TonyT2

Wow. That sucks.

Cowboy, I've heard story after story of men that come into the club that the girls have to avoid. Some of them don't sign in to work if they see a particular abuser. This pisses me off because I like those girls. Seems to me that the managers at this place should have some decorum. I don't know but I see the problems with that. Who wants to be labeled as the strip club that doesn't let you touch the girls? I appreciate those that commented that consent, even if non verbal, is important before touching. I hate to think of the BS I've heard from my strippers who are now my friends at the club.

Yeah I’m a fucking sucker and hopeful rather than cautious. However, I’m now wise and if I get back to SA I will Subraman’s advice lessons.

While hilarious comments... I can’t agree you can touch with out permission. Even if I come up to put my arm around a stripper I haven’t invited back for dances yet, I look for that confirmation of a look. It is so much better for me when I respect the women that bare all for me.

SA was exciting at first but mostly frustrating after several attempts to meet someone. I just ended the last SA relationship I had yesterday, realizing it was going no where. I do have on other potential SA date, but she is away for the summer and we'll see after that if we want to continue. Here are the scams I've received. 1. asking for money ahead of meet and greet (to show your serious) and never meeting. 2. agreeing to traditional arrangement but surprised after a few meetings when you are trying to be more affectionate and flirty and they weren't into that and surprised you are suggesting it. 3. agreeing to an arrangement but once the money is received not fulfilling the time commitment. 4. there are those that are asking for money right off the bat for pictures or just to continue chatting, but I don't fall for those. But 1 2 and 3 I've foolishly been a part of. Now I'm wise, though and harder to dupe. All in all, strippers are far more trustworthy, hotter and more fun than any of my SA dates. I have yet though to find the balance of sweet woman I can care about and care for who will also sleep with me. There are strippers who will, but they aren't the ones I'd like to spend time with. I've suspended my SA account to focus on a stripper I met at the club and have been dating on the side. My stripper sugar baby, who doesn't sleep with me, is fully supportive of my efforts.