Guys - do you like it when the dancer compliments or comments about how big your Johnson is during a lap dance? I personally love it, even though (maybe because) I'm really average.
No because I know she’s lying. Once had an SA girl text me “how’s my big dick daddy” and had to laugh. We hadn’t met yet. I had to disappoint her but said I have a magic tongue to make up for being average. When we finally met ... she agreed ;-)
The majority of compliments given to me over the years by strippers are fake. Do I still like hearing them? For the most part yes. Cmon, most of us go to strip clubs for a fantasy in the first place.* Havent you paid someone a compliment that you really didn’t mean or believe? I sure as hell have.
* jackslash goes to strip clubs to watch TV since he doesn’t have cable / Juice goes for the food / crazyjoe goes to use the shitter and talk to the bathroom troll / GACA goes looking for a new wife / everyone goes to a strip club for fantasies
Ha ha - no cat, that's decidedly bad. I had an atf who was gorgeous and knew all the right things to say to push my buttons - I told her she was a 10 (true), she replied I was an 11 (false), big dick, her best looking customer, look like a pro athlete, have to change her g-string after dancing for me etc. I loved it and would LDK almost every time we went back - probably 20 times over the years. Unfortunately, she gained a lot of weight and that was it for me. Awkward times when she see me walk into the club and rush over and I tell "not right now" when she offered to go back for a private dance.
Do dancers really do this? Just find something to genuinely say. Whenever I say “has anyone ever told you that...” the customer will nod cause they already knew.
That being said I’ve heard Trojan’s XL’s condoms aren’t actually XL
I’ve found - after performing limited research - that in certain cases - dancers who don’t speak much English will make over the top statements regarding fucking and cock size.
“Oh fuck me hard with that big dick!” Of course - it’s not always easy to understand what’s being said due to the loud music and heavy accent.
I wish we could do a poll to see how many guys actually like hearing stuff like that when they know it isn’t true. I’m like nicespice and mostly say things that are genuine. If I feel a big one of course I’ll say something, if it’s average I just comment on how hard they are for me. I still remember a customer from 4 years ago who had the HUGEST boner I’ve ever felt during his dance and I praised him for it but really I’d never want something that big in me
Damn...maybe I should hurry up with getting a “real job” after all. Except when applying I will have to have a better poker face than a dancer claiming someone has a big dick! :p
It takes balls to spew some of the shit that comes from my mouth on a daily basis. I’ve cringed several times with the shit the senior managers love to hear!
Filapino stripper always does the broken English but she speaks straight out oxford and attended Syracuse. Cracks me up to hear her do the "Me love you good long time." act. She says it's worth $50-100 a night to do the act.
Zoey101 - why can't you take a poll ? I'm sure a lot of guys like it. I love it personally. I guess it's a fetish. I also like porn in which the woman verbally praises the guy's big cock. When I did phone sex back in the 90's, I'd have the girl say I had a big cock (obviously BS, but I suspended disbelief for the fantasy). I don't know what term is for my fetish if there is one - maybe I'm a just a narcicist. My current favor is a Brazilian who says everything in a thick accent - not as much of a turn-on for me as an American girl (like my atf mentioned above) for some reason.
how do I do a poll? I’ve asked guys @ work and it seems 50/50 either “fuck yeah it’s so hot” or “no i get turned off when it’s too fake, I like a girl who’s real”.. but idk those are just my customers I think some girls are better at hardcore dirty talk. I have to be in the right mood
I think in general people prefer those who are more like themselves.
For example, sometimes people on here complain about how much white girls charge, but that’s because they appeal most easily to white men, who tend to have more money and are happy to pay them their price.
nicespice - your probably right. But sexual attraction is kind of uncontrollable and can't made politically correct or color-blind or whatever - it has a will of it's own. Good example are guys who are hung-up and hate themselves for being in the closet gay, but are still sexually attracted to mean. They can't control it.
