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13 years ago
You don't have her number then, I assume. Did she actually put it into her phone?
Otherwise her saying she'll text you could just be some in the moment SS.
Unfortunately not every girl with whom I exchange numbers I actually end up being able to see OTC (they basically never make themselves available). So this sounds like just another one of those cases, perhaps.
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13 years ago
I am assuming that you have been seeing this girl OTC as well? Or are you really just solely a (regular) customer of hers in the club?
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13 years ago
The dancer isn't always going to offer it, especially if they're already making good money from you in the club, there isn't much incentive for them necessarily. But there is no harm asking them, especially if you've seen indications that they do it with others. Since you're basically a regular of hers and she knows you decently well I am assuming, if she does it, she'll probably be down to do it with you.
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13 years ago
Yeah for sure, I will report back to this forum with a detailed review. :) Latinas are among my favorite too.
I will be checking out both Adelita Bar and Hong Kong. I'll probably be going down to TJ multiple times while I'm SD. Should be there in early-mid June, may even head back again in August.
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13 years ago
@GoVikings - it definitely seems like strip club heaven, based on the reviews I've been reading...honestly I might go all the way with a girl there, who knows. Looking through their galleries (Hong Kong and Adelitas), there are some girls that are about average, but definitely a few there that are absolute stunners. Looks like it's just a matter of being a little picky. Not a problem for me given the incredible value here.
Your birthday's coming up soon, no? (I remember seeing another thread) You should definitely make the trip! I don't think there's a better place in North America value wise.
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13 years ago
I know a bit of Spanish so can probably communicate that way if I need to.
I've been with strippers OTC and although there's a risk there as well, I feel like it's much less of a risk that something like Adelita Bar, which seems to basically be a brothel.
I would not say I am very worried, but it would be a real downer to have a good time there only to come back and find out that I've got an STD.
I'd still love to go and check out this place though - and may go for some less hardcore extras (HJ, CBJ) if the girls are willing. Even if that's all I get, it's still a great value compared to anywhere I've been in the US.
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13 years ago
I agree with SuperDude. Trust me, I've been there before. Just because they are seeing you outside does not mean they look at you as anything much other than another customer of theirs. They want you to be a regular.
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13 years ago
@TABB - I am not really sure what your question is in this situation. Meet her outside the club as much as possible, and try to land in her bed. That's really the best course of action here.
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13 years ago
@GMD - I've experienced that too, but only if it's not so busy in the club at the time, or if I buy her a drink after I've already gotten a few LDs and we're "taking a break." heh.
But in most cases, the drink hasn't been worth it - so I'm cutting that out of my routine for sure.
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13 years ago
Those girls are pretty nice, but if you want to talk about news reporters - Mélissa Theuriau is where its at IMO.
http://www.askmen.com/celebs/women/models_300/364_melissa_theuriau.html
Plenty of pics of her online topless as well - she's not afraid to show it off. Heh.
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13 years ago
@SuperDude - trust me, I've done this before too, but you should probably stop buying drinks with them. It's just not worth it for you, and don't think they'll feel bad if you don't - I am sure most guys say no. You just get LDs from them, which is a much better investment.
I do still buy drinks from time to time, but it's not something I'll do often anymore. You have to realize that the girl in many cases may not even want a drink.
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13 years ago
If you are going to see a favorite and you know she is working on a less busy day, that's naturally going to be the best time to go.
But I can also agree in general that it's my experience that Mondays actually aren't bad at all - at least in the places I frequent, there are still tons of hot dancers, just less customers. Which is good :-)
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13 years ago
> I LOVE THE SHARK LOUNGE LIKE THEY SAY YOU CAN TAKE THE DANCER OUT THE CLUB BUT YOU CANT TAKE THE DANCER OUT THE CLUB.
Not sure what that means...
Anyway, now that you are here, post up some pics!
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13 years ago
Don't splurge on any of the private rooms that have ridiculous prices - $500+ per hour - avoid that whole scene, as generally there's nothing too special going on in there.
Go to a place that has good mileage on regular LDs, which are generally not more than around $20-25 each.
Never use a credit card, or in-club ATMs. Bring the amount of cash you want to spend, and you'll be just fine overall.
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13 years ago
In clubs where any actual sex acts are limited to very costly private rooms (if at all available), I could see this being a decent solution. There's certainly a market out there for it.
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13 years ago
Picture messages are considered MMS and therefore use cell phone data. Google should implement a way to have these redirected to email though - that would easily solve the problem.
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13 years ago
@Stiletto25 - but could that ever be a guy that you meet in the club?
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13 years ago
What I've found also is that while a lot of girls say they're going to quit, and this is particularly for those who make a -ton- of cash doing what they do (special cases, to be honest), they're probably not actually going to be quitting anytime soon. I know one girl who originally said she was going to quit this May...well she's still working at the club quite actively, and is now saying she will be working for most of the summer. So the whole plans to quit thing should honestly be taken as SS, unless they legitimately have something lined up for them outside that's better. And even after that, don't be surprised if they go back to it or start sucking dicks and fucking OTC for $$. Once you get into this type of profession and realize the money that's there, I think it's tough to get out.
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13 years ago
> He has considerable money and she gets probably $3-5K a month.
Straight up cash of $3-5K per month? Damn. I can understand covering the girl's living expenses (living together is one way to solve that), taking her out, etc. but I cannot understand paying straight up cash - that sort of nullifies any thought there's any serious relationship there (beyond what many of us refer to as a typical OTC encounter).
> She only wants to marry this guy's bank account.
Not much different from the average golddigger. This happens all the time. Not something I'd personally do - but as long as the guy is happy I guess. I'm sure the girl is quite attractive.
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13 years ago
Not counting OTC stuff, I'd say I have been to the club perhaps 6 or 7 times this month. Cutting it back though, and probably only going to be going 2-4 times a month after this.
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13 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I can see where you are coming from. definitely just go ahead and take a break - you will obviously save some money.
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13 years ago
No doubt this site is great for learning about all these possibilities. Sounds like you had a great time. :)
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13 years ago
Definitely not everyone that steps foot into the club is a PL. I guess if you are extremely attached to a dancer, start falling in love with them, etc. you are a PL. Doesn't even matter how much money you're spending at that point (it's probably going to be a decent amount of your income if it is severe).
If you look at the strip club as a place to have a little fun, maybe meet some girls OTC where even more fun can happen, there is no way I would look at that as a PL.