Comments by SteveSutton (page 5)

Nope ... can’t risk it given I have a family. If I was single, bored and dumb ... still not for that price.

A lot. I work from home by myself normally, now I have my wife and two kids home all day. No more eating out. No visiting friends. No entertainment (movies, concerts). Limit any kind of shopping to only groceries when absolutely needed. No kids play dates. No business travel so no clubbing (I know clubs are closed). No SA (way too risky, and usually done on business trips). Much more TV (Tiger King is great and currently rewatching all episodes of the office). On the flip side, we are currently healthy (knock on wood), both still working from home, and since we do monthly budgeting we noticed we had our lowest expense month in years.

Too long ago. So many opportunities right now, but as a married man, just way too risky.

Papi Chulo - Thanks for the feedback. We went into a private booth. We didn't negotiate anything upfront, nor did I ask. Again, my mistake. If it's 5 songs for $125 then I overpaid (a lot), simple as that. She was laughing all the way to the bank making double the rate, not having to do anything or even take anything off. And then she ghosted me. I'm laughing at myself as I'm writing this, but I deserve a damn Darwin award.

Yes married. Wife knows about clubbing, and extra curricular activities via clubbing or internet sites like SA. No, it's not an issue as due to medical issues she is unable to have and/or enjoy sex, and she's happy I get my fair share, though she's not happy about the money aspect of it all. But I'm done with my days of going to a club or hotel bar just hoping to find a freebie ... it never happens. So I watch the spending carefully. She has zero interest in joining, so that's not going to happen.

- Use SA less ... it's too damn expensive, and I'm tired of sob stories - go back to Strip Clubs more ... I have missed it a bit lately - Visit my friend in Moscow in July for Rammstein concert; go to Night Flight, and pickup a super hot Russian girl - Visit HK in Tijuana. Going to be in LA in January, so may take the plunge at that time - Stop wasting money on non-extra dances and be a lot smarter about budgeting/spending, etc. - Have at least a couple of OTC encounters with a stripper, not SA girl - Lose the 30 lbs. I gained the last 3 months traveling for business every damn week

Hotel or her place. Usualy her place is a shithole though but as long as it has a bed or couch. .... never ever my place.

Alright I'll bite on this one. Before 3 weekends ago, it was just under $800 dollars. Then I met an SA girl I had been chatting/facetiming with at Sapphire's in Vegas and broke the bank with skybox, bottle service etc. More than a couple grand that night. She was super hot, and I have no regrets. Thankfully after spending all that dough ITC, we did end up at my hotel for a few hours. We still chat/facetime now but I just don't think I can afford her again, even though I want to. Decisions, decisions .....

Exactly - big state. In Western PA, Partners Tavern in Erie has VIP w/extras (and affordable).

Not my cup of tea ... at all.

No because I know she’s lying. Once had an SA girl text me “how’s my big dick daddy” and had to laugh. We hadn’t met yet. I had to disappoint her but said I have a magic tongue to make up for being average. When we finally met ... she agreed ;-)

For $500 I would pickup one or multiple hotel girls. As has been said, wait till late (after midnight is best), and around 2 AM seems to be "prime time". Most girls will not go from another hotel to yours though.

For me, I don't like it. Have seen it once or twice and it's a turnoff. Reminds me of home where when it's that time of the month the black panties come out and there is definitely no intimacy lol. But hey, I understand you gotta make a living, so some of the cover ups mentioned here (cut string, put string inside) should work a-OK.

Happened to me once, though it was more of a peer than a 'higher up'. We did not avoid each other in the club, and chatted for a bit and then he left it with a "nobody else needs to know we do this, right?", and that was exactly how I felt too. Hasn't been an issue since.

Yes I was there on a Sunday evening 2 weekends ago. No I did not see any black customers though i was only on the floor area for maybe 45 minutes total. And yes, agree with all the feedback above ... I went to see a specific young lady, but I will not return. Super expensive, much better value at other places in Vegas like Palomino's.

I had been worried about the same thing. My online research however convinced me this is basically a no risk activity. I'm talking primarily about HIV which is most monger's biggest fear. Some folks will say there is theoretical risk, however google Dr Hook STD forum and you'll see this question asked over and over again, and the answer is always the same that you'd be the first documented case of getting HIV this way, and you're not going to be.

When even Fox News (other than Hannity of course) is on your case, you know it's been a bad day ....

City of Industry is best, but quite a way from Santa Monica. I'd probably go to Bare Elegance by the airport, fully nude, lots of Eastern European girls.

Hoping for Croatia ... but France will probably win on a set play 1-0. As has been said, I'll take Croation girls any day over French girls, with the exception of Adele Exarchopoulos who is my crush (check out "Blue is the warmest color" to find out ;-)

One thing to add ... 8 PM is pretty early for this club. It's open 24 hours, and prime time is from midnight till 5 AM or so. Somebody already said it's about shift change time at 8 PM so it may take a while to really get going. But as you know, it only takes that one "perfect" girl to make (or ruin) the evening.

So I was at Sapphire's last Sunday. Some pointers: - There are tons of girls. They all will accost you for dances, non stop. One leaves, the next one is right there. - Be wary of those who want to take you to a tour upstairs ... they are intending to get you into a skybox or suite or whatever they call them, but it's going to cost you well over $2K for just an hour if you include (mandatory) bottle service and expected tip. And an hour goes by super quick, so if you do more it will add up. And yes, I learned this expensive lesson myself. - If you want to avoid this from happening, only bring cash and no credit or debit cards. I made this cardinal mistake ... little head started thinking more than big head, and now the bills have hit my account and it's a bit insane tbh. - Take out is available but again, it's going to cost you. I was quoted $4K by a girl there in the skybox, and my I literally gasped. Let me just say it's negotiable, but still way above take out cost anywhere else. - All that said, this is a very nice club with very nice girls. It's upscale, and very professional, so no complaints there. However, they are experts at seduction, and separating you from your dollars, so just keep that in mind. You will leave broke, it's just a matter of how much you brought. If your budget is a couple hundred bucks, go to Palomino's instead (fully nude too). You'll need at least $1K or much more to live it up at Sapphire's. Have fun!

To build on that last comment ... Sapphires in Vegas, last weekend, first time there. Expected to spend about $1K. Ended up with a gorgeous blonde in the skyboxes or whatever they're called for a couple of hours. Needless to say, I overspent by a ton as I used my card (I know, cardinal sin). But I did end up getting her to my room at a nice hotel on the strip for a couple of hours later that same night, or morning to be exact. She was worth it, I have no regrets, but no more Vegas for me for a looooong time till I replenish my funds! My total spending for the night is what went (significantly) sideways.

Yes. 4 including my wife before marriage. Then another 20 after when we decided an open relationship was OK. And yes, I did keep track of them all. Oh, and I only consider "sex" to be penetrative. Plenty more HJ's; BJ's, some with CIM; FIV; DATY ... of those all, I have lost count. It's not a lot, but I am very happy to have tasted some variety post marriage that I really didn't have before.

I agree during the day it's not that obvious. However, after midnight, this is blatantly obvious to the point it makes me wonder if this is a real legitimate question. The second review is spot on: "If an attractive woman is staring at you she’s an escort." Exactly.

You're so hot, I'll fuck you for free.