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12 years ago
5b Watch out for heavy girls especially if they have a big fat ass. Some of them are really too lazy to give good dances and want to sit on or bounce up and down on Mr H. This can lead to a sore dick but don't panic and go to doctor next day. It should abate in around a week. Just be careful. Nothing like a girl built like a Defensive Tackle bouncing up and down on your dick. Not good - don't be afraid to set her straight and give her some coaching on how she should really handle Mr H.
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12 years ago
6a I have found many dancers to be very thoughtful. I remember taking one to the upstairs VIP to fuck. We were almost there when she called (hubby?) about little Bobby's bedtime n stuff giving him instructions and ending with "Love you honey, will be home from work about midnight." You would think she was calling from her office.
As soon as the brief call was over smiling, she started fondling my already hard dick, and motioned over to a dark couch area "lets go have some fun." She fucked me CG style and it was great. Had to use condom though as she said "Trojans allways, I am married" she smiled.
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12 years ago
9b When taking extras it helps to negotiate before hand. Never take extras if you don't know what the price is (I have done them ITC for $100-$300 here in Houston). If your unsure if you will want extras with a girl your taking to VIP just start with a couple of dances first and see if there is chemistry. Don't afraid to say no if the price is too high or bad vibes from the girl. You can just say (using their same ss) "I like to get to know a girl first before I play." I use Trojan (thin) large size condoms and always have a couple with me when entering a SC. If you take viagra take it about an half hr or hour before going to the club on an empty stomach. Warning: It will make you very horny and vulnerable to extras proposals but strippers will be impressed with your rock hard dick. Many stripper believes viagra increases penis size and this is why they may ask if you take it. Strippers love big dicks and the idea of shopping money and some strange dick is a jumbo package many of then can't resist especially at some of the extras clubs here in Houston. At one Houston club where I am VIP I can lay the girl down on the couch and fuck her silly.
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12 years ago
Interesting read Monique, but I don't want a dancer for my GF, just my whore at a reasonable POP.
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12 years ago
Interesting read Monique, but I don't want a dancer for my GF, just my whore at a reasonable POP.
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12 years ago
Do any of the girls at the club do extras? What is POP there?
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12 years ago
Am I supposed to be impressed or something? I would not give a shit about her drama or her stupid coming down from a drug high. What I would care about is if i am going to get pussy when I take her to VIP and it better be drama, drug free. I am going on four years with my fav gal approaching 300 sessions. Most have been otc.
I don't spend much time with their drama and current one is drama, drug free which is scarce among strippers.
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12 years ago
I might take two dances then ask them if they play. I usually offer $150 to $200 for full service. A couple days before rent time is best days to come to club.
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12 years ago
Interesting insight but as a SC Hobbyist I mine the clubs primarily for otc gals or mistress material if not some occasional itc sex. My current mistress I have been seeing almost 4 years danced at a club where I am VIP.
With sites like Seeking Arrangement with tons of girls looking to fuck for money in Sugar Dating (I dont buy the KoolAid its dating) or an arrangements I don't c how strippers really make it nowadays.
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13 years ago
I pretty much go covered with extras girls. W, a stripper I did OTC a lot in 2005-08 was in Arizona for three years. She recently came back to Houston and she hooked up with me off FB. I fuked her both covered and bareback for three months then she got into serious relationship. She told me she had been fixed and that bareback wb fun, I simply could not resist although she wanted 200 instead of the 60-120 she was charging me. She is 33 and no longer dances as she is now a counselor at a local college. I am 60 and decided to have a little fun. I think it was just one of those meant to be gift thngs. The mortality charts puts my life expectancy at 77 but people drop dead every day before their normal life expectancy.
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13 years ago
Jess - I can understand your need to rant but I think your in a state of denial about the reality of the situation. With the weak economy, I am sure it is tough for non extras girls.
Early on in the Hobby, I was into getting just lapdances and captivated by the thrill of getting to feel the girl. Later on as I evolved I started seeing dancers otc and then doing them itc at extras clubs here in Houston. While I have spent a five figure sum on girls this year, I doubt I have spent even $200 on lap dances. Currently I am rotating two x strippers I have known a couple of years otc motel with POP averaging $120. I remember spending $300 - $500 a week on vists to SC just on dances and a fellow VIP member (he was sorta the dean of the VIP members) telling me "You should be spending that on pussy. Find one who will meet you otc" Not long after I did and then stepped up to VIP at an extras club doing them itc.
