Do dancers really get off while you are petting the kitty or are they just Hollywood stars and making you feel like Tom Cruise? What are your opinions, ..... Pilots??
As we say around here - "a strip-club is not a girlfriend supermarket" - if ones wants a hot-chick then get a civvie - if one can't get a hot-civvie then one should not count on being able to get a hot stripper other than one is spending $$$ on her - it's not complicated IMO but many of us dilute ourselves and think "our situation/fave is different"
I was so impressed that I (yes me) made a dancer cum during a lapdance. I later learned that if the wind blew strong enough this dancer could have an orgasm that way as well.
0) Yes dancers (and civilians) are known for “faking it”. From Seinfeld’s:
JERRY: What about the breathing, the panting, the moaning, the screaming?
ELAINE: Fake, fake, fake, fake.
1) Like you said they (women) do fake it to make the customers feel like “Tom Cruise” and get more business/money/support from the (men) customers in general.
However ther is nothing wrong with enjoying or having fun at work. One sure way to know if they are being aroused is if they get “wet”.
“Getting wet” during sexual activity is a normal physiological reaction to prepare for sex. However, sexual arousal is both a physiological and psychological response.
Other responses that indicate they are having and orgasm are:
A) You can feel her vaginal muscles contract/spasm (rarely & only some women)
B) You can see/feel her “squirt” vaginal liquid (rarely & only some women)
I have expreriend A with my ATF OTC stripper, she could contract her vaginal muscles at will, and it feel different from when she would contact them involuntary.
I experienced B with my ATF escort and wrote an article about the encounter.
In any case YMMV just stop pursuing happiness and just be happy in the moment.
Select the girl you want and get a front room make out session going. Then when it is time for your own pants to come down, you invite her to the back room. Then take her home with you and continue to see her regularly.
No matter what she might have been faking. All that does is let her get going for real more easily.
Some keys to think about: If she starts moaning, usually loud, at the very beginning of the dance, she's probably faking. She might be legit if, 2nd or 3rd song in, she suddenly starts to pick up the pace - turns her head with her eyes closed and mouth open, and keeps her climax fairly quiet. She probably wont even tell you she came, but the wet spot on your pants and the sweat on her forehead make it pretty obvious.
Even in the sack most women don't announce it (unless you ask), so you have to know the clues I guess.
I almost forgot my latest fav would leave an snail trail on my pants when she performed naked in the vip...
From Urban Dictionary:
snail trail:
seminal fluid or vaginal fluid left on undergarments, clothing or surfaces resulting in the appearance of secretions left by snails during locomotion.
“Julie was so aroused last night that she left a snail trail on the bed sheets.”
Even if she see is into that particular night she could flip on you another night or be mad to the point you wonder if she remembers you from previous time. You could have tipped her well the last several times and one day you don't they can flip out on you so its best to not get too personally attached to any performer
Usually no. In rare instances, I have if I was feeling horny that day or something though. For the most part, they're trying to keep you interested and (hopefully) turned on for another dance and for more money.
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He pulls out and spits on your back
JERRY: What about the breathing, the panting, the moaning, the screaming?
ELAINE: Fake, fake, fake, fake.
1) Like you said they (women) do fake it to make the customers feel like “Tom Cruise” and get more business/money/support from the (men) customers in general.
However ther is nothing wrong with enjoying or having fun at work. One sure way to know if they are being aroused is if they get “wet”.
“Getting wet” during sexual activity is a normal physiological reaction to prepare for sex. However, sexual arousal is both a physiological and psychological response.
Other responses that indicate they are having and orgasm are:
A) You can feel her vaginal muscles contract/spasm (rarely & only some women)
B) You can see/feel her “squirt” vaginal liquid (rarely & only some women)
I have expreriend A with my ATF OTC stripper, she could contract her vaginal muscles at will, and it feel different from when she would contact them involuntary.
I experienced B with my ATF escort and wrote an article about the encounter.
In any case YMMV just stop pursuing happiness and just be happy in the moment.
Most women, especially those who do the proper exercises, can make their pussy “spasm” as if cumming even when they aren’t.
There a a couple of physiological responses that are harder to fake, but not impossible.
No matter what she might have been faking. All that does is let her get going for real more easily.
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Even in the sack most women don't announce it (unless you ask), so you have to know the clues I guess.
From Urban Dictionary:
snail trail:
seminal fluid or vaginal fluid left on undergarments, clothing or surfaces resulting in the appearance of secretions left by snails during locomotion.
“Julie was so aroused last night that she left a snail trail on the bed sheets.”