The block off dancers
laplap1974
Maryland
I wanted to talk about the "block off" dancers . The ones that come to your table knowing that you don't want to get a dance from them so they decide to sit down beside you or at your table thereby making other dancers think you are occupied when you aren't. These dancers seem to think by them sitting there you will eventually break and decide to ask them for a dance. I really get annoyed by it but I keep it to myself. I never understand why a dancer can be so stubborn and not get the hint. By wasting their time on someone that is not interested they waste their opportunity to get other customers. Ultimately when you they know you won't budge they finally get the hint and move onward. Never let a dancer see you break because they will try again and others will pull the same move.
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If they don't move along after that, I'll say something like: "I want to talk to other dancers. Please find someplace else to sit." They might get pissed, but it's not the end of the world.
"I think I'm going to go up and tip the girl on stage."
"I have to go to the bathroom."
"I'm going to head to the bar."
Whatever.
Just find a way to relocate. Easiest way to send the message.
The custy sitting there like a log is the pussy way out - I usually tell them "I wanna chill by myself and watch the stage" which they usually take as I don't wanna get with them, but if that doesn't work I'll be more direct and tell them they're keeping me from getting with the other girls and if they still don't leave I'll grab a dancer that interests me and start interacting with her and that usually gets them to move along.
I'm not the chatty type at the clubs and won't entertain a dancer that does not interest me in part bc I feel I may be leading them on.
Select the girl you want and approach her yourself.
Then get a front room makeout session going. When it is time for your own pants to come down, then you invite her to the back room.
Then take her home with you and keep on seeing her regularly.
SJG
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