Bisexual strippers

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BilliD
Oregon
There is a website called xoticspot.com. It's like a social media site for strippers and PL's. A lot of the strippers here in portland are on it so I've browsing lately and it seems about 90% of the dancers on there say that they are bisexual. I can't beleive that that many dancers are truly bisexual. How many strippers do you know who are actually bisexual?

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shadowcat
11 years ago
Who knows for sure. I suspect that some tell you that thinking that you find that to be a turn on. I doubt that many are Bi curious because they have plenty of opportunity to investigate being bi just by working in a strip club.
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ime
11 years ago
a lot of the strippers I have talked too really aren't into girls at all, some have said they stay away from women patrons as much as they can, not just the parties of girls who show up at strip clubs to party. One who was as close as I had to Fave said a lot of them will pretend to like women just to try to get guys to spend more money but they aren't really into it.
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lopaw
11 years ago
Quite a few are bisexual. I have met a handful of true lesbian dancers as well.
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Clubber
11 years ago
ATF tested positive. :)
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sclvr5005
11 years ago
Lol Clubber mine too. Most dancers that I talk to lately seem to really get off on being with the ladies as well as the lads.
I don't know who "ime" is talking to but it sure ain't any of the dancers that I know.A bit if wishful thinking there I suspect.
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Clubber
11 years ago
sclvr,

I remember when a certain dancer she liked came on stage I'd give her money to tip her. Was it a scam between them? Not at all. Best part was, when the dancer came off stage, she would "thank" us both. The two of them, an enjoyable show.
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lopaw
11 years ago
Clubber-

Sounds like the best of all worlds!

I love sitting with a bunch of dancers that are trying to sow their wild girl-on-girl oats with me....half of the guy customers are turned on and the other half are jealous as hell. Makes for a full evening ;)
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sharkhunter
11 years ago
I've had a favorite who was bi but that seems to be the exception rather than being real common.

However just usng some numbers if just 5 percent if dancers are bi and if there are 10,000 dancers in the us, did not check any numbers here, then 500 dancers would be bi. I suspect there are a lot more than ten thousand dancers in the us.
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sharkhunter
11 years ago
There are an estimated 400,000 strippers in the US.
http://www.statisticbrain.com/strip-club…

If the numbers I suggested were 40 times higher, then 40 times 500 is 20000 or a lot of bi dancers.
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gawker
11 years ago
One of my faves has a philosophy of, " If it feels good, do it." As a result, she says 90% of women eat pussy better than 90% of men. So, if she feels like getting her rocks off with someone's tongue, go with a gal. Most of us guys just don't do it right.
However she sure likes a good stiff cock and she is very good about describing just what she likes from a male. She doesn't like to be labeled as a lesbian, bi-, or hetero-, just a pleasure seeker.
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SlickSpic
11 years ago
Never given much thought to it. If she is, so be it. If she ain't, so be it.
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steve229
11 years ago

Mami you bi?
No i'm tri...i'll try anything!
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SuperDude
11 years ago
Several Detroit dancers have told me that at least 30% dancers in this area are bi.
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tumblingdice
11 years ago
I know this sripper that claims she is bi-sexual from the waist up.WTF does that mean?
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DandyDan
11 years ago
I think it's safe to say pretty much all of them are gay-for-pay, because we all see that happen in strip clubs everywhere. Now, when they are away from the club, that's a different story. There are 3 dancers I've met I have little doubt that they're bi. Two of them admitted to a lesbian dating relationship with various ladies and the third told me that she's "tri-sexual". But then there's the rest of the dancers I've ever seen. One of my old faves would tell me while she finds many of the ladies sexy at her club and that she could go down on them, she could never actually date one or sleep with one in a lesbian romantic relationship. The fact is, we create the categories of straight, bi or lesbian, but in fact, it's more of a continuum, and it's not like they're fixed to a spot, either. One of the bi dancers from before said she never liked ladies, at least sexually, til she started stripping.
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Clubber
11 years ago
My most recent fave had a gf outside the club. She was pretty upset when they broke up. Seems she had kept her dancer side under wraps. When she had to tell her about her dancer side, that ended the relationship.
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two4fun1225
11 years ago
It would be easier for me to tell you how many strippers I know are straight
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ime
11 years ago
@sclvr - not sure why you think its wishful thinking. I don't care what a dancer is or isn't into, I don't want to date them and I don't put much worth into their thoughts. It could just be a club by club thing, but if girl on girl is what gets you off just keep believing they are all bi, if that's they fantasy you want.
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sclvr5005
11 years ago
@ine- and by the same token if no girl on girl is what gets you off just keep believing they are all straight, if that's the fantasy you want.
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SlickSpic
11 years ago
If a stripper wants to be gay for pay, so be it. How many strippers get paid to pretend that they find John Doe handsome, interesting, exciting, and sexually stimulating?
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Clackport
11 years ago
I agree with sclvr
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sclvr5005
11 years ago
Absolutely, Slick. What cracks me up are the guys who try to downplay numbers because they feel it gives them a shot at girls who would otherwise choose pussy over them - as if they ever had a chance in the first place. Too damn funny.
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Clubber
11 years ago
SS,

