Comments by whodey (page 17)

If you are just looking to send her a little something to make up for canceling an otc arrangement you could always just send her an electronic gift card. Most major stores have a way for you to buy the egift card on their website and either email or text it directly to whoever you want. You could always use a prepaid Visa and a burner account when you buy the egift card if you want that extra layer of protection.

"this is a sign of a mental health issue for me to have sued those people with a frivolous lawsuit and that I tried to deceive them with disguise." That is very true. Take that as a sign you need to avoid strip clubs until you get the professional mental health treatment you need. Hopefully somebody from Cheetah's in Atlanta sees this and warns the clubs in Miami about this guy. All of the clubs in Miami, and everywhere else for that matter, need to have a picture of this guy posted to keep him out. He is nothing but a deranged man that is going to cause way more trouble than he is worth for any strip club he is allowed in.

25, in regards to the "public well" comment is it really any different than having sex with a stripper, escort or any other fs sex worker? Or is it even any different than a non sex worker that just has sex with various people she isn't in a committed relationship with? In the end unless you only sleep with virgins it is really just varying degrees of the "public well" spectrum.

Luckily they were arrested without any issues before this turned into a 2AMer. The fact that they found one of them in the kitchen leads me to believe the drug dealer either works for the club or is at least close enough to a club employee to have access to that area. Nothing kills a club quicker than the club allowing drug dealers to do stupid shit at the club.

If you and her were truly in love as you claim the two of you would have kept in touch or you would have at least known some mutual friends that could help you get in contact with her. The fact that you are asking random strangers on a strip club discussion board to help you find her 14 years later just screams that you are a stalker. For all we know you are the reason that she fled the state of Georgia and moved to Miami. How about this, instead of asking us to help you find her maybe you should just post your real name and phone number on here and if anyone knows her they can give her your information and she can call you if she wants to talk.

The FDIC is fully guaranteeing all deposits at both banks even if the deposits were over the normal $250k limit. This could be an expensive precedent going forward. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/silicon-valley-bank-deposits-guaranteed-signature-bank-federal-reserve-fdic/

Most anonymous online payment methods tend to get shut down rather quickly by the government. They see them as a way for criminals to move money and a way for people to avoid paying taxes on money that they are making.

I don't care if other customers are tipping or not, that's none of my business. Whether or not a customer gives money to a dancer as a tip or for anything else doesn't effect me at all. If the club or dancers have a problem with a customer not tipping they can address it with them since the lack of tipping effects them directly. Personally, if I sit stageside I generally tip each dancer at least $1/song and usually tip the ones I'm interested in at least $5/song. If I don't feel like tipping, or the girl on stage is bad enough that I don't want to tip her I simply move away from the stage and find a seat at a table or the bar. But that doesn't mean I expect anyone else to tip the way I do

I'm scheduled to be in Tennessee in early August for work, might have to find an excuse to push it until late March.

If it is someone that is currently a big name in porn that is a reasonable price. I tried to arrange a meet with a few of the girls on porncompanions.com last year as I was traveling but the prices were all too high for me to pull the trigger. They ranged from $1500 to almost $2500 for the three girls (Charity Crawford, April O'Neil and JoJo Kiss) I looked into. I probably would've met with any of those three for $1000 at the time. I'm sure some of the ladies that don't go through a major agency like that are probably more reasonable because I'm sure the site takes a large cut for arranging everything. Basically digital pimps.

funonthaside I imagine there are a lot of parents still paying their 22 year old's car payment while they are in college. It isn't something my parents could've afforded, but it isn't uncommon. A lot of parents agree to pay the bills for their kids while they are in college.

Also, the asshole coworker that told her dad that he saw her working in a strip club can go to hell. That was completely uncalled for.

If he wasn't happy about her stripping he may be really unhappy when he finds out what she's going to do now that she has to make enough to cover her car payments on top of whatever else she has been paying for with the money she earns stripping. I'm sure that more than a few of us on here have helped a 22 year old stripper earn extra money to help pay their car note. I'm equally sure that this father would be mortified if he found out how they earned that extra money.

To be honest I didn't realize how expensive my lifestyle was to maintain until I moved out of my parent's house during my senior year of college. Prior to that I was paying for things like my car and insurance but I had never had to buy normal groceries or pay for things like housing and utilities so I never thought about the cost of those. I quickly realized I couldn't afford to go to nearly as many concerts, sporting events or on vacations once I moved out. It took about six or seven years after that before I was making enough to support myself and be able to afford all of the extra entertainment expenses I had been accustomed to doing with my paychecks back when my parents were covering the normal expenses. My lifestyle wasn't nearly as expensive as an attractive 27 year old being supported by a wealthy old man so I can only imagine how much of a shock she went through.

