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6 years ago
Thailand is my #1, then Vietnam.
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6 years ago
It's difficult for men to balance on being in charge and being sexually respectful. My first date with my new g/f could have been sexual if I had insisted but I went the more platonic route...I like this woman (who is a dancer!) and we had a great dinner, some 3rd base car fun and I took her home. I didn't want to press the sex as I want it to be the raision d'etre for the relationship.
Other women would have been pissed at me...who knows. I have found erring on the side of caution has the best long term results.
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6 years ago
I had a complaint about my old avatar so I changed it to the cute Thai girl I have now.
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6 years ago
Poledancer: When you have a crush on someone (PL or otherwise) you see if they're interested in going out on a date to see if you have a spark together. I recently had a dancer crush on me (and me on her), and it's not a "dancer and a PL" thing...just two people having that tingly feeling when they go out. This is by no means a common thing to have happen; dancer relationships tend to be exploitive by one or both parties. Sharks abound...
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6 years ago
I echo Nicole. Cobain is a prime example of someone we would say should have been carefree, but his inner demons got the best of him. Anyone who doesn't understand that is indeed lucky to have never have been there.
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6 years ago
Shailynn, I was in a Cheap Trick tribute band for 5 years...I love the tunes but it was somewhat limiting. We played a LOT of great places though.
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6 years ago
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GeneraI All your base are belong to us.
OTC usually means a sexual date, but I've used it for non-sexual dates too. Both are "real" OTC....lots of dancers won't see customers OTC for any purpose; they don't date customers let alone have sex with them so I can see why PL's get exited when they do see a dancer outside. Since I find myself dating a dancer at the moment it's not really the same "OTC" as is usually the case in posts here...she's not a "dancer" as such to me; just a hot girl I'm spending time with.
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6 years ago
Why can't you get laid? Just what are these two men going to be doing? Abject worship?
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6 years ago
I don't know any Styx songs; the covers I like lean more to Priest and Zeppelin...but my band plays originals. That being said, she had no idea I played music until we became FB friends. It's a myth that musicians get chicks; only the famous ones do!
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6 years ago
OMG I go to the club to AVOID the drama of relationships...
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6 years ago
LOL To all: Yeah I know I've all of a sudden become my own worst PL...Being a veteran I know the hazards so if/when it does hit the fan, at least it won't kill me.
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6 years ago
This Q and A thing is the funniest series of threads on TUSCL in a long time!
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6 years ago
I have no doubt some PL's are more liked than others, but with a very few exceptions, most will take a fast and generous man over a really attractive cheapskate. They're working and while we all like to work with people we like, we still do it only because we're paid for it.
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6 years ago
Ha! Juice I did the same thing my last trip. My closer was late, but there's another regular I have that gives great dances so I used her as a warmup for 5 dances. Then when my CF showed up I was really ready! I must say though, usually I just budget for CF when I make a date to see her ITC. This time was an exception.
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6 years ago
OMG...how could that comment NOT attract untoward PM's???? I think the troll is the OP.
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6 years ago
Great article! If I only had a 7 figure income...I'd probably live there.
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6 years ago
My birthday is this coming Thursday and it will just be another day. Birthday celebrations are best for children.
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6 years ago
Making America great again, one strip club at a time. Yeah, right.
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6 years ago
Meat: we've become FWB's. I give her a bud or two for a BJ. She's okay but way too in love with her dog.
Cashman: LOL about Schaumburg!!
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6 years ago
Jim, she's a retired escort from Schaumberg. I'll change my avatar to some better eye candy!
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6 years ago
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IceyI put your ATF on a winning team
I've only ever fucked one girl at a time so I guess I prefer monogamy. I won't have sex with a new girl until I've broken up with the old one as a rule. Even with P4P....which I've only done between g/f's.
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6 years ago
She has nice boobs but probably won't let him play with them.
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6 years ago
Dr. Who, Battle Bots, Kung Fu, Survivor. Outside of Kung Fu, I have bad taste in TV shows.
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6 years ago
What's "sex"? Is penetration required? What if I put it in but didn't cum inside? I do keep track however...counting girls I've had orgasms with, naked, I've had 4 black girls, 3 Asians and 5 white girls. This doesn't count BJ's or HJ's. I'd say my count is low compared to most people here but it's slightly above average for the average American.
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6 years ago
Nothing like media attention to things done! Meanwhile, over 1000 are dead from floods in Japan in case anyone wasn't paying attention.