Comments by laplap1974

Ebbs and flows but recently its been a bit of a struggle. I do see however that I'm not as eager to go for fun. As soon as I get there I wonder why and then I see dancers I like and remember why. Seriously with a beginning there is a end so ultimately the SC thing for me will end. I don't know if it would be gradual or abruptly

A person with no special needs gets taken advantage in a club because the dancers are all about getting paid. I worry that dancers will take advantage of a special needs person in regards to taking him from his money. The only saving grace I see is that someone would be going with that person into a club and would be in control as to what that person gives to a dancer. I personally wouldn't do it because like someone mentioned you don't know how they would be able to understand or handle the playful advances and attention a dancer gives.

Even if she see is into that particular night she could flip on you another night or be mad to the point you wonder if she remembers you from previous time. You could have tipped her well the last several times and one day you don't they can flip out on you so its best to not get too personally attached to any performer

Doesn't matter. There goal is to make sure the customer is satisfied. Remember this is their job. They don't care about your feelings to a point.

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I rather see her in action than go by her word of mouth

Never have to pay for parking at any strip club I've ever been to in the dc area

Friends never have to ask nor announce a best friend. This situation is about providing someone financially

It would have to be in the early 2000's before Fuegos it was called Irvings . This was a very rough spot when it was up and coming and shady management. Anyway the dancers were had no limits and that was the first place I remember having some V.I.P. rooms. Honestly on the floor the dancers initiated a lot of it and I went along. The dances were such a turn-on I couldn't help but inquire. The first one I remember had me nervous like crazy but the dancer was cool and I relaxed real quick. It also helped I saw her at another club. I played it conservative but I enjoyed myself. Once we were done when she told me I could have done I was pissed but then I said that won't happen again.

There are certain clubs that are basic look but don't touch and there are one's with high mileages. Most guys go to multiple strip clubs and there are ranges in terms of value and quality. If you can't stay away then go to one that you know you only get to see and have a drink then you are set for a good cheap night where your wallet won't be too hurt.

I think any man that plays his cards right can find OTC at any strip club. Don't go and act desperate. Some times you can get one on the first dance while others you have know a few times before she becomes interested.

You don't go asking. Who does that? You just keep your ears open and your mouth quiet. If you find her just enjoy. Sometimes its good to be selfish and not tell everything. Some of the best experiences when you least expect to find. Just go discover and not have someone tell you. It ruins it for others.

The ones that had a hot lap dance to the point where she wanted to continue either in VIP or otc tend to not disappoint. I won't go for a etc or VIP experience with no previous ld experience. That generally is a disaster. Sometimes if you see how they are with a typical customer generally that is a good sign as to what possibly could occur with you. Keep in mind you have to keep track of how that customer is tipping her (or not tipping her).

Lets do the math. If you potentially could have lost about 500 plus credit cards etc and the VIP experience is already paid for say $200. So you probably came into the club with about $750 ($50 would be for drinks etc) So you could have lost $500 plus but didn't . She probably gets $50-$75 a tip on top of the $200 you already paid for the VIP experience.

Um not a fan of neither one. Like picking what day of the week would you rather go to detention. In all seriousness they seem ditzy and they do nothing for me.

Never heard of him till he got shot. He had a rough beginning and I read he was changing his life around. Sad he didn't see his total change to the end.

I'm thinking the very last thing I'm worried about is a woman hair. What does she look like overall in regards to figure & face. Hair is like icing. It would be cool if its done right but not required

I didn't know dancers go through that. Since dancers strip for money I can see why after a while doing it over and over again they would need a drink to keep that spiritedness at a high point. It takes a lot to try to be friendly to men you don't know especially ones that can be jerks along with dealing with other dancers who may become jealous if you are making more than them. Like any job that can work your nerves. As customer I know I "try" to put limits on spending and also not get caught up with friendly attention getting from dancers since that is pretty much their job. Sometimes strip clubs bring out a different character in a person whether more wild side if you are tame on the outside world or the reverse. Its almost like a hideaway in that this is a arena where you can create a illusion about yourself for a few hours before getting back into reality

What kind of strip clubs do you like dancing at. As a dancer you have to know the atmosphere so you can gauge if that place is for you or not. Some strip clubs are tame and others are hardcore lap dance spots. Visit the clubs first as a customer and that should help you out. If you are in the DC area you will have more black clubs. In PGcounty there are more lap dance clubs. Money varies in regards to the best place to dance at but that also depends on the stripper and how she represents herself.

What helps the Cavs is that Andre Igodobula for Warriors is injured. Warriors has not looked as invincible as before he was injured

Absolutely, over all these playoffs have been a big disappointment. The shooting has been dreadful and the East is brutally bad. Its reaching the point they just need to do 1-16 seeding instead of the conference playoff seeding

There are times when while I'm getting a lap from a dancer there would be dancers just sitting there playing on their phone. Sometimes dancers don't make it seem like they really want to be there. You can tell the ones that came to work so I would be more interested in them than the ones that give the "I don't care" factor. When you getting a lap dance it would nice to see a dancer in a good mood but thats just me lol

There are times when the club is packed so you can't really split or you lose your seat . If it really comes down to it I would excuse myself and go to tip another dancer of my preference and tell her I would like a dance. She would then come over and the woman would finally move. There are some dancers that will be so desperate that they would just come right out and ask for a tip knowing good and well they did nothing to earn on. Out of pity I would give them a dollar just to go away.

There strippers. This is a business for them. You have to keep that in mind when deciding to get with her. You figure if a stripper wants to get with you on a personal leve 1) she would give you her real name 2) she would want to go out on a normal date (dinner, movies or some kind of social gathering) 3) she makes time on the phone to talk with you. In other words she would act like a normal woman with a man she is dating .

She ask "whatcha hear for?"