Comments by mal_hodgson (page 2)

The club I go to has a lousy stage setup for tipping, just the regular table and chairs so it’s teally awkward to sit at the stage. I only go up to tip when I want to ask the dancer to come by after. At my last visit to the club, I did go to the stage when my CF got called up to dance shortly after we had a great Vip session. I tipped her another $20.

I’ve never been good at this numeric rating game. I typically just grade on a pass fail basis, but generally the test is just on if I’ll spend a 20 on a dance or not. I think a few of the girls that got a fail on the twenty buck dance test would get a pass on the free sex yest. On the other hand some of the girls that initially passed the 20 buck dance test I would fail them on the free sex test if they offered (based on the previous dance experience).

I worked with a guy during a summer job who would yell out “Sweet Pooper!” at women he liked. This was while we drove around in a City marked work truck. I never understood how we didn’t get called in over that. I’ve liked that phrase ever since, but I’ve never verbalized it in earshot of a woman!

I remember probably 15 plus years ago a stripper at DejaVu in Minneapolis gave me a business card that had her photo on it. It wasn’t nude unfortunately, more like a Mall glamour shot. I didn’t keep it. Never have seen that again.

My dad had a charter subscription to Playboy, so he had almost every issue from issue 1 (1953 with Marylin Monroe) up through the sometime in the 80s when he finally cancelled the subscription. I still remember when I first found the boxes he stored them in in our basement in the early 70s when I was around 12 or so. What a goldmine that was! I still remember a couple of, um, “favorites” issues that a I snuck into my room. Unfortunately the whole collection got pitched sometime before I could retrieve them as an adult. A collection like that could have made me some money these days. A couple years ago I bought all the Playboy issues from the 50s and 60s as a digital CD box set when I found them for cheap at a Half Price bookstore. I’ve also got a subscription online so I could look at the issues from the 70s. I actually enjoy them for the articles now(which was always the joke back in the day, “I buy Playboy for the articles”), and the old ads are fun to look at. It’s also interesting to watch how the look of the playmates and the centerfold photography evolved over time. My favorite period is the mid 60s to early 70s. Earlier the photos look pretty old fashioned (but Hugh must have really like girls with huge knockers in those days). 80s had to much airbrushing and strange poses for my tastes. What is really crazy is the cartoons. All the way through the 70s at least they are so sexist (bosses hitting on secretaries, old men with little young girls, etc). The #METOO gang would absolutely flip out if you tried to publish them now. He also had a charter subscription to Sports Illustrated which I have continued un-interrupted in his name since I took it over some time in the mid 80s. I hardly read it anymore but the charter subscription rate is so cheap and I’d hate to cancel it.

I saw a 10 once in the late 70s. She wasn’t a stripper as far as I know, I happened to see her on her way to her wedding, became so immediately obsessed that I started following her. Even followed her on her honeymoon in Mexico and by a fluke saved her new husband from drowning. She was so grateful she invited me to her room... Oh wait, that wasn’t me it was Dudley Moore in the movie “10”. I think that was the first R rated movie I went to, but even as a perpetually horny teenager at the time that movie came out I didn’t think Bo Derek was a 10 (I hated that hair style). Getting serious, my first stripper 10 was about 20 plus years ago at a Deja Vu. Her name was Natasha and she had an eastern euro look but was a girl next door type personality. She wasn’t tall but had great proportions for her height. Great strong legs and ass but still with soft curves, thin waist but with just a touch of a belly. Her boobs weren’t large but again well proportioned and perky with very responsive nipples that again just right for the size and shape of her breasts (not to big or small). She had long straight brown hair and like I said a cute eastern euro look to her face. She was very sweet personality and had a way of moving in a couch dance and on stage that was so sensual. She disappeared from the club for a month or so and when she came back she had really large implants. It was actually a fairly good job, but it just Didnt quite work for her body type and she wasn’t a 10 anymore. This also seemed to be a turning point for her in the business and she started to lose the girl next door vibe and kind of hardened. I eventually lost track of where she worked. I still wonder what happened to her. This was fairly early in my SC career and there have certainly been other 10s since but she is the only one I remember by name and in detail. I guess you don’t forget your first!

Is that a cell phone in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?

So what was she willing to do that you weren’t?

I was at an out of town club once and had to hit the club cash machine, the only time I’ve ever done that. I was back at my table when a stripper came up and said I had dropped a $20 at the machine. I thanked her but I was to stunned to think to offer it to her. Plus I was never going to be in that club again and didn’t plan on getting a dance from her. (and I’m cheap).

What about the doctors and pharma who drug these people? Listen to the disclaimers on drug ads and how they say they may cause suicidal thoughts, delusions, aggressive behavior, etc. when these drugs went into use is when the shootings started.

