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12 years ago
This type of situation happened to me once before. I was good friends with a stripper for several months. Many times we would sit and talk together, and when I pulled out money, she insisted that I put it away.
However, one time, she asked for money for her time, and we had been together for 5 minutes after doing a few couch dances with her.
I thought she was kidding, and I refused to give her any more. She walked away angry. The next day, she calls and texts me to apologize, and told me that her rent was due.
Speaking of that, the 1st is right around the corner. The strippers always get hard up for cash right about now...
discussion comment
12 years ago
This type of situation happened to me once before. I was good friends with a stripper for several months. Many times we would sit and talk together, and when I pulled out money, she insisted that I put it away.
However, one time, she asked for money for her time, and we had been together for 5 minutes after doing a few couch dances with her.
I thought she was kidding, and I refused to give her any more. She walked away angry. The next day, she calls and texts me to apologize, and told me that her rent was due.
Speaking of that, the 1st is right around the corner. The strippers always get hard up for cash right about now...
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12 years ago
Blood pressure mess will mess with your wood, but the little blue pill keeps me ready for anything all night, and into the next day. A clubber's best friend if you need it.
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12 years ago
Just as a side note, I know some strippers will go out with you, and even fuck you for free initially, and then ask you to come to the club, or give them a loan, which you will never see the money again. That's where the rubber meets the road.
Ahhh strippers! They can be the best or worst, but guaranteed short term relationship you will ever have!
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12 years ago
Eight months with my first ATF. Twenty months and counting with my second ATF, although we've stopped seeing each other twice due to stripper drama.
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12 years ago
I've seen both situations occur. It depends on the club. Many bouncers have told me that they don't want to fuck anyone at the club because they see them naked all of the time.
Some clubs have rules against this, but then again, I've seen others get pussy secretly OTC. If we can do it, so can they.
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12 years ago
Juice, I wouldn't do it unless you're prepared to defend her if things go sour. Make up some excuse, and fuck her later anyway. You would regret it if things went wrong.
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12 years ago
Every last dancer I have gotten close to either had problems with alcohol, and that Red Bull abuse it common! I don't know how you can drink that much and not die of a heart
attack! Also, they all went to see I shrink for a myriad of issues.
My new ATF seems so problem free for now, I know the other shoe will drop soon. Oops. it already did, she has 2 DUIs on her record. When we just did OTC, her car won't start unless she blows into a breathalyzer attached to her car's ignition.
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12 years ago
The whole SC scene is shallow, and I love it! Usually we ho after the girls who are most appealing to us. It's hard to give a stripper a lot of respect, when their whole job is based on a con, a fantasy...
There are exceptions to the rule, but respect for them is definetely earned, not instantly given.
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12 years ago
I never do. I stay as anonymous as possible because I do like to write the truth, good or bad about a dancer.
Thats why I like this site, I have found their reviews to be accurate.
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12 years ago
Smart move with her! Many dancers fail to realize that we are in charge. Usually our weak will turns us into PLs. I'm glad that you made her suffer for her bullshit.
Been there before... Kick her to the curb.
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12 years ago
Of course, even if I tried messing with a fugly dancer, Mr. Happy wouldn't be pleased and fail to cooperate. Now you've compounded a bad situation with the fugly thinking you are impotent!!
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12 years ago
No, never done that. What amazes me is that there is a dancer at one of the clubs who has a horse face like Mr. Ed, crooked teeth, Tetley tea bag tits, and disgusting prune like skin underneath her navel. Someone must love her because she has been there for years. A hideous mess!!
However there is a house mom at another club who has made it clear that she wants OTC. She's older and in her 50s.....hmmmm LOL
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12 years ago
Honesty is the best policy. Just don't date them at all, and take the risk of losing them as customers. Many guys are hard headed, and will continue to come to the club to see you anyway. At least you can feel vindicated because you told them the truth.
To do otherwise, will hurt their feelings, your money, and perhaps create an ugly situation that could have easily been avoided. If you don't want to date them, don't lead them on!
