Unintentional OTC

I haven't done an OTC in many years, mainly because I have had civvie g/f's, so I don't even ask my CF's for OTC these days. Well, I met a new dancer a couple weeks back (I'm not dating anyone at this moment) while I was just sitting at the bar. We talked a lot, eventually did a few very nice dances but most of our time together was talking. We really hit it off personality wise! After seeing her only 3 times ITC, she asked me if we could go out; I said yes. Or did I ask her? I'm not even sure but it was clear too that this wasn't a sex date even though we talked about sex a lot.

I took her to dinner to a mid line restaurant and we had a great time. I was expecting jeans and a T shirt but she wore the slinkiest cocktail dress I've ever seen, and full makeup too. She looked amazing! I'm sure the staff thought she was a rental LOL. Next date is the sex date (overnighter); we really didn't have time this time and she wasn't excited about car sex in the public garage.

My point though is that for years OTC seemed such a mystery to me...I'd plot and plan my approach to see if any dancers were available and invariably struck out. It took me many years before my first OTC in fact.

And here I'm now just sitting at the bar, not looking for my next ex at all, and the next thing I know I'm dating a dancer! Actual dating; I don't pay her. This is something I've warned PL's for years as something NOT to do because if you really like her, the SS will ruin it for you! Yes, I really like her. She's no ordinary dancer though in that when she's late for work or our date she texts me constantly on her updates. We text during the day a lot too. Her vices are the same as mine, and we're both rather extreme in what we like in bed which we will be finding out in a couple days.

So...NEVER date a dancer but if you find yourself doing just that, I hope you find that rare one that is an actual person as well...at least so far. Since I'm not paying her (except for the date expenses)...so wish me luck. I've not been as excited about a new relationship since my ex-ATF...