Alternate OTC Activities
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Other than the traditional fun activities associated with OTC, as well as affiliated dinner/drinks, what other activities have you tried?
I'm thinking of trying some of the below with trusted girls who can blend in while in public:
1 - Shoe shopping (with many shoes slipped on/off her feet during the outing, of course)
2 - Normal nightclub/danceclub
3 - Walking in mall/other public area while she is dressed sexy (but not outright whoreish)
4 - Boating in area where there is adequate privacy that she can avoid getting tan lines
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last commentTake her to the beach. Thots love the beach. Nude or topless preferably. That way you can see if the goods are worth the price. And if there's no one around you can even skip the hotel and clap cheeks right there on the sand.
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Nude rodeo.
Or paint numbers on your licorice stick like a thermometer and play hospital.
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I did take my ATF to the zoo once.
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Take her to the theatre to see a popular play, the opera, or a “fancy” show/event, so she will put on a sexy yet elegant dress and we can ride on a limousine and we can make love as many times as we can get away with during the date.
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I had a dancer ask to go to miniature golf. It was a great time. For another it was bowling. She told me she'd never gone bowling but wanted to try. Also a lot of fun.
Fun fact... both bowling and miniature golf are great activities that are also conducive to checking out your date's ass.
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Tbh I'm struggling to understand why any man would willingly bring his OTC date to a retail shopping venue. Having to be in those stores while pretending to be interested in her views of fashion and accessorizing, and perhaps even holding her purse now and again while she tries something on, sounds like it should be one of the seven levels of Purgatory in Dante's Inferno. 😆
But as to the rest, I did a couple of Broadway shows back in the day and every so often I'll bring a girl to a strip club, but beyond that it's been the customary dinner/drinks stuff. Being out with a stripper is my play time and it is always at night, which (thankfully) limits the options a great deal.
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If you really want to get her turned on take her to a gun range and let her shoot a few rounds I’ve never taken a girl to the range where the sex afterwards wasn’t super fun.
OTOH don’t take her to the beach, sex on the beach always leads to sand in the cootchie and that’s never fun.
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adult store - pick out a few new dance outfits for her - have her model then, either in the back theatre part or back at your hotel - both can be a lot of fun
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The shopping excursion is purely selfish.....watching her try on shoes. But, I suppose I need to acknowledge a walk through a mall would likely lead to " i want to look at that". "Can you buy me xxx"?
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Museums can work. Makes you appear cultured, if only for the moment.
In particular, the Museum of Sex in NYC was a nice aphrodisiac.
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===> "The shopping excursion is purely selfish.....watching her try on shoes."
Better you than me. 😉
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I've gone to a few concerts, sporting events and theatrical productions as part of some p4p "dates" and typically enjoyed them. The most fun I've ever had during a non-sexual portion of a p4p arrangement was with a girl I had seen fairly frequently for about 6 months. She really wanted to show me her favorite fishing spot. It was a nicely secluded spot along the river and after we were done fishing turned out to be a good spot for some other fun as well.
It really was a good fishing spot that I have gone back to on occasion ever since.
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Take her to a casino for a couple of drinks and some blackjack, roulette, or craps.
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I once had one convinced to go with me to the opera.
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I absolutely won't do shopping trips with strippers. Outside of extenuating circumstances, a stripper who asks to be taken on one will get cut off. I hate shopping, and I'm not interested in her pressing the issue to see exactly how much she can weasel out of me. Sure as shit not shoes. If anything, maybe a lingerie or swimsuit store might get me to change my mind, but unlikely.
But I've done a whole lot of other things.
I've brought a few on work trips. Sometimes cause the destination was interesting and near a weekend where we could hang after work. Other times where the destination was very much not interesting and I wanted to bring my own after work entertainment.
Probably a bunch of other shit I can't think of. Strippers are people too. I maintain mostly transactional relationships with most strippers, but I often find one I actually don't mind hanging around for a while. When that happens, the array of activities tends to open up.
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How’s this different than dating a civilian?
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Vegas pool and a cabana on a few occasions. Topless pool a couple of times.
Shows and concerts.
Adult toy store.
Clothes shopping at the likes of Bebe (no longer exists).
Shoe shopping at the likes of Doc Marten.
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Cigar lounge
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Scrub's mom's house to take Whoring lessons.
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"How’s this different than dating a civilian?"
Stripper: When I feel like it, I call her, we partake in the activity of my choosing, we fuck in a way that's primarily about my satisfaction, we go our separate ways.
Civilian: Involves significantly more effort and engagement, compromises on activities, etc.
I'm not gonna say one is better than the other, but aside from the activities and the sex pretty much everything is different.
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My view is ITC I get to fuck them for money. OTC and civvies I need to also plan and spend time with them and I don't want to neither. So for me OTC and civvies are the same and a no for me
Of course to each his own
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I'm certainly not putting an axe in the hands of some of the crazy girls I have met over the years.
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