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12 years ago
Honesty is the best policy. Just don't date them at all, and take the risk of losing them as customers. Many guys are hard headed, and will continue to come to the club to see you anyway. At least you can feel vindicated because you told them the truth.
To do otherwise, will hurt their feelings, your money, and perhaps create an ugly situation that could have easily been avoided. If you don't want to date them, don't lead them on!
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12 years ago
Well Alucard, I would be lying if I said that I have never lied.:)
The problem is that the lies I have been told by strippers have been Whopping, Life Changing lies! I have been lied to about about every topic under the sun by many strippers. That's why I am concerned that my buddy doesn't get jerked around.
Yes, I've told them lies about my money, as to not dump out my bank account, or my whereabouts if I didn't want to go to the club. I guess what I've learned is that many of these women are master manipulators, who will literally craft a different persona that doesn't exist.
So, throw the first stone if you must, it's just that I don't want anyone else to get reeled into a vortex of extreme bs and lies...
Of course, he'll probably have to learn the hard way, like many of us have, until he wises up.
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12 years ago
Update;
I just talked to my buddy about this again, and he told me that he loves her, but he always has this gut feeling that she's not being completely honest. I told him to trust his gut, and proceed with caution. By the way, she just asked him for 200 dollars tonight. Guys, all of these stories end up the same way, but I guess we've all been kicked hard in the ass once or twice! Too bad, I can see this train wreck a mile ahead, but a hard head makes for a donkey style ass kicking!!
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12 years ago
Jerikson40, that was the funniest reply yet! That described exactly how I felt!
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12 years ago
I wouldn't loan a stripper anything. Snake has it right, never loan out more than you're prepared to lose. These strippers are like stray cats, they'll leave your life and then show up again with a million excuses on why they haven't repaid you.
Yes, it happened to me in the past, and I hold firm about this now, unless they want to pay in services, which can be rarely kept promises.
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12 years ago
Agreed...I have dealt with a few strippers in the past, and every last one of them told lies, so now I take everything they say with a grain of salt. I will offer my friendly advice to him. If the school board ever found out, she's toast, which makes me wonder if that's true.....probably not! LOL
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12 years ago
I saw my former ATF a few times without her stripper makeup and clothing. Although her face was still attractive, I would not crash my car, or go out of my way to talk to her.
It makes you know that the club with the low lights and scantily clad woman is a fantasy for us and them. The other night, I had my real girlfriend put on a bikini and heels, and honestly of she chose to strip, which she won't, she would have blown away my old ATF! It's important to keep that in perspective, but alcohol, low lights and music change everything!!
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12 years ago
I recently got tired I'd my old ATF and she reacted in a hostile way. Bottom line, you are just a dollar bill, no matter how they try to convince you otherwise.
I will be back to the club in a few months, as there were other hotties I want to sample. She may bad mouth me, but green always wins the day.
I'll have fun, but no more ATFs for me. It's easier staying a free agent. I hope I don't change my mind form the road!
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12 years ago
If you want a diversion, check out Showplace in Dover, NJ. It's about 20 minutes west of Newark, NJ. If you're into Brazilians, this place is a gritty brothel/strip club. The laps are 20 and it's usually 40 to 60 for a BJ and 80 for FS.
I go there when I'm the in area on business. Otherwise in the Phila area, I would say to check out Champagnes in West Deptford, NJ or Playhouse Lounge in Burlington, NJ. The laps at both of these clubs are 30, and the dancers at PH tend to be 35 and up for the most part.
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12 years ago
Hell no! If I was a dancer, I would look for reviews. I was surprised how many dancers that don't know about this site. It's a good thing, because if they figured it out, I'd be chewed out. Of course if that did happen, I would issue a 100 percent denial!
I love this site because it contains details that must remain sacred!!
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12 years ago
I decided to take my ATF to my place until she said that once she knew where I lived, she could stop by from time to time. I made an excuse about my place needing cleaning, made a u turn and went to a hotel. Now she asks me to come by her place, but she has teenagers and other relatives close by. She doesn't know it yet, but we will always have to keep it to a motel. Alas, another stripper relationship on borrowed time......they never last too long...too many fucked up surprises that none of us need.