selling sex for money doesn't automatically make you not decent. How you treat other people. Honestly, fairly and with respect.
There are plenty of people who take the so called moral high ground, but are pieces of shit based on how they treat others.
Or are you saying you meet girls at strip clubs who simply are good at holding a rational, coherent conversation and then you fuck them at the going rate?
And papi culo, you sound like a bitter old fart who's best days Are behind him. It's my time now old man, Just accept it...
I think he's the one in the lavender. I could tell that guy has swagger. *swoon*
You will find all types, but they are still just ordinary girls. Some have drug and alcohol problems. More, have just gotten accustomed to giving guys what they want. Nothing wrong with that. Many are going to school, trying to build second careers.
But if you don't like them, don't respect them, then best you just stay away from them.
SJG
Actually I'm the old fartown ( not bitter ) but my best days are aheadoing of me.
I for one don't care why or how you enjoy SC's. Everyone should find their own way. But I still don't know what it is you're looking for out of an SC other than you're not looking to date, you are looking for a connection.
I'm going to be honest, it's hard enough finding a connection with a woman in the real world let alone in the fantasy world of strip clubs.
Dancers do not come to the club looking for connections. They want to make you feel as though there is a connection. It's what good salespeople do. Find a way to relate so you will purchase what they are selling. Lap dances. And then have you come back for more.
If you want to see if you can make a connection in the club, go to the club with no money and see if there are any girls who will hang with you every time knowing she won't make any money off of you. If you find her, that's the one you made a connection with. Otherwise you don't know 100% because those girls are there to make money, decent or otherwise.
SJG
Nature Boy, sheet music, first page
http://d29ci68ykuu27r.cloudfront.net/pro…
Of the two uses of the word 'far', E -> Eb and D -> Db, most instrumentalists don't literally play that at all.
But this guy does on his piano, you can even watch his fingers:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MOQr534R…
Here Celine Dion, is she really singing both notes, and with fixed temper tuning?
Piano tuning can be of many types, but it is never fixed temper tuning.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RSQyzit5…
But to the OPs point. I don't think its nothing wrong with meeting beautiful women and having a connection...He just wants to do that at the stripclub...instead of going to a bar or Starbucks or hell Walmart...
Im not hating Kill lol
1. How you came out guns blazing and talking down to everyone. Regardless of what you want to believe, you are on a forum with a lot of guys much more experienced than you when it comes to clubbing, and many more who are ay least damn good at getting what they want at a SC. If you want meaningful advice/conversation here more than simply ego-stroking and bragging, then that's most certainly not the way to start out.
2. What is having a "connection" mean to you, and what in fact are you doing with these girls. A connection seems hard to accomplish with out a conversation (which you said you don't care about), you don't pay for sex, you don't date them...so is your "connection" leading them on and having one night stands with girls who are supposedly decebt? I dunno, I may have missed this, but I don't recall this ever being answered.
3. Are you actually looking for advice or do you have any meaningful advice to share? This topic seems to have very little purpose unless it was intended as a humblebrag.
And since you have had sex with some of these girls, how do you know they haven't done similar things with other customers?
I'm not trying to hate, I'm trying to better understand how this goes for you. If you can find girls ITC who you find attractive, you don't pay for dances, who are willing to hang out OTC, pay their share of what you do together and still have sex with them free, I'll tip my cap to you.
:)
SJG
SJG
Worth pursuing? Probably not.