Comments by whodey (page 16)

It depends on the club for me. Some of the clubs I frequent require everyone to prepay and in those cases I have no problem with prepaying. Other clubs generally have you pay after the dances. In those clubs when a dancer ask me to prepay it is a solid no and I'm done with that dancer. I have no problem with a club policy to prepay but I hate dancers who make their own rules and asks people to prepay or charge more for dances than the club's normal rate.

The idea of a felony on my record is a bigger deterrent than fines or a few days/weeks in jail. Generally the fines aren't much more than a few OTC visits cost and if need be I could just use a month worth of vacation days to cover a few weeks in jail. However, my job requires annual background checks and midemeanors don't effect anything but any felony would result in my immediate termination. The last thing I want to do is lose a job I like and have to start job hunting with a fresh new felony on my record. Luckily the areas I monger in don't aggressively target prostitution too much unless they believe it involves human trafficking. Also it generally only results in a misdemeanor and a fine or maybe a few days in county lockup. If they started aggressively prosecuting felonies for solicitation I would have to find a different area to travel to for my hobby fix.

She may not speak English well, but she knows that sexual stimulation is the universal language.

I'm a multi-clubber. There are 4 clubs that I hit up at least once a month and another 4 clubs that I go to at least about 5 times a year and a few more clubs that I stop by 2-3 times a year. I also occasionally club hop around a single town when my go to club doesn't have a good lineup and on those nights it is not odd for me to end up at 4 or 5 clubs that night. I prefer the variety that going to multiple clubs offer. Since most of the clubs I go to are smaller clubs with a dozen or fewer dancers on shift it would be real easy to burn out if I kept going to the same club too often. Being a regular can have its benefits. There have been three favorite girls over the years that I connected with enough to see once a week. The more I saw them the more fun I had both ITC and OTC. However, I only go that route when I find a special girl that I really click with.

"isn’t this behavior juvenile" - how can you be surprised that people act juvenile while playing a game? The fact that they make a lot of money if it is a pro game doesn't change the fact that they are playing a game. Juvenile celebrations are exactly new in sports, I can remember guys dumping a cooler full of Gatorade on coaches after big wins all the back when I first started watching sports in the 80s.

Negotiate however you want. If you end up paying more than the normal market rate you aren't hurting anyone other than yourself. Each person is free to negotiate the price and services received with each dancer. If you are satisfied with the deal you make, the price you pay and the service you get that is all that matters. Just ignore anyone telling you that you are overspending other than to maybe keep it in mind for your next negotiation to see if you can save yourself a little bit of money.

Never titty fucked a girl with a crucifix necklace flopping around, but I have titty fucked a girl with a tattoo of Jesus right between her ties. I have to say it was a bit of a turn-off shoving my dick into the face of our lord and savior, however she had a gorgeous pair of 22 year old natural D-cups so I powered through the initial weirdness. I did make sure that I didn't cum across her chest at the end because giving tattoo Jesus a facial would have been too much. Yes I know I am going to hell but that was sealed years ago so I'm at least going to enjoy my time before I get there.

I've gone to a few concerts, sporting events and theatrical productions as part of some p4p "dates" and typically enjoyed them. The most fun I've ever had during a non-sexual portion of a p4p arrangement was with a girl I had seen fairly frequently for about 6 months. She really wanted to show me her favorite fishing spot. It was a nicely secluded spot along the river and after we were done fishing turned out to be a good spot for some other fun as well. It really was a good fishing spot that I have gone back to on occasion ever since.

"it's cathartic as fuck" - that sums it up pretty well. There is nothing more cathartic than a good fuck. I prefer OTC with someone I know because you can really relax and enjoy it for longer. However, sometimes I like a good ITC visit with a new girl where you can just get down to business and have some quick fun.

Honestly not a big loss. It has never been a great club and has gotten really bad over the past few years. Hopefully the owner who set the fire - I mean was inside at the time the fire started wasn't hurt.

Not often but it does happen. I tend to do it more often at non extras clubs oddly enough. There will be times that I see a girl at one of those clubs and just know that I'm going to want more than just a few songs with her and in that case the cost of a VIP room just makes more sense, especially if the single song rate is over $20/song. Very rarely have I regretted the decision due to a dancer just being hot but giving a terrible dance. At extra friendly clubs I tend to want to vet the dancer a little to make sure we are on the same page with regards to expectations of services and price. Usually I want to take her for at least a couple of trial dances first in these situations.

I'm no fan of Biden and I haven't watched the clip posted yet. However, anyone trying to use a school shooting that killed several elementary students to make a political jab at the other side should be embarrassed of themselves. That applies to politicians, media personalities and people posting on here alike. If your thoughts after a shooting like this involve looking for a way to make politicians on the otherside look bad you really need to look at what's important. Whether you think the solution is mental health reform, gun control, more police in schools, armed teachers and security guards or any other response that is where the focus should be. Using dead children to score political points is terrible. At least show the families of those murdered children the respect of not using them to help set up a political punchline.

As long as a hot young stripper is letting you play with her vagina and seems to be enjoying it why would you ask why she is doing what she is doing? Just enjoy the experience.

