Comments by SteveSutton (page 6)

Great hotel to pick up high priced Russian pro's after midnight in the Chandelier bar .....

I'm lucky enough that my budget is well above $2K a year. Both my wife and I have a "hobby" line in our joint budget, but that doesn't fully cover my hobby expenses. So I supplement it with a portion of my annual bonus, and I trickle $250 per paycheck into an account only I have access to. And somebody earlier said it's about saving, I couldn't agree more. We max out 401K's, and our budget always has 20% savings of our net income as baseline. But I've spent enough that I sometimes wonder if it's worth it - especially considering over the last 5 years, I could have bought a nice RV by now, or a cheap used Ferrari - but I tell myself not to think about it that way. Hobbies cost money, this one as we all know is an expensive one.

I second this. There isn't a guy in the world who hasn't checked (googled) if he's below average, at average or big. I mean, we don't tell a girl with A cups she's got big boobs either?

No, but I think I'd like to meet Nina Bambina!

I wouldn't risk this. Though I would be appreciative of the flirting, it only takes one a-hole and you're done.

Exactly, this thread is worthless with no pics ;-) But seriously, yes I've seen very ugly strippers, but from the way you describe yours, she may be the worst of all!

super hot, yes definitely would go for it. My guess though is it would be a lot of $$$ if she's into that.

I have read more than I ever should have on risks of oral sex. Suffice it to say there is almost zero evidence of HIV transmission via oral only. And in fact if you "eat her out", it appears you'd be the first documented case of it happening, ever! So given there must be millions of BJ's given every day, I'm not worrying about it (I used to though). If you really need answers, google Dr Hook HIV forum, and read his and Dr. Hadfield's replies to all the questions. You will feel A-OK after that.

I have read more than I ever should have on risks of oral sex. Suffice it to say there is almost zero evidence of HIV transmission via oral only. And in fact if you "eat her out", it appears you'd be the first documented case of it happening, ever! So given there must be millions of BJ's given every day, I'm not worrying about it (I used to though). If you really need answers, google Dr Hook HIV forum, and read his and Dr. Hadfield's replies to all the questions. You will feel A-OK after that.

I should add one thing that bit me time after time again. No matter how pretty the face ... if they don't have any full body shots, or are hiding the waist area in shots, they are going to be (significantly) overweight versus your expectation. In my last 6 months, that was 100% true. At least with strippers OTC, you kind of know what you're gonna get ;-)

My membership ended today and I did not renew. Was a member since January. First few meets were great, but the law of averages caught up with me. Met about 10 girls in that timespan, many of them were one time deals during business travel, and we both knew that. As they say on SA, there are many types of arrangements, and truth is most guys and many girls on there are looking for short-term (ie. one night) arrangements. But the bad: had a crazy one try to befriend me on facebook. Had a falling out with a hot blonde in LA that turned ugly via text. And worst of all, got rinsed for 2 grand, which actually was a long term (4 months) arrangement, but we never got to mutually beneficial. I know, my mistake! The few that were longer term (more than one time) were all constantly asking for more money. My car is broke ... my rent is due ... need some help paying off debt .... it just never ends. So I'm done. Back to stripclubs and hopefully the occasional OTC action if I can find it. I do have a SA arranged date setup with a super hot blonde stripper in Vegas in 2 weeks. We've been facetiming almost every day, and she's amazing. I'm just worried we haven't talked about the cost yet .... could be WAY out of my league, oh well!

Damn ...... she was a total crush when I was younger. Would have never recognized her (obviously).

Just got back from Vegas - flying solo - and was actually a bit sexually frustrated. Went to the hockey game, then after that back to MGM Grand. Around midnight I went back down fully expecting to find a nice lady in the casino somewhere. Well, it's now 3 AM and I had been propositioned only once and she was a no-go. Saw a few more, but none were even slightly attractive. There also was a lot of security around. I'll be back in July for another weekend, and will either go the SB route (am texting with a few local potentials for a weekend date), or I really don't know anymore. The stripclubs are outrageously expensive, and take out is rare. No more backpage or Craigslist either, but I had bad luck with those anyway. So the SB thing will have to work out. Oh, and what did I do this time ... I ended up going to an AMP before my flight, and it was great and I was totally relaxed and slept like a baby on the red-eye.

