Real vs Fake OTC
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What percent of guys do you think are on here talk about OTC in terms of just a date or non sexual time together outside the club vs OTC being totally a sexual encounter, or at least one leading to the other. I read the post about non monetary OTC and I'm wondering if that's just dinner or if he's banging a stripper for free. Almost need like an OTCFS to keep those things straight.
I've certainly had some "free" dinner only kind of OTC that never got to where I wanted it to. I assume that happens with everyone, but maybe I'm mistaken. I've also read (on SW) some guys apparently offering to buy a girl out of her shift to just have dinner with nothing else expected. That seems crazy to me but I guess a PL in love will do anything. But I feel like that kind of OTC and wrestling between the sheets OTC are pretty different things but use the exact same acronym on here.
I've certainly had some "free" dinner only kind of OTC that never got to where I wanted it to. I assume that happens with everyone, but maybe I'm mistaken. I've also read (on SW) some guys apparently offering to buy a girl out of her shift to just have dinner with nothing else expected. That seems crazy to me but I guess a PL in love will do anything. But I feel like that kind of OTC and wrestling between the sheets OTC are pretty different things but use the exact same acronym on here.
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It’s fun to take a hot girl - dressed very sluttily - to a red lobster - for the looks you’ll get. But it’s not worth it unless you are going to fuck her after.
My recent otc dates have been at the hotel only. I give the girl a choice of eating at the hotel restaurant - before taking her to my room. My last two otc dates went right to the room - which was perfect for me.
For some of the newbs I'm not so sure bc most of them are still thinking like civilians in thinking about wining and dining her and hoping to get lucky - i.e. seems newbs incorrectly look at it as a regular/normal date.
I also love to take my stripper to lunch before her shift, or drinks afterwards. I like my CFs, I'll spend any time with them I can, even if there's no sex involved. I don't call this OTC, since as I said, OTC means sex. I never have, and never would, compensate a stripper for "allowing" me to buy her dinner or drinks, and in fact none of my ATFs have ever asked. Which makes me wonder where this SW idea that a stripper should ask for the equivalent cash in VIP time, to get taken to dinner, comes from; but SW's delusional view of these things is a different topic
Also, yes some of us are that fucking cool that strippers will fuck us for free. Like I’ve said before, that “free fuck” outside the club likely cost us some serious spending money inside the club. It happens, it’s not common, and (most of us) are telling the truth. I do realize those opportunities are dwindling for me as the older I get, the window for free stripper sex is shrinking.
Example - I’ve had it happen once in the past 3 years, and I spent a lot of money inside the club on a particular stripper, then paid an outrageous amount for an OTC date. Then the OTC gods blessed me and she met me for dinner and drinks (at a chain restaurant - nothing special) about a month later and that’s when I got free sex. I kinda hinted “am I expected to pay for this?” and was told “no” and also “I’m a woman and I have needs too” (meaning she needs fucked too for the dense readers on this board).
I got lucky because this stripper worked in Vegas and I met her back at her hometown in a Midwest state. I think she just wanted to feel normal for once like she was on an average date, and me giving her money would just ruin the fantasy. Her reality was a stripper and part time escort, so going to Olive Garden in a pair of jeans and a sweater was what her “normal” was.
Again - I was lucky, the moons were aligned right that night, or maybe Juice said a little OTC prayer for me that evening, but it happened, and I often think I’m more likely to find a unicorn that shits 4 leaf clovers before I find free stripper sex on a regular basis.
In that case, don't call it OTC -- it's not, at least according to how all of the rest of us use this term, I believe. It's you buying her dinner.
Buying dances is for chumps! Front room makeout session, then only when it is time for your own pants to come down, you invite her to the back room.
After that, fuck her in your own bed.
SJG
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san_jose_guy - commonly referred to as SJG this forum member is considered mentally unstable and is widely mocked, his comments should NOT be taken in any way as legitimate
She & I have maintained contact and we'll go out for coffee occasionally and every couple of months she'll come over to my house and spend the night. Sometimes a bbbj, occasionally FS but, frankly she's not prime any longer and I've been mesmerized by my idea of perfection with my ATF, so I just let it happen when it can. Another way to look at it is, " You get what you pay for."
no sex? it's a date.
On here the term 'OTC' equals sex.
There has been only one stripper that I would occasionally meet for coffee and a sandwich because she wanted a quiet break from her life. No sex, just chat, and she either paid half or sometimes picked up the bill for both of us. There was no belief on either side that it was a date, which worked for both of us.
At the same time, we were meeting regularly for OTC, which also worked for both of us. It was one of the most high-functioning, drama-free relationships I've ever had with a stripper. It ended because she retired from stripping and sex work, and stayed retired.
But yeah, on here OTC means sex.
Some of my situations are a bit different in that I knew the women before they became strippers in a couple is instances. For them I am a breath of fresh air from what their normal lives are dealing with clients.
Similar to Shailynn I know a few strippers that are now in Vegas ( including an ex-girlfriend) that are from the same area of the country he is referencing. The ones without boyfriends when they come home sometimes will contact me to meet up--no money changes hands- and it has lead to some interesting evenings.
And to refer to Cashman's post replace Red Lobster with Bonefish Grill and spot on.