Kissing and the art of kissing
Clackport
Washington
Sunday, November 16, 2014 10:43 AM
When I get a lapdance, my favorite thing is not sex (I prefer sex OTC). My favorite thing during a lapdance is kissing. Unfortunately I haven't received a lot of kissing in lapdances in my strip clubbing career. I've been strip clubbing for 6 years, and I would estimate I've gotten dances from 150 different girls. Out of those 150 girls, only 4 of them have made out with me. 15 other girls have planted a kiss on my lips/peck, but that's about it. I haven't made out or gotten a kiss on the lips from a stripper in probably over a year.
I don't get it. I mean, I don't ask them to kiss, I think that's very PLish. I don't initiate any of the kissing. I feel if a stripper wants to kiss you, then she will kiss you. I'm not expecting every stripper I get a dance with, but damn I'm expecting a better ratio than what I've gotten. Especially, because I hear on here that kissing is pretty common with some of you guys.
I don't know if it's because I'm young and black, maybe they're intimidated? Maybe a lot of them aren't attracted to black guys? I don't know if it's because I rarely do a VIP. Maybe dancers kiss older guys because they think that will lead to them springing for the hour VIP? Do you guys ask the dancers if they will kiss? Do you guys initiate the kissing? I don't know what it is, I just know I want more kissing, and I'm not getting it.
Let me touch on the art of kissing real quick. Nowadays it seems like everyone is just jamming their tongues down the throat and having a tongue war. That is a turnoff. I think kissing is supposed to be mostly lip action with a little of tongue. It's like shooting a basketball, or throwing a football. You have two hands on the ball initially, but that left hand is on the ball to guide it, you actually shoot or throw the ball with just one hand, usually the right hand if you're right handed. With kissing, the tongue is like the guide, but the lips is what most of the action should be. Nowadays I'm seeing all tongue and no lips, when it should be a lot of lips and a little tongue.
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