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10 years ago
I like being first customer and have found that sometimes you can show up early afternoon and she hadn't taken anyone in the back yet. That's pretty awesome to me...but if I'm not the first that's ok too.
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10 years ago
Agree. While awesome, pretty risky. Good luck and in the words of office space, wear a rubber dude.
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10 years ago
Knowing how I am, I don't know if I could have stopped her, I know I wouldn't have stopped at bbbj but maybe at bbfs. I would now be freaked out like crazy, but that's my paranoia. If I didn't have a strong connection to the dancer, and was someone I have met months or years ago and she throws out bbfs with no additional funds....get checked out dude. Like mentioned HIV is unlikely but see if it burns to pee in a couple days.
But next time go prepared. Kinda like gun ownership, would rather go home everyday without using it, than dying wishing like hell I had one.
So, get a rubber and go visit her again, that's a cheap 70 evening.
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10 years ago
Go with number 3. While you are there try to get extras and video with your phone. You have only chosen one and got all 3 covered now. Seems like best solution.
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10 years ago
NC State is my college too. He was amazing there, but probably best role model in the league. #allrussellwilsoneverything
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10 years ago
Think the sex thing does play out too. I do believe some of the girls are whores but not the case with all. I think it's funny but what they do at work extras not included, because going OTC for a hook up becomes cheating or whoring. All depends on what you are into. I don't personally care for the ones that make it do easy to get right away. I pass on those. Could I be getting on more of the hustle, sure, but that's my take on it and what I'm comfortable with. If I wanted to fuck and that's it, I would find some other arrangement. Wouldn't mind the OTC scene, but must be careful IMO.
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10 years ago
Knowing when to use y'all is very important. For example, walk into a bar down here and ask a group of strippers this.....which one of Y'all can take it all down to my balls. Find one that says yeah and you've got your winner. Sounds like everyone in the motor city will answer yes though.
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10 years ago
That's just awesome Shark. Need someone to be my secret backer of my dances.
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10 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
I am looking forward to luge and bobsled. That and curling. Don't understand curling at all but watch it all the time.
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10 years ago
I would just like to be the talent scout or hiring manager in a non official sense of course.
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10 years ago
Right there with you Jester. They shut down everything in NC with a little snow. Funny actually. Hard part round here is the ice under the snow. We had sleet freezing rain for like 4 hrs.
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10 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
I agree with the above statement being from a conservative area, and sharing many of the same views, minus the live of strippers and having fun, it appears the worst thing u can do is be a conservative. Makes no sense to me.
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10 years ago
I second the broke statement. Say you are out of cash and finishing your beer. Really messes with her mind when she sees you headed to VIP with a spinner.
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10 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
The haunted house was spooky. That mean it was in the ghetto? I say overreaction.
If u had said I never seen a spook get spooked like that before.....different story.
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10 years ago
That or stale cooch lopaw. Thats a smell tough to shake somedays.
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10 years ago
I gotcha. A lot if good advice. I'll probably take an extended break and or switch clubs. Sadly I became her regular because I liked her looks and dances best. There was another I really liked but she moved to PR. Wish she would come back.
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10 years ago
I agree. Will hate ending it but that may be what needs to happen. If nothing else it may improve our interactions as she tried to win me back. It's my cash they are after. It is funny to see some of the ss that goes on though.
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10 years ago
I realize it's not a relationship but noticed something she said to me one day in the back. She was like you are MY customer, and I know yow will come back to me. For how she looks, and compared to the others, she is right. I will go back. I get good mileage and have fun. But I don't want to be taken for granted.
We will see what comes up from some intended changes. May start showing some of the friends a little more attention.
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10 years ago
Thanks Superdude. That's what I was thinking and wanted to get validation as to that being a good move. We will see how this goes.
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10 years ago
Good advice shark hunter. Not sure what I'm wanting out of it. I do feel as if I get great mileage from her back there but there are little things I have noticed. I think I will cool it off some with her. I do feel that I provide her a good portion of her income as I appear to be her only bigger spending regular. She may get 40-60 from a few others but that's chump change from me. Think I will play it slow for a bit.
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10 years ago
That makes sense. But I'm a little too late now. Thinking of going MIA for a couple months. A few things will happen in that case. I will be missed and treated great on a return visit or forgotten and problem solved. That make sense?
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10 years ago
Well with social media it is easy to see the real names. Look up clubs in the area and see are their friends. Another way to get the names is listen to them, I have found some screw up when talking with dancer friends and call them by their real name.
I use my real name but it may as well be Mike. Very common and generic.
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10 years ago
Agreed ATAC. There is a dancer at the club I frequent that goes the extra mile. But I can smell her on me when she walks by. My ATF doesn't wear strong perfume or lipstick just to be courteous to her customers. Says she can taste the other dancers lipstick when she kisses an ear or nibbles on your neck. I appreciate that from her.
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10 years ago
I have an ATF right now, and am in a position where I have funds to spend on her and I do enjoy her company. I have been seeing her just in the club for a couple of months. It started off as wow she is hot and I got a few dances from her and there was nothing there. Overtime she always came up to me and would spend time with me. What I started to notice was when dancers I never really talked to would know my name, therefore I know they have done a lot of talking about me. Another thing I have noticed is many of the girls no longer approach me for dances.
I can't tell if everything she is telling me is truly SS but it appears the days I don't see her are very slow days for her. I can tell the club is often times slow. Is it wrong for me to think if I am her whale or that there should be other benefits to come with that? Seems like in being more taken for granted, and not appreciated. Not sure the best way to handle. I'm thinking I will not go in for a couple of weeks and see how things are when my money hasn't been coming in like it has. I will spend a couple hundred on her per week so weeks more others less. Depends on how work is going.
Any advice is appreciated, but on another note, there are not many other dancers I'm that interested in during my clubbing time.
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10 years ago
I like mutual but the clubs around here all def are grinding. You will def be touched. I've found though that having a hottie grinding on you and not be able to touch them would be ridiculous. I like the way a 21 yr old hardbody feels. Gravity yet to set in and no kids is a wonderful thing. Asked one the other day if I could try her on for size. Wasn't sure if I could fit.