My first strip club visit was in the early 80’s to a place on the outskirts of Kalamazoo called the Black Rose (I think.). I had a a summer job from college and the full time workers took all the us college kids here at the end of the summer. I don’t think they had anything but stage dances and a tip rail. I don’t think I even went up to it. After college my first real dance occurred at Solid Gold in Minneapolis sometime around 1990. All they offered was table dances where the dancer but a small cylindrical platform and dances in front of your chair. No contact at all and just topless, but I still remember that first girl fondly. A couple years later I discovered Deja Vu and lap dances. First few I tried were air dances but then I found a girl called Natasha who introduced me to the grind. She was something else. It was probably someplace in Atlanta or Dallas on a business trip that I was first introduced to 2 way contact with some random dancer I never saw again.

4 couch dances typically per visit. I went to the club yesterday and had the discussion. She said she has been working double shifts and had been dealing with issues at home so she apologized for being distracted. She said she wanted to make it up to me so had a few dances which where back up to the previous quality again. We'll see how long that sticks. I also brought up that I'd like to see her otc sometime. She seemed open to the topic but I didn't push it because frankly my situation makes it difficult to arrange something like that.

Yes, good advice there. I've usually experienced the complacency situation kick in sooner than this so I hadn't really considered it. When that has happened in the past I typically did move on. This time I was hopeful the situation would lead to better things. I'll see if it can be salvaged still.

$400 an hour? Senator Franken must have been in town...

I haven't been there in 2 years but there was a bunch of AMPs clustered on Emerald St and Royal just off 35E. You could easily go in one, check out the lineup, and if no one struck your fancy just walk next door and try again. It would be a bummer if it was shut down but I wouldn't be surprised. Rubmaps should have them if they are still open.

At one of the clubs I go to there was a guy who regularly gave massages to the dancers. He had a spot off to the side and would spend a half our or longer massaging one dancer after another. I never figured out if this was an official thing he got paid for or was just some customer who figured out a scam to spend a lot of time touching strippers without paying.

I don't recall the names off hand, but I went to 2 different clubs in Topeka a few years ago and had some good times. Don't know if this is common place for the area but I wish I had the opportunity to visit again. I probably review them if you want to check.

Titties for the win!

At the clubs in Minnesota (at least the Twin Cities clubs) I've heard the no touching warning from dancers many times at most clubs. Often it's been part of the pitch to move to a $100 plus VIP dance. Fortunately there are always a few girls who ignore that approach and allow roaming hands, especially on the day shift. Just last week a girl grabbed my hand and put it on her breast and this was not during a dance. She just pulled her top up and let me feel. Thats a girl that understands good marketing!

Thanks for the suggestions everyone. I ended up going to Dancers, since it was closest to my hotel. They close at 1 on Sunday, so I only had about an hour at the club. It looked like about a half dozen girls dancing, and most seemed to be occupied with groups if regulars. The talent looked pretty good. I tend to be laid back and let the girls come to me, so given they all seemed occupied and closing wasn't far off I wasn't expecting much action. Just then a gorgeous black girl broke away from the table she had been at and asked if if like a dance before closing. I jumped at the chance. This girl was awesome. Easily a 9 in my book, great face, hair and body. Fantastic skin color and so soft. Turns out she gave a great dance to. Lots of contact allowed by me and some good grinding and hand contact from her (by the Minnesota standards I'm used to this is good mileage!). Her name was Essemce. If I can I'll be going back.

KOD is not even the best club in Inver Grove Heights, and I don't think there even is another club there.

I'm sure glad he wasn't long winded.

Being part of the Deja Vu chain does not necessarily mean they will be strict. There are two in Minneapolis, A Deja Vu and a Deja Vu Showgirls, both in Downtown Minneapolis and not even a mile apart. The Deja Vu is strict in my experience. The couch dances are typical hands off grinders and I never had a decent VIP there. The ShowGirls on the other hand can offer very good mileage, especially during the day. The couch dances can be so good with the right girl that I don't feel the need to do a bed dance. The few bed dances I gave had have been good mileage however.

Thanks for the tip on Follies. I read a bunch if the recent reviews and it sounds good. Unfortunately I won't be able to visit in the daytime which seems to be preferred all the way around, so maybe not going to work out the best.I also hate valet parking! There are a lot of clubs in Atlanta and I'm on a phone, so it would take forever to sort through all the reviews. Just wanted to cut to the chase, that's what the forum is good for.

It seems like the vast majority of dancers I see have protruding lips to some extent, but my experience with non-strippers has all been non-protruding lips. I've always wondered if strippers have some special trick to get there pussies to look that way. I do like it. What I don't like is a pussy that has a significantly different color from the girls skin tone. Especially on a black girl.