Not sure why you're surprised that Cap1 would sue over a credit card debt that has reached a charge off point. The bank I work for will often sue on accounts as low as $1000-2000 depending on the state the debtor lives in. For most larger banks it doesn't cost much beyond the actual filing fees to sue over those debts. I know the bank I work for has an entire law firm that is owned by the same parent company as the banks. Since we already have well over 100 attorneys on salary it doesn't cost much to sue for a credit card debt, especially since most of the smaller cases end in summary judgement because the debtor can't afford an attorney to defend them. While most of the debtors can't pay the judgement when it is entered against them, we can easily obtain a wage garnishment against them at that point. Even if they are unemployed, or in the case of strippers working for cash tips, right now, that garnishment will stay in effect when they do start working down the road at some point. Some of the lower tier banks like Credit One, Synchrony, Comenity and Merrick Bank that primarily cater to those with lower credit scores won't sue as easily as the big banks. They tend to have a much smaller legal department and the 25% interest rates they charge mean that they have usually made their money back in interest and late fees before the account gets into default. Since they would have to retain outside council to handle a lawsuit they typically just sell the debts that are more than 6 or 8 months delinquent to a debt collection firm that buys it at anywhere from 10-40 cents on the dollar.

As someone that works in the banking industry I can tell you there are troubling numbers starting to show up for a lot of banks. I don't see it directly as much since I work in the fraud department, but my friends in the collections departments are seeing much higher than normal delinquency rates among both consumer and business accounts. Our customer service department has also seen an increase in loan and credit applications to the point that they are looking at tightening the qualifications. I didn't start in banking until 2010 but a lot of them are saying the trends remind them of what they were seeing in 2007 right before everything went really bad in 2008.

As long as there are men who have more money than they have skill with women strip clubs will be fine. As long as there are husbands who aren't getting their sexual satisfaction from their wives strip clubs will be fine. As long as prostitution is illegal in the majority of the country strip clubs will be fine. As long as there are new generations of young women that see dancing naked for older men as a better way to make money than working low level jobs strip clubs will be fine. Since I don't see any of those things changing anytime soon I must conclude that strip clubs will be fine.

Good to know about Pussycat changing GMD. I hadn't been there since September but now that you mention it there were a couple of dancers that were on the bigger side during that visit. I guess it is going to start picking up the crowd that Fantasy Island used to have with regards to the bigger dancers.

I won't be in Louisville this week but I would suggest checking out Thorobred, Foxy Lady and Pussycat Lounge while you are in town.

"Caught" can have different meanings. I have been "caught" doing extras by various waitresses, bouncers, dancers and customers numerous times at clubs where extras are openly allowed. Usually whoever it is just either says nothing or laughs and goes about their way. My favorite was a bouncer who was coming in to tell us there was 5 minutes left on the timer who told the girl "you have 5 minutes to get him to blow his load or I'm going to tell everyone you're terrible at giving head." I have only been "caught" getting extras in a club that didn't openly allow them once. She was trying to stay positioned in a way that the guy watching the camera wouldn't be able tell that my dick was out just like she had done a few other times before that day. I guess she must have been a little out of position this time because about ten minutes in the bouncer came in and kicked us both out of the club and she got fired. We ended up back at my hotel where we didn't have to worry about being discrete. Then there are the communal dance rooms or barside blowjobs in dive clubs that are more of a cheap brothel than a strip club. In those places you can't really help but be "caught" by everyone in the room when you are having fun.

Doc and Motor summed it up pretty well. If you are already going to be in the area this is your best chance for entertainment, but don't expect too much. It is an old school small town dive bar type of strip club, if you prefer either a high energy party atmosphere type of club or extras this isn't going to be your type of club.

What you have never loaned money to strippers? I lend money to them all the time when I see them OTC. At least I assume they are loans since they always ask for money each time and it would be illegal for them to charge me a fee for what we do together. I'm sure they'll all pay me back at some point in the future, right?

Never driven in a country where they drive on the left side of the road, but I can attest to the fact that shifting a manual transmission with your left hand takes some getting used to. A buddy of mine used to own a 71 Ford Falcon that he had imported from Australia that I drove a few times. The first time I drove it was when he drove us to a bar and planned to be the designated driver for the group but he ended up getting drunk and I stayed sober. I thought I was going to end up owing him a new transmission by the time I made it back from the bar. After driving it a few times I got the hang of it and kind of enjoyed it.

I'm not surprised someone would stoop to this level and submit a worthless review like this, but I am surprised 6 out of 7 VIP members who voted actually approved the review. I really think we as members need to do a better job of weeding out worthless reviews. If our existing members keep approving shit reviews like this then we deserve what we get.

It all depends on what you find hot. If you ask 10 guys in a strip club full of a few dozen dancers "which girl is the hottest" they may all say a different girl. Everyone's taste in who they find attractive is going to be different, that's why anytime someone mentions a celebrity or pornstar they feel is the hottest they've ever seen others on here rank her anywhere from a perfect 10 down to a 3 or 4. Trying to ask guys on a discussion board with members from California all the way to England and beyond who's the hottest dancer isn't likely to give you usable results. Go to the club and find the girl who you think is the hottest.