Comments by stenton1 (page 2)

When they ask me to pay their house fees, or the ones who gossip about who is a whore at the club. (Actually that's a tipoff for who I will pursue next)

Hell no! I have to decide when and where. That situation reeks of a set up. Desparate times call for desparate measures.

Just ignore her completely, and move on to others who catch your eye. At the end of the day, your wallet does the talking. She may be pissed, but you've made your point.

Tight and tucked.

I get the urge to go after 2 weeks, but I have gone after a 3 month hiatus. I get burned out with the scene, and usually when I go back, I'll see a new crop of dancers.

Interesting point. There is a stripper who left the business over a year ago. She now has a decent job in corporate America, and she's made it clear that she wants to date. I've kept her at arms length, but I may try to meet her for a date soon. She seems really down to earth and completely out of the stripper world. We will see, I'm not rushing into it, but I don't want to stereotype her, I'm looking at it with both eyes wide open!

I think all of us who have dated a stripper have come to the same conclusion. Between the hard partying lifestyle, drama, incredible lies, constant money demands, far exceed the quality of the sex. It never ends well no matter what. I usually say, "what you can sell today, you won't be able to give away tomorrow!" Ever met an ex long term stripper? They are so worn down. By that crazy life, that they are either sick, or a weathered bitter woman. Either way, don't EVER get involved. If you must, do pay for play OTC, and then walk away.

Don't waste your time. Scores isn't awesome, and it's going to take a helluva lot more than that to make me hit AC again.

Going through a similar situation now. It's amazing the things you learn talking to other dancers! They're vipers in the dressing room, which is where the real drama will unfold. You know whom is best for you, so go with the hot hand, and there may be some strip club casualties along the way!

Sometimes Bestgfe.com.

Send her an invoice for services rendered...

The problem is that most dancers that are attractive, their beauty is only skin deep. Most of them are ugly underneath. In this society, the smart ones bank up their money because their relationships usually don't last. I've thought many times that the smart ones plan ahead. What they can sell today, they won't be able to give away tomorrow. Beauty is in the eye if the beholder, and more importantly, it's also fleeting.

She's definetely fucking too. If not now, very soon!

Yes it has happened very recently. My CF ( new term) asked me to come, saw me at the club, and had me waiting for quite some time. I had a great time talking with other dancers and the bartender, but then I got bored and left. She called me about 15 minutes later, and she asked me to meet her at a diner for a bite. That lead to a great night at her place afterwards. The scenario happened again lay week, with the same results. At this pace, she can blow me off anytime! I just think its good to set limits on what you'll tolerate, so you don't look or get treated like a smacked ass.

I've had an ATF last over 2 years, and one that lasted 2 months. You can only have one ATF at a time, but it helps to have a B team standby, which many times will be promoted when the ATF shit hits the fan. It's not a matter of "if", then it's a matter of "when". It's a highly volatile hobby, but when you circulate between clubs, you are always a new face to the dancers.

Seeking Arrangement sounds interesting! Whatever you do, don't mess with Ashley Madison! It's pretty much a front for escorts, many of the ads are fake, and you have to join the site to respond (you'll pay of course). It's a complete waste of money!

I've been to the 19th Hole numerous times. Extras can be easily had there with certain dancers. If you're looking for HJ, many if them will do it at night. If you're looking for FS, I know of at least two, but you've got to go during the day. Bottom line, is just ask. You won't get slapped here! Other Philly area clubs known for extras are Atlantis, Champagne, Ballpark and sometimes Cheerleaders.

Thou shalt not loan a stripper money. Thou shalt ignore stripper calls to come to the club. Thou shalt slit thine wrists before considering doing a stripper bareback.

I heard a rumor from a disgruntled dancer at the Penthouse in Philly that it would be opening in June. I haven't heard or read anything else, but Christine's has the potential to be a really great club.

Yes, my old ATF from last year. I became a real pain because then she would text me incessantly saying "you're late". One time an emergency came up and I didn't go to the club at all. She flipped out on me, and our "relationship" died. Textbook Borderline Personality Disorder.

I agree completely. Pay for play only. It's like creating a monster. If you give a loan, allowance, etc, she will come back again and again with numerous Oscar worthy sob stories. Just say no!! Nothing makes me kick a stripper to the curb faster than ROB SS.

That happened to me not too long ago. My old ATF was clingy and possessive. Anyway, another dancer caught my eye, and I told her that I needed a change of pace. She got very upset, and stayed in the dressing room. All the while spreading bad news about me. Anyway, she left that night, and ignored me for a while. In the meantime, I hit it off with the new girl, and we see each other ITC and OTC to this day. The strip club owner came over to me recently, and said that as a customer, we are always given deference to do what we want. No dancer owns you, and green rules the day. Even though her feelings may be hurt, you've got to do what's best for you.

The stripper bs never stops! I had one call me yesterday saying that she wanted me to pay her cell phone bill. I asked for her to meet me for OTC. She said that she would as soon as she got back from a Florida vacation. Money for vacation but can't pay her cell bill? I didn't pay it, but Im sure another PL fell for it. Another one bites the dust until rent's due!

The stripper bs never stops! I had one call me yesterday saying that she wanted me to pay her cell phone bill. I asked for her to meet me for OTC. She said that she would as soon as she got back from a Florida vacation. Money for vacation but can't pay her cell bill? I didn't pay it, but Im sure another PL fell for it. Another one bites the dust until rent's due!

Latinas, mixed race and the tanned Asians, in that order!