"I think in general people prefer those who are more like themselves."
@ NiceSpice--In that case I am apparently confused as I am so white bread it is scary, seriously, I burn when I sit near a lamp and I am Scots/Irish/British descent, had red hair before it left for my lower back and I love Asian, Hispanic or AA women. My wife was Italian/AA. Actually, for me, it is dark hair, dark eyes and lovely caramel or toast skin. Not a fan of blonde or red head at all and white skin like mine is an anathema.
I don't like compliments that seem fake. The big dick compliment coming from a dancer, I always read that as SS. Mainly because I hear a lot of guys who say their dancer told them that. But when I get that same comment from regular girls I take that as sincere.
I don't like a dancer telling me she is wet, or she is so horny, or any kind of stuff that's easy (or sometimes SO obvious) to lie about. I DO appreciate her taking my hand and showing me that she really is wet. Or if she initiates DFK then that's better then saying she's horny . The dancer initiating DFK has only happened twice out of tons of dances/VIPs.
I rather them just say genuine stuff like nicespice says. Even if it's vague and not much, at least it's realistic. That fake moaning and overdone SS is a serious turn off to me. Just give me a good dance, a smile or seductive luck while you're doing it would be great, and let me get some cool mileage.
My CF now, when it gets down to the dances for the most part she's silent but her ass and tits are doing the 'talking' that I care about.
As long as they sound sincere I take it as genuine. If I get the same compliments that other women IRL have given me I take it as sincere. But it's not really a big deal to me. I'm all about the physical flirting and teasing anyway. I don't need much conversation when my dick is hard.
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One time when I got that line I basically rolled my eyes and sarcastically said, "really?" We both laughed. That was her last dance though.
* jackslash goes to strip clubs to watch TV since he doesn’t have cable / Juice goes for the food / crazyjoe goes to use the shitter and talk to the bathroom troll / GACA goes looking for a new wife / everyone goes to a strip club for fantasies
Do dancers really do this? Just find something to genuinely say. Whenever I say “has anyone ever told you that...” the customer will nod cause they already knew.
That being said I’ve heard Trojan’s XL’s condoms aren’t actually XL
“Oh fuck me hard with that big dick!” Of course - it’s not always easy to understand what’s being said due to the loud music and heavy accent.
"No. No. Too beaucoup! Too beaucoup!"
"Me so horn-yyy"
Make Cash and I splooge early.
I’m getting very beaucoup in my pants imagining NiceSpice saying that - and “meee soo hony!”
@cashman lol
Is that a more subtle take on the, "I'm not racist, I have a good friend who is a negro." line?
For example, sometimes people on here complain about how much white girls charge, but that’s because they appeal most easily to white men, who tend to have more money and are happy to pay them their price.
@ NiceSpice--In that case I am apparently confused as I am so white bread it is scary, seriously, I burn when I sit near a lamp and I am Scots/Irish/British descent, had red hair before it left for my lower back and I love Asian, Hispanic or AA women. My wife was Italian/AA. Actually, for me, it is dark hair, dark eyes and lovely caramel or toast skin. Not a fan of blonde or red head at all and white skin like mine is an anathema.
Plus race isn’t the only way to be relatable to someone.
I don't like a dancer telling me she is wet, or she is so horny, or any kind of stuff that's easy (or sometimes SO obvious) to lie about. I DO appreciate her taking my hand and showing me that she really is wet. Or if she initiates DFK then that's better then saying she's horny . The dancer initiating DFK has only happened twice out of tons of dances/VIPs.
I rather them just say genuine stuff like nicespice says. Even if it's vague and not much, at least it's realistic. That fake moaning and overdone SS is a serious turn off to me. Just give me a good dance, a smile or seductive luck while you're doing it would be great, and let me get some cool mileage.
My CF now, when it gets down to the dances for the most part she's silent but her ass and tits are doing the 'talking' that I care about.