Enjoying It Less
jackslash
Detroit strip clubs
For the past 6 or 8 months, I have been enjoying strippers and strip clubs less.
Early this year, I lost my favorite dancer Marilyn. She was a very attractive blonde and also a very nice person--the least crazy stripper I've ever known. I was the only customer she saw OTC (or so she claimed--I think she was telling the truth). But Marilyn found a straight boy friend, a guy in his forties with a good job. He convinced her to quit dancing and move in with him. I hear she is now pregnant. She is never coming back.
I then started seeing 5 or 6 other dancers, all in the 8 to 9 range. But one by one they disappointed me. Tammy dropped out of sight, not coming to the club and not answering my texts. Jessica lied to me so egregiously over a 6 month period that I decided I did not want to be involved with her any more. Sansa treated me disrespectfully a couple weeks ago, and I told her I was through with her.
In July I hooked up with my old ATF Christie, and met her a few times at her house. She was fun, but it was not the same. She no longer makes my heart sing.
I've tried visiting some Detroit clubs other than my usual haunts, but I have not met any strippers I liked well enough to see on a regular basis ITC or OTC.
So I'm enjoying strip clubbing less. It may be the strippers' fault or it may be mine. Maybe I'm getting old--or turning gay.
Early this year, I lost my favorite dancer Marilyn. She was a very attractive blonde and also a very nice person--the least crazy stripper I've ever known. I was the only customer she saw OTC (or so she claimed--I think she was telling the truth). But Marilyn found a straight boy friend, a guy in his forties with a good job. He convinced her to quit dancing and move in with him. I hear she is now pregnant. She is never coming back.
I then started seeing 5 or 6 other dancers, all in the 8 to 9 range. But one by one they disappointed me. Tammy dropped out of sight, not coming to the club and not answering my texts. Jessica lied to me so egregiously over a 6 month period that I decided I did not want to be involved with her any more. Sansa treated me disrespectfully a couple weeks ago, and I told her I was through with her.
In July I hooked up with my old ATF Christie, and met her a few times at her house. She was fun, but it was not the same. She no longer makes my heart sing.
I've tried visiting some Detroit clubs other than my usual haunts, but I have not met any strippers I liked well enough to see on a regular basis ITC or OTC.
So I'm enjoying strip clubbing less. It may be the strippers' fault or it may be mine. Maybe I'm getting old--or turning gay.
37 comments
I think a lot of us PLs go thru these phases – the obvious answer is to not got as often or take a hiatus; but then what is a PL to do?
It seems you may like the “one girl” thing – so maybe a SB with her head on straight (sorta); could make your penis hard again?
What I find funny is that when I joined this site 5 years ago I used to laugh at threads like this. 95% of my club activities were road-based. What finally sucked me into spending more time in a local club was finding a good favorite. Since then, many of my best club experiences have involved local favorite situations. I still enjoy road clubs, including the opportunity to score same night OTC, but I have less patience now and am more inclined to hoard my acorns for my local clubs if gals in road clubs prove to be expensive or elusive.
Cheer up though jack - your next ATF could be just around the corner, but you'll never find her if you are sitting on the bench.
Jack, I'm going with gay. I'm getting older but that doesn't stop me, ergo, you are turning gay! :-)
"...You guys shouldn't call yourselves that!" We don't, but others do. :)
"I thought it meant pussy lover lol" That goes without saying.
Do you think we are growing up?
Every time I visit clubs lately, I'm seeing different dancers. It's a bit more annoying when all the other employees change too. There have been 2 consistent dancers. I think they like to play with me.
That is if I don't get too distracted thinking about one hot dancer wanting to run her hands all over me.
I'm still not used to everything changing so much. I think I may be geting psychic too. I asked a girl if she was from Brazil. She said no but her parents were. I bought a stock the other day and made over 2% in about 30 minutes. Kind of sucked that I did not trust a hunch and buy it earlier, it was up 10% in the morning.
When everyone stayed in the right lane at a traffic light and the light turned green for me and another light mysteriously stayed green when it usually doesn't, I figured I must have entered a bizarro universe or one where my thoughts are altering reality.
Then I thought "what if that happened to me?"
Without her knowing it, I just gave my CF a big tight hug. Then squeezed her sexy butt (I cannot lie) so hard she looked at me like she was about to hammer my head.
Man, that was good.
It also sounds like you might be going through some burn-out. Take some time off; clear your head and save up some cash for a big night out in two or three months.
Hot, boring chicks are ok for ITC BJs, but for coitus, I want someone I can talk to.
Yeah, I'm still pretty shallow and superficial.
@slick - You know, I think you're onto something...
@jack - Sounds like you're asking yourself "If This Is It"? You wish you could go "Back in Time" to when your ATF was "Stuck with You," before there was all this "Trouble in Paradise."
But don't forget "The Heart of Rock & Roll" is still beating in the Motor City, "Do You Belive in Love"? Then you have have to put your "Heart and Soul" into it, keep "Workin' for a Living" and climb "Jacob's Ladder" to reach the "Power of Love."
And, remember, as always, "It's Hip to be Square."
I saw a news story on tv about a city trying to close down a strip club. It made me want to go visit while I still could. I tell you, the devil is working through all these church people protesting things they shouldn't be. I might have kicked the habit if not for church people protesting and getting on the news. I thought I had to defend my rights. I've been visiting strip clubs ever since.