How often is OTC/ITC just to relieve stress for you?
Muddy
USA
There's times when you know what you wanna have fun, going on an adventure, been saving up. That's different. I'm talking you had a rough week, working your fucking ass off, you hate everybody, fuck the world, right now I just need to have sex with some girl, hopefully good looking.
Sometimes every now and then I just *need* a good OTC. For me not ITC, that's not it, no timer, no bouncer, no crowds, I need OTC where I can take my time and just relax and honestly not to get TMI on you grunt loud as fuck without being judged (maybe except for the lady hitting the ceiling with the broom in the room below). Every once in a while I just need it, it's cathartic as fuck and I'm willing to pay a little more for quality too. Isn't it just so awesome and worth it?
Sometimes every now and then I just *need* a good OTC. For me not ITC, that's not it, no timer, no bouncer, no crowds, I need OTC where I can take my time and just relax and honestly not to get TMI on you grunt loud as fuck without being judged (maybe except for the lady hitting the ceiling with the broom in the room below). Every once in a while I just need it, it's cathartic as fuck and I'm willing to pay a little more for quality too. Isn't it just so awesome and worth it?
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Just kidding. But seriously, sometimes I prefer the quick hit of an ITC over the time commitment of meeting OTC.
I think in the long run strip clubs would have better business if they did more of this type of thing. I would like to see all the girls asking if I want company rather than plopping down at my table uninvited. It's even worse when they demand an explanation for why I won't do lap dances with them, followed by an argument because they don't like my explanation. It's really up to club management to keep their girls from being overly aggressive and making the club visit enjoyable for the customers.
As far as the reference to approaches as well as high pressure LD/VIP tactics? I can’t see that ever being overly non aggressive. But I’m learning it differs quite a bit from place to place and stripper to stripper. Ultimately where money is on the line, aggression to get it is going to happen. If it’s too overly aggressive, vote with your feet to somewhere else (I agree that a level of passive aggressive is a much better ITC experience than overt aggressive).
As far as approaches, I get that but I doubt there’s enough time/money in approaching everyone except slow times/optimal ratios. So it falls on the customer to show up looking like the time/money value is a plus to the strippers.
Do I go to the club when I'm off-the-charts stressed?... no.
When I'm incredibly stressed out, then I tend to take my mood with me into the club, and I have less fun as a result. Also, my stress levels max out again the moment I leave the club.
I go to the strip club or do OTC when I'm in the mood to have fun. If my stress levels are really bad, then I do other things where my mood won't affect the outcome.
To add to what I said, what CMI said here 100%. Now I don't wind up very easily so i don't end up in that "hate the world, fuck everybody" mindset very often. But in those rare moments where my head is that screwed up, I don't want to deal with a stripper any more than I want to deal with anyone else, whether ITC or OTC.
I guess, for me, playing around with strippers is entertainment, not therapy, lol. If I'm not in the right frame of mind or can't get there quickly with a few drinks and a handful of titties, I wait until I can enjoy it more.
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Repeat OTC leads to seeing them more like civvies, and therefore, less inclined to get too freaky, as we lean toward treating them more normally, as women with feelings.
Time and place for each scenario and arrangement/relationship.
Of course, ITC could lead to OTC, with continued encounters both ITC with those same girls, which could change the dynamic in various ways (Good - higher comfort level; Bad. - Sense of entitlement to your cash).