If it makes you feel any better I am friends with one that does not involve any element of the Club. Purely a civi relationship. She flakes on plans all the time and "vanishes" randomly for a day or two. It is just how they are in all parts of their lives, imo. <-- and yes that is a broad generalization I know.
Don't take it personal.
"A. "Was it as good for you as it was for me?""
Said this jokingly to a SA girl I have been seeing kinda regular. She didn't realize the joke part and answered, "Absolutely, blowjobs make me feel super in control and powerful!!". I was a little surprised, although I have heard that angle discussed before, and asked her what her preferences were. She said she would like to do the bj at least once a week and if I wanted to do the sex also that was fine but not necessary. Has me a little confused to be honest, lol.
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