I think shes mad
Newtothislife
California
Soo i made a post the other day about OTC and 3WAY KISSING. Now i want to tell u whats going on now. Im starting to lose interest in the main chic and want to pursue new relations with the new chic (her friend and ride home as of lately ) But now the chic is upset because me and her already starting talking about otc meet ups and dates. So i said i wasnt sure what i wanted. I said that i would probably need to take a break from her. She said ok, but that the ball was in my court and that i needed to decide if i want her for just business fantasy or start a personal relationship with her, because she said she likes me and was game for either. But when i mentioned that i wanted to stop by the club and that i would probably do seperate 1on1s with her then her friend, the tone in her texts became very apparent that she was not okay with that. That if thats what i wanted, me and her would not have any personal relations otc at all. I didnt go to see them. She texts later asking if i would come see her on a 1on1 one last time, before we broke up. I didnt go. She kept texting. She then asked for money for groceries because she didnt make shit that night. What are your thoughts on my situation. This all happened last nite. I personally plan to go back and just be front and say i just want 1on1 with the new chic and see what happens. I don't know what will happen
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You can grow a sack, blow off the old girl and pursue the one you want.
Choices, choices...
Your getting into this situation because you're weak, the first "chic" can smell it, so she's tying you up in knots. No, this would not have happened to me, or most guys here. The fact that you're in this situation at all means you should be doing some serious introspection on how you've conducted yourself and what changes in your behavior and responses would have avoided it.
Also, I expect serious props from you guys for using the word "introspection".
No, you really aren't. Also, I'm pretty sure you're a troll.
It works on some dancers who bitch about “stealing” a regular, lol.
I think you should just admit to yourself that you are like that and try to get the dancers competing for you and cutting their prices or increasing services and all.
You seem like you would enjoy the outcome whatever happens.
Troll? Probably but what is the game plan? To annoy us with poorly formatted, poorly spelled rambles? I can do that myself.
There is no need to show off if you aren't a troll. No one is impressed. Hooking up with strippers is kind of common around here.
I go to clubs to avoid drama too. I don’t want crazy stripper drama - and I don’t want to lament over “breaking up” with a stripper.
If anything - when my wallet is empty - I want the dancers to move on quickly. If they linger with me when I’m broke - that would scare me!
By definition, trolls rarely have a 'game plan' that goes beyond being annoying and stirring pots.
Post some valid reviews, but then again it doesn't matter to many here because they'll respond to anything.
Wait, that’s actually a thing for you!?!?!
Just yanking your chain, gawker. :)
and
"Yep. Just to be annoying. Read any article on studies about trolls, and what kind of people they are, and you'll get it"
I guess I have a problem understanding how someone can be so desperate for something to do when there are so many better choices.
is this how it plays out in their minds? "What should I do today? Read a book, listen to some music, go for a walk, start an actual conversation. No, those are too constructive and I might make a friend. I think I will annoy people instead."
Sorry for the derail.
Yep. That's pretty much the thought process. Moronic, isn't it?
K then said "Sorry for the derail."
The OP is likely full of shit. So, you haven't actually derailed an actual topic.
... or are you?!?! Maybe you're the mastermind behind the never-ending troll parade. Genius to pretend not to understand the motivation
Well, that's some bullshit. If you've been on the internet for more than a half hour, then you know what a troll is. It's not exactly an obscure reference.
If your stories are real (lol), then you're a drama queen. Good luck with that.
(but I still think you're a troll)
"Also, I expect serious props from you guys for using the word 'introspection'."
When I first read it I thought to myself, "that's the word I was trying to come up with the other day."
When you asked for props I had to laugh.
I usually reply to obviously troll posts with a comment recognizing it as probably BS but there is still a topic worthy of discussion or perhaps a lurker has a similar question. So here goes
Most men would not kill to be in your situation. Especially not the men on this site. It sounds as if you are into drama. The lack of drama is why I and I believe most men on this site are in this hobby.
If she needs money for groceries and you are so inclined, either give her the money or offer to let her earn it. Or don't give it to her. Be a man and decide. Be a man and stop jerking her around if you want a relationship or not. Grow a set and tell both of these ladies what you want and what you don't want. I expect the behavior you describe from middle schoolers, not a man with power. Women drop hints and skirt around things.
the experiences you posted are far from awesome. Two days ago I spent the evening in a hot tub with a 24 and a 26 year old. The 26 year old was taking her new tits out for a test drive. Awesome was watching them go down on each other. Awesome was the 24 year old blowing me while new tits straddled my face. Awesome was waking up at 5:30 to take a piss and realizing I had two 20 somethings splayed on me. Awesome was showering with each of them in the morning. Not bad for a man more than twice either of their ages. By the way, new tits and I are getting together when she gets off work in a few hours. I'll let the group decide, which of us has the more awesome story?
If you want to be taken seriously,
-fix your posting style, use paragraphs
-Misspellings are fine but at least try
-lurk a little and learn a little of the culture before posting
-I've been at this for 40 plus years and I am far from the senior member. We've done and seen a lot. It will take a lot to impress us.
And exactly what support and guidance have you provided?
What? None? OK