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9 years ago
Hello there Jestrite!*waves* How goes your clubbing ventures? That was nice of you to try to help her.
Newbies/oldies/it's all the same. You never know what you will get.
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9 years ago
Sexuality is fluid, especially when you can make more money off it lol
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9 years ago
I've encountered this as well. Once you become a regular in a club, there are cutthroat competitors that will try to win you over as their own regular. I've had this happen a couple times. Often they try to play the game of ownership to see if you are a loyal PL or one that takes it as a challenge. "So and So said that she owns you...." just to see a rise of someone who would want to prove the opposite. Either that or they will claim your favorite is a ROB and that they would provide a much greater time lol.
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10 years ago
I take a shower and shave everything .except the hair on my head ..i didn't til the first time I found myself being manhandled by dancers..After that I decided to be prepared. Then go to the ATM. Speaking of dancer prep i took a shower with my gf before work.i stood in the cold water because that's how long of a shower she took she used up all the hot water..shaving every nook and cranny..hair products galore. Never again.
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10 years ago
I don't mind them being there. I prefer them to be there for the same reasons as me. I've seen one too many gf or spouses crying in bathrooms about stuff or giving dancers the evil eye if it wasn't their idea being there.
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10 years ago
I think being a woman increases your chances. I've found that if she is the least bit interested in women, or using the girl on girl aspect to drum up sales it results in kisses. I've had a couple kisses just sitting at perv row. While I enjoyed some of them, some have been unwelcome especially if I am not attracted to them and they decided to shove their tongue down my throat.
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10 years ago
They usually remember me after the first..not many women come in by themselves I usually stand out
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10 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Papi I've gotten more in a $20 lapper..so ill stick to those
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10 years ago
It is probably a phase.. ebb and flow. I'm also in the phase.. mostly because my last visit i found myself doing things in public with a dancer with my pants down and I didn't even know her stage name.. i had to reevaluate myself after that
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10 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
450 on a VIP. First and last VIP..not really much to gain from VIP
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10 years ago
I usually leave when there are any large groups of parties not interested in the dancers. I enjoy looking at the women and the way they dance, it is kind of a buzz kill if a customer is there for other reasons because then it detracts from the experience because it is usually obvious they aren't there for the same reasons.
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10 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I've hit clubs with my gf a lot. She knows a lot of other dancers and usually gets me special treatment since dancers seem to cycle through clubs. However the longer we have been together she has gotten a bit more possessive so I don't do it as often. She knows which ones have better mileage, but I also suspect she steers me towards the reserved ones that I'm not that attracted to - go figure.
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10 years ago
I'd give her a second chance, a third, and a fourth. I have a weakness of not being able to say no to beautiful women. It is mentioned that you never mentioned love, so her breaking up with you isn't quite as hard a loss. Live it up, but be careful if you start feeling more for her because I agree - people are what they are. They'll change a bit for love, but they will always have to fight what is in their nature.
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10 years ago
I'm often in Cincinnati/Dayton for work. There is no all nude, let alone clubs in Cincinnati. They used to have a Deja Vu but it got closed down by political bullshit. In Dayton there is Diamonds. The girls are a lot more fit than most in the area but as tired traveler said above, there is membership crap and diamond dollars which is crappy for the dancers. I think 18 year olds are allowed in because i vaguely remember getting stamped for being over 21 for drinks. AS a woman who normally gets away with more, I can say that I never got anything worth visiting again in the private dance area but there was a wretch of house mom always pulling back the curtain even when the dancer got anywhere close to doing anything interesting that may have attributed to that. I have a total of one visit under my belt and don't really plan on going back unless the lure of pussy gazing is what I'm in the mood for. Pros are full nudity, curtains, a bit more upscale than other dayton clubs, and byob.
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10 years ago
Yes to receiving pics. And yes to pics of our activities together. I insist only that I have the pics. I don't like idea of my photos circulating. Dancers however don't seem to have that issue.
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10 years ago
I've seen the transformation as well. As a woman I've also seen it in action since some of the girls have dragged me into the dressing room with them while they got ready. It is definitely common they are in jeans and hooded sweatshirts with tennis shoes. Maybe it's to keep a mystery so that you'll be all the more impressed by a transformation. I love them dolled up and over the top especially because I myself can't stand getting dolled up that it is even more impressive to me.
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10 years ago
I feel strip clubs aren't exploitation of women as long as the women choose to be there. Most of the strippers I know dance because it is easy money and they like the attention. My gf stopped dancing for a while and she missed it. Getting dressed up, being desired. Of course there are cons, but I'd imagine if they keep going back to work then they have found some incentive worth going for.
I've been denied access into a club before because I usually go alone. Twice actually, but in one of the instances I was vouched for by a dancer so they let me in. I understand the precautions on why they might, I just wish they would give me a chance to come in and prove I'm a great customer to have.
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10 years ago
Is it weird that my GF who used to be my CF is not my ATF? I won't tell her that though lol
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10 years ago
I don't think you look plain. I think you are more of a natural beauty. The fact that you have a pole in your home makes me believe that you have quite a few pole tricks up your sleeve too. So I think you are a perfect dancer package.
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10 years ago
I like being texted naked pics from dancers drunk or sober. I just turn my phone on silent at night and wake up to it in the morning.
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10 years ago
Worst had to be a dancer that thought bouncing on my lap repeatedly and making small talk would make for a good lapdance. Neither of which was stimulating.
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10 years ago
When a stripper claims to be bi, I assume it's to get customers/more money. What she does to me in private usually determines how true the statement is. The rule of thumb usually seems to be, if she is bi for money she'll fondle and kiss in front of customers. If she is truly bi she will discreetly tell me the fact and prove it in private.. my current gf, who used to be a stripper told me she was bicurious. I think she is fully bi now lol
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10 years ago
I pay up front, so there is no questions of how many I want. Got into the habit of that because of the clubs where I started in required it. Have usually been treated to a couple freebies despite setting number up front. Ladies can be generous at times or get carried away.
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10 years ago
Ha lopaw! You do your thing babe! I'm not as brave or as confident as you. Plus I'd be horrified if my antics in VIP were on youtube. I don't really do anything, they usually dominate me lol which is how I like it in this environment, because I don't want to feel like she is letting me do things for the money, id rather she do things to me because she wants to lol outside of the club is another story though heh
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10 years ago
Usually they just pull down the collar on whatever I am wearing. I have been asked to take my bra off a couple times. I also jave been specifically asked to take my shirt off in VIP room and spent our time in VIP me in my bra and her topless. They've got cameras in VIP so shirtless was as far as I've been willing.