No horse in the race here, but yeah, that was an epic failure at the end of the game. Lebron's incredulous look is one for the ages. Unfortunately, I do think that was the series ... they will get blown out in game 2, lose one of two back home, and then GS will wrap it in 5. Had Cleveland won, I would have said this goes 7. But more importantly, who is watching Lord Stanley's Cup??? Some amazing hockey being played, and as a big Vegas Golden Knights fan, I'm stoked. Can't wait for game 3 on Saturday. And I went to game 1 so that was pretty awesome.

Yup total idiot, but sometimes the other head .... From day 1 of my SA adventures, I have put a filter age of 21 on there. I figured if I can't even take them for a drink, it's just not worth it.

Yup, backpedalling, but doing so happily! ;-)

Rustic Frog is NOT nude. Pasties as has been said. I also live in Louisville, and Lexington is the best bet that I have found, unfortunately. I don't frequent the Louisville clubs at all.

Well, on the sugar daddy forum reddit site, somebody claiming to be from SA just posted that the site will be back up and maintenance is just taking longer than expected. So there is hope after all.

Looks like it's back to stripclubs and trying to find an OTC girl lol. SA certainly made it easier, but it was more expensive with dinner and allowance. It will be interesting to see what's next. If SA really stays down, there has to be an influx of talent at the clubs right???

Normally maintenance is done overnight. Either they ran into big issues, or this site isn't coming back up. Poster above is 100% correct, after backpage and craigslist went dark, there are a lot more working girls on the site. It's a big fat bummer because I had some success using it over the last few months. But my last few experiences have not been very good.

Nice pics!

Something like this is my worst nightmare, thanks for sharing in great detail. I had one local girl that I saw a few times all of a sudden send me a friend request on facebook. Euuh ... what??? And I still to this day don't know how she found out my real name as I also use a burner phone and a fake email address. She knew my real first name, but not my last. So denied and blocked of course (this was about a month ago), and so far so good .... but I still worry about it.

Snipped, so no issues. Still, condom every time, though I did unfortunately "slip" last weekend when a SA girl wanted shower sex, and I went for it. Now of course I'm worried and will likely get tested soon, sigh.

My observations: - There are definitely more "escorts" on there now than a few weeks ago when BP and Craigslist were still in business. - I mean, one night while I was at a concert, this pretty girl just messaged me out of the blue with "wanna come finger me" .... I had never talked to her before lol. And yes, I did, and it was probably a one time thing. - I had some good early success using the site; however, lately it's been disappointing. My primary local girl is 2 hours away and may be a rinser. The girl I met in Baltimore last Saturday looked nothing like her hot pictures (she had packed on at least 50 lbs.), and then just disappeared after I gave her the allowance (we were going to go to a concert). We did enjoy each other's company in my hotel room though, so not a total loss. The girl I met in Columbus a few weeks ago looked nothing like her picture, nor did the last girl I met in Dallas. - Lesson learned: Whenever you see only face pics, or pics with hands around the waste, she's not going to have that "slim" or "athletic" body she advertises. It will likely be overweight. I now only look at profiles with full body and face pics that are not taken in such a way to hide anything. - Setup some M+G with some new local girls this week, will see how it goes. - It's getting harder keeping all this activity "hidden" from my normal home life. I'm finding that it may not be worth the $$$ or effort. I am seriously considering going back to SC's instead of SA.

I currently live in Louisville and have gone the last few years. Sometimes in box seats, sometimes infield. On a nice day, infield is perfect for me. That said, skipping it this year to go to a music festival in Baltimore! I'll catch the most exciting 2 minutes in sports while listening to my 80's band lol.