mal_hodgson

As others have said, I believe her request entailed you putting something “in tail”.

If COVID has thought me anything it’s that I really don’t miss watching any of the major college or pro sports. I really don’t care if any of it comes back, if it means I don’t have to listen to them tell me why I should think and believe in. Same goes for Hollywood.

I wish my ATF would ask for some money! She has a regular job as an essential worker and has been working tons of hours so doesn’t need any extra cash from me. That means no fun for me either unfortunately!

About 2 years ago my ATF and her boyfriend broke up (partly because of her dancing). During that breakup period we had one OTC. She told me she knew she would get him back eventually and that she would stop dancing and seeing me OTC when that happened. She did get him back but didn’t stop dancing. We also did about a dozen more otc. Then she started wearing what looked like an engagement ring - but I didn’t ask and she didn’t tell if that’s what it was, We’ve done about 4 more otc with that ring on her finger. It’s cooled off now but that may be COVID.

After the stay at home order hit my state last month my regular girl asked if I could give her some cash in advance for our next time to get together (it’s hard for me to find time to meet up with her lately). Before you jump on me for being a sucker to pay in advance, she is someone I can trust to make good, She was out of the country for school last fall. While she was gone I sent her cash through PayPal 4 times - she said she would give me IOUs for when she got back. And she did just that. When she asked for another advance last month she had already made good on 3 of the 4 IOUs. We finished off that 4th one 2 weeks ago and I offered her extra cash for another IOU, but she turned it down. She said she wanted to be “debt free” for a while. I offered again last week and she declined again. Not sure if she has found a better deal with someone else or just doesn’t need the money at the moment. She is working full time at her civilian job and probably is just saving money since everyplace she’d spend money is closed (restaurants, bars and shows).