Getting a dance with you Jess, I can respect you dont do extras, but I would want to feel you, suck on your tits, and possibly make you an offer for otc. Money to women is like sex to men and Strippers have a hard time resisting the allure of shopping money and different dick.
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13 years ago
Yes -
Clubs: Extras Club vs Non Extras Club
Cloemts: Those there to Play (extras) and those just to take dances / pay them to sit at table. Or Extras Customer vs Non Extras Customer.
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13 years ago
Yes I think Strippers are certainly awesome. Over the years certain ones have made me awesome mistresses.
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13 years ago
When I first got into the SC Hobby I was manipulated by a ROB. Being new to the SC scene after a summer of striking out in bars during 2003 (too many men vs women, 53 and way older than the girls I was trying to pick up, married). Then when I started going to SC all of a sudden there were these beautiful women after me. An experienced ROB got money out of me from shopping trips, sucker tactics, etc. PL Anonymous thats me. A year later when I had my first otc experience (with many more to follow) I realized how I had ben taken by SS.
Strippers sell a fantasy. A good ROB can do it so welll the PL can't tell the difference between whats true and SS. She will keep uping the ante (money she asks you to outright loan or give her) like a poker player with a strong hand who keeps rising the bets until you loose it all with your weak hand. Being a PL is something you gradually get over.
Today I am rotating 3 girls otc all at $120 POP. Two are x strippers and one a gal off Seeking Arrangement. My prob is not lack of pussy but budget mgt, why am I cheating on a fav I have been seeing for 3 years (she is married to boot) who is the perfect mistress. I guess in the final analysis we all want variety.
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13 years ago
I am amazed at the DumbAsses who have a problem with my handle.
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13 years ago
Its only a matter of time before working people unionize in a sort of National Union of Workers. The rich have the Republican party to represent them. Working people can take this country back if they excercise their power in numbers. They have let the Rich erode unions and workers rights the last 30 years.
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13 years ago
NO WAY. The one I have been fucking three yr is in her third marriage. She no longer dances but was an extras girl at the club. Anybodys guess how many guys shes fucked the ten years she danced there. She describes her husband on her FB page as her soul mate. I have been seeing her longer than any of her marriages. She also has an ad on SeekingArrangement.com put up there before me. I know she is regularly active on the site as it tells you their last logon. To the OP - you will never own that pussy, there will always be some guy (most likely a number of guys) like me fucking her. But then, your probably smart enough to realize that and having a hot girl to fuck involves some tradeoffs......
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13 years ago
Yes seeing strippers will change your life. If you start doing them like I have women over say 35 or 40 will no longer interest you. Laying in bed with a naked 19 year old girl who has her hand on your rock hard dick (who you as a 50+ male are about to fuck), a hot blonde resembling Brittaney Spears you met at the club and made the right offer too can be a life changing experience. Then when the fantastic sex is over she says "that was so wonderful, can we meet again on regular basis bc I need a friend to help me out......" She needs someone to help her with her rent for her and her 2 year old child and now she is your mistress! After about 15 or 20 sessions with her she says "your like an angel that came into my life." Conversation with strippers can be very enlightening.
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13 years ago
First of all you dont owe them crap. The ones who interrupt me while I am trying to at least finish the buffet piss me off the most. You can use one of two lines to get them to leave you alone: "Cant take any dances tonite, lack of funds." or "Dances dont do it for me, do you play? If you use the second one be prepared to play if she is a player.
There is an art to having one stay at your table for the price of a drink where you can cop some feels. Not a bad game to play.
While I am always polite to dancers, I could care less what they think if I dont take dances or fit their model of an ATM machine. They are sex workers and I am there to get the best bang for my buck. Many of them are supporting loser boyfriends who cant even hold a job. I have never been thrown out of a club if I simply came there to chill and be a Cheap A. If the dancer will sit with me and give me some quality time while I feel her / engage in conversation, then I may take a dance or two. The ones who are impatient and pushy to get a dance, well I simply stuff them in the backfield.
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13 years ago
I started going back to Strip Clubs in Jan 2004, mainly Ricks South (in Houston). A friend of mine had spent the summer of 2003 going to bars to pick up girls with no luck, it was awful. The main problem is the men outnumbered the women. I suggested to him he try a SC. He told me about Ricks and suggested I join him some evening after work. I did and met my first ATF Jeannie. It was so thrilling to get to feel her with the two way contact. Its like a anoother door had opened and the field was busting with opportunity. I was in a place where sexy, beautiful girls were after me and all it took was money! In Aug 2004 I met Shelly at Lipstick and after 2 club visