PLs are often saying how they have a CF or ATF. But what about the dancers? Do you dancers usually have customers that you would describe as a CF or ATF? If so, what was it about them that made them your favorite?
I have no doubt some PL's are more liked than others, but with a very few exceptions, most will take a fast and generous man over a really attractive cheapskate. They're working and while we all like to work with people we like, we still do it only because we're paid for it.
I know my CF "likes" me. I have seen her with others in the club and I am treated differently. Having said that, as an attorney I too have favorite clients I "like". It makes the down time in Court easier to chat golf with someone than to listen to a 50 year old guy whine about his ex wife and do the "poor me" routine. I get that dancers have customers they "like" in the same way. As with dancers the customers I "like" pay the same rate. Every once in awhile I do a freebie. I am sure dancers do too.
I guess the "holy-grail" for a dancer is a PL that comes in, buys two hours of VIP, pays her $500+ and all he wants is company and conversation while sipping champagne - i.e. dancers would prefer to make the most $$$ possible w/ the least effort possible and that would make you a fave - i.e. a dumbass that can easily be dealt-with/manipulated.
So do dancers have "fave" custies - sure - one that spends well and spends regularly and that she can tolerate - i.e. I don't think dancers "like" certain custies - IMO, w/ "some" exceptions, dancers can-deal-with/tolerate certain custies more than others - i.e. they don't like you.
Logically it should be the guy spending the most money, but we're talking girls and strippers here, sooooo logic need not apply ;)
But as much as guys talk about it's all about the money, it's not all about the money. Money's important sure, and there's a certain threshold to enter but there are other factors that can put you into favorite category. Ease to deal with, personality, humor etc plays a part. To what extent, to each dancer will be different.
Some people have some chemistry, some people don’t. I don’t think it’s a stretch to believe that on occasion a dancer might have some degree of chemistry with oneself such that she treats one a little better.
It’s probably not wise to read too much into that though. At the end of the day, she’s there to make money.
We all know the money matters. But I do think that most of the dancers prefer to be with a guy that doesn't disgust them or maybe appeals to them on some other level. Honestly, when I talk to a dancer and we share a vibe she will sometimes say why she won't be with another guy. Most the time it's because of hygene, he gropes or it he is unpleasant. I have a dancer now that comes and sits with me to hide from some of her regulars even though I've only bought 2 dances off her. (She is an air dance queen). I sometimes have to remind her I'm there to see other dancers and ask her to leave. But she likes the fact I normally dress nicely and I'm showered and I'm not trying to grab her.
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Personally: Laud back personality and good sense of humor
So do dancers have "fave" custies - sure - one that spends well and spends regularly and that she can tolerate - i.e. I don't think dancers "like" certain custies - IMO, w/ "some" exceptions, dancers can-deal-with/tolerate certain custies more than others - i.e. they don't like you.
But as much as guys talk about it's all about the money, it's not all about the money. Money's important sure, and there's a certain threshold to enter but there are other factors that can put you into favorite category. Ease to deal with, personality, humor etc plays a part. To what extent, to each dancer will be different.
It’s probably not wise to read too much into that though. At the end of the day, she’s there to make money.