They never pretend with me. Yeah, right. Well maybe three have not been pretending.
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Papi_Chulo
11 years ago
“… I honestly don’t get how so many guys can be turned on by a woman that likes/prefers other women. The last thing I want is to be with a woman that doesn’t want me …”

That is me to a tee also – I guess it’s a Latino thing


“… Strippers are cut throat, for profit predators all after the almighty dollar and they do what they have to do to get it …”

+1
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Papi_Chulo
11 years ago
I think it’s more along the lines of bi-curious as shadow mentioned.

A few dancers that I’ve gotten to know a bit on a personal level have told me they *have* been with other women (mainly other dancers) but it was more to see what it was like (experiment) and that they prefer and stick to men (“I like dick” is how they would state it) – and these dancers all had BFs OTC.

I think it’s a “product of the environment” – sorta like some dancers get into drinking and smoking when they get in the SC environment - plus a woman is a beautiful thing and I think it’s easier for a woman to be able to be attracted to, and be with, another woman even if they are not gay than for a guy to be w/ another guy if they are not gay – and for some women it may not be only, or mainly about the sex, but there may also be a strong emotional component to it.


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ime
11 years ago
Che and Papi i think are on point.

I dont disagree w/ Sclvr i didnt mean for it to be a shot at him either though i think it came Off that way, they sell whatever works.

I wonder how much geography matters i woupd guess that in the conservative south they may think it was easier to say they werent into it. I use to like it more but its lost some luster for me over the years. I just assume its all stripper shit
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steve229
11 years ago
"that young, broke-ass, no-game, couldn’t get a date in the real world, pretend rapper who has to go to strip clubs to meet girls."

Would that be anyone we know?
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Clubber
11 years ago
Let me throw this out. A lot of guys that watch porn enjoy watching girl on girl porn. Now I am pretty sure women don't watch porn as much as men. That said, of those that do watch, do most of them like to watch guy on guy porn?
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lopaw
11 years ago
I have met up OTC with enough dancers to know that plenty are lez/bi despite what some choose to believe. It is what it is. But in the club I dont give a crap if they are gay, straight, bi, or gay for pay so long as I get a fucking great dance. I am rarely disappointed and as long as my money holds out I am rarely sitting either. Overall I got no complaints.
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lopaw
11 years ago
*rarely sitting alone either
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SlickSpic
11 years ago
@Che-Good one. I'm rubbing some aloe vera on.
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curiositycat
11 years ago
When a stripper claims to be bi, I assume it's to get customers/more money. What she does to me in private usually determines how true the statement is. The rule of thumb usually seems to be, if she is bi for money she'll fondle and kiss in front of customers. If she is truly bi she will discreetly tell me the fact and prove it in private.. my current gf, who used to be a stripper told me she was bicurious. I think she is fully bi now lol
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georgmicrodong
11 years ago
My ATF also, as Clubber so eloquently put it, "tested positive" as well. :) She had a succession of girlfriends at the club she worked at, and our playtime had two visiting participants on separate occasions, neither of whom got any money from me, and I didn't give *her* any extra either. One was a stripper from another club, and one was a complete amateur.

It's possible that she was faking it, but by the time this happened, we'd been seeing each other long enough that I'm confident she wasn't.

Which reminds me. Somewhere, I have an article I wrote up about that amateur we saw. I'll have to dig it up and submit it.
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canny
11 years ago
I know quite a few strippers outside of the club and I've had quite a few tell me that they prefer sex with women to sex with men. I also know a few who aren't into women at all but they're the exception in my experience. These are strippers who I'm hanging out with without paying them one penny, so they weren't trying to get money from me.
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skibum609
11 years ago
Most of the dancers I know are bisexual. Most live with and date other women.
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