I went to Pearl Harbor once in 1994 when I was 12 but I was too young to fully appreciate it. We went as a family trip because my dad wanted to take my grandpa there. He was in the Navy when the Japanese attacked but was luckily stationed in the Atlantic aboard the USS Ranger at the time. He spent the next 2 years of WWII aboard the Ranger mostly off the north African coast before being stationed at Norfolk for the rest of his tour. He had never been to Pearl Harbor but lost a lot of friends there that day. I wasn't old enough to fully grasp the significance of Pearl Harbor while I was there, but there is one memory from that trip that is etched into my mind. It was the first time I ever saw my grandpa cry as we were on the boat at the USS Arizona. The only other time I saw him cry again was the morning of September 11th as we were watching the news.

Make sure to order some of that fake money that they sell on Amazon and use it to pay for as many dances as possible on April Fools Day. The girls really love that gag, if you're lucky they even call the bouncers over so they can see how funny you are.

I have given girls more than they asked for several times during otc arrangements. I've never gone so far as to tell her it was because she wasn't charging enough when I do it. I just call it an extra tip because she was so amazing. My ATF used to always charge me $250 for our OTC arrangements that usually lasted 1-2 hours. She clearly could've charged a lot more and I would have happily paid it after the first time. In fact I usually gave her anywhere from $400-500 per visit. I actually kind of felt bad because I had negotiated her down from her original asking price of $400 before our first visit because I wasn't expecting the full on sensual GFE performance she gave OTC based on our ITC interactions.

My brother has a 3d printer that he mainly uses to build model kits and puzzles for his kids. He has also used it to build replacement interior parts and badges for a couple of project cars he is working on. I have used it a few times to go along with my woodworking. It is great for building templates or even full mockups of projects. I have also built a few custom clamps for when I need them for some odd shapes that are hard to use regular clamps for. This summer I am looking at building a lot of cabinetry for in my workshop and I've thought about using his 3d printer to make the various handles for all of the doors. I don't think they make sense for most people, but if you are someone that likes to build or repair things they can come in handy.

Some agents are wearing jackets that say HSI, for Homeland Security Investigations. Homeland Security Investigations is part of Immigration & Customs Enforcement. https://www.ctinsider.com/news/article/homeland-security-electric-blue-tolland-strip-club-17843215.php It'll either be a "human trafficking" investigation like Rick said or just a regular immigration bust for undocumented immigrants working there. The manpower involved certainly looks like over kill for either, especially since I doubt the club was full of people at 9:30 on a Thursday morning which is when the raid started.

Whatever day you have free time, extra cash and are horny is a good day to visit. You'll probably get a different answer from different customers about when they feel is the best time to go. I prefer day shift during the week because I prefer a more laid back clubbing environment. I like to have time to get to know a dancer without her constantly looking to move on to the next guy. I prefer longer vip rooms with a single dancer and that works out better during the day in my opinion. Others prefer busier times at night because they like the party atmosphere of a crowded high energy club. Those busier shifts are often better if you like to get dances from multiple different girls or prefer a good stage show as well. Ultimately it is all about what you enjoy. Make sure to read a variety of reviews for the club you are going to to see if it has a different vibe at different times as well.

Work - that way none of the customers would be lying when they told their wives that they are going to be home late because they have to stay at Work for a couple of extra hours.

Like Rick said, the large banks will be fine. The biggest issue for small to midsized banks is that people are getting nervous about their liquidity. That is causing individuals and small businesses to move funds to larger banks. I can't say that is a bad idea at all right now. Personally I always make sure to have at least a month to two months worth of funds in each of my two savings accounts at two different banks. That way I am prepared in case of unexpected expenses, unexpected job loss or even if one of the banks goes out of business. My deposit accounts are each under the $250k FDIC limit since I don't want that much cash sitting around without being invested anyways. However now that the FDIC is guaranteeing the full deposit amount, even over 250k, at the banks that have failed I don't know if that is something for anyone to be worried about going forward or not. As long as you have at least enough to cover your immediate expenses at a secondary bank in case your primary fails you should be fine. FDIC usually only takes a few days to make funds available when they have to take over a bank like they did with SVB. As long as you are near retirement and won't need to sell stocks in the next couple of years I would highly suggest buying some major bank stocks in the next few months while the prices are down. If you look at what the stock price had done for major banks from after the 2008 fiasco until lately they all made major improvements and I'd expect that again going forward. The more issues small to mid tier banks have the more it will depress the stock price of large banks in the short term and that means bigger long term potential.

You can also check Facebook and Twitter for the club. A lot of clubs post lineups but not all of the do. Around here most of them don't post until the last minute if at all.

Just when you think Imcall1140 can't be any more of a creepy stalker he goes and puts the full name of the poor girl he stalked before. Hopefully @founder deletes this thread (or at least that post) to protect this poor girl. Nobody should give this fucker any answers to any question he ever asks on here.

Building off CMI's comment, even if a user does create a post on a club's page it doesn't show that way on the discussion page anymore. You can't see that the post is on a club's page until you open the post. Not a major problem, but it was nice to be able to just scroll past a topic before if I knew it was only referring to a particular club that was of no interest to me.

"She told me that I was so cute and that she loved me and she always said that words "I love you" every time I went to see her." Lets look at a few questions to determine if she was really in love with you. How many times did you see her in any setting other than the strip club? Did she introduce you to her family? Did you take her to meet your family? How many times a week did the two of you go out for a meal together? How often did the two of you spend the weekend together at each other's homes? Did she buy you gifts for Christmas and your birthday?