Comments by canny (page 17)

I agree, taking advantage of someone who is completely trashed isn't kosher. However, one or two drinks isn't going to be enough to make someone do anything that they wouldn't normally do, it will make them relax a little bit. The FBI recently changed the legal definition of rape. If two people have sex and one of them is relatively sober and that one gave the other one alcohol or drugs and the other person is wasted, the person who got the other one trashed is legally guilty of rape. The gender of the two people involved no longer matters. So, a couple of drinks = a better dance most of the time and I will happily buy any stripper one or two drinks before a dance. More than a couple of drinks = rape.

Everyone who does something to change how they look, starting with coloring their hair and going the whole way to plastic surgery, does it because they think they'll look better with the change than without it. It's definitely a self-esteem issue. They don't think that they're attractive without the alteration.

I've gotten much better dances from drunk strippers than from sober ones. I'll happily buy her a drink before a VIP session and give her time to drink it.

I've met lot's of dancers without kids and I've also met lot's of dancers with kids. I don't know what the ones with children tell their kids, but I do know that it's hard to keep something like that a secret. Their kids find out eventually. I saw a t-shirt in a strip club that said, "Support single mothers, visit a strip club." I think the guy wearing it worked there.

I've had it happen once and it was fun. If she was still dancing at the club where I ran into her I'd be a regular customer of hers.

I've seen both, and I've seen girls audition and not get hired at one club. I've also been told that a lot of clubs interview the girls by asking to see their ID and their tits.

I know two dancers who don't do extras whose boyfriends want them to quit stripping. One of them would quite happily live with her on what he earns and wants her to quit stripping. She flat out won't, she likes the money from stripping too much to quit and he doesn't earn enough to support her the way she wants to live.

I've let one dancer know that I know about this web site because she wanted some information on different clubs. Other than that, no way. And, I saved the web pages for the clubs that she wanted information from and removed my name from them and then showed them to her, so she doesn't know my name on here.

Yeah, me too.

Cheerleaders in Pittsburgh has 3 stages that are connected. Two of them are behind the bar and the third one is the only one where you can tip the dancers directly instead of throwing money at them. I don't like the setup.

I'm single. I tend to avoid strippers who are wearing wedding or engagement rings.

Stripper's incomes are all over the place. It depends on where they work, how well they dance, how hard they hustle, if they do extras, what nights they work, if they keep working after they've made what they "need" to earn that night, etc. I have been told by several strippers that the money isn't what it used to be and a lot of them are doing more extras in order to earn enough to pay their bills.

According to a stripper who I'm friends with, the competition for jobs as a waitress/bartender in strip clubs is fierce. They earn a better living than the strippers do so it's harder to get one of those jobs than it is to get a job stripping.

They're human too, just like us. A surprising number of them want that sunset happy ending to happen, even though it's not likely for most of them.

I'm single, so that wouldn't be a problem. It could potentially have a slight impact on my career if word got out, but it's unlikely that it would have more than a slight impact. I've been having dancers over to my house once every few weeks for a while so some of my neighbors have to have a suspicion. Some of them are nosy enough that they've either noticed or I've gotten very lucky and they haven't been up when dancers were getting into or out of my car. Most of my friends would be very shocked and them finding out would be very bad for me. There are a few friends who know the "name" I'm using on here and if they found out, they'd be slapping me on the back. My family would be as shocked as my friends would be. Some of my family members would disown me, the rest would ask me to take them to the club with them. Especially if they found out that I've been having dancers spend the night at my house every now and then.

It's small and it get's very crowded. It's downtown and the price is similar to the price at Cheerleaders. If you're into feature dancers, they have a different porn star dancing there every weekend. The lap dance rooms are curtained off almost exactly the way the 15 and 30 minute private rooms are downstairs at Cheerleaders. I've never gotten a private room there, but I've been told that they're basically hotel rooms because the building used to be a hotel. Club Erotica is about 10 minutes from downtown and is one of my favorite clubs in Pittsburgh on weeknights. On weekends it's extremely crowded and it's next to impossible to move around. If you like lap dances, avoid Erotica, their lap dances are strictly hands off in a huge open room. Their private rooms are much better, they're real rooms with doors and the same rules as the private rooms at Cheerleaders.

I don't know about Mexico, but you do need a passport to enter Canada.

I've had both a DFK and a BJ from a girl who had one, and she didn't have the bar that was too long or the huge balls because she doesn't want to ruin her teeth. I can take them or leave them. It didn't add anything, but it didn't detract either. It was different and that's about it.

When a dancer puts on a really good show, especially one who does pole tricks, or something else that the rest don't do, I tip her better than I tip the rest. They work hard and they earn it.

Dancers appreciate getting tipped on stage and I've had some hang out with me knowing that I'm not getting any dances because it get's boring on slow nights sitting around with nothing to do. Say hi, tip them on stage, and be nice. Be honest and tell them that you're not going to get any dances but that you'd love to talk and see what happens. You'll be pleasantly surprised.

My car is a Mustang Convertible, but it isn't the 5.0. It cruises really nicely at 110 with a V6 and I average 22 MPG in it.

Sounds like a great business opportunity. Go around the country trying to open strip clubs and sue the cities for refusing to give you the necessary licenses. You need some start up attorney fees, but after you with the first couple you can clean up! He probably brings in more by suing the cities than he would opening the strip clubs.

@Stiletto, shelbyparker79 probably isn't Samantha. Silky's is a dive and Blush, the other club that shelby posted about is one of the top 3 or 4 clubs in the Pittsburgh region. Dancers who work at the top 3 or 4 clubs in Pittsburgh turn their noses up at the though of working at any of the other clubs. That isn't to say that the money is better at those clubs, but the perception is that they're nicer than the others and it costs more to go to them than it costs to go to the other clubs in the area.

Their lap dance rooms are curtained off so they're semi-private. mjx01 is right, the club is tiny and crowded. I've never gotten a room there, but I am positive that the club won't set up an out call party for you.

He should try again, only this time use her real name instead of her name that she goes by in movies. The school administrators won't have a clue who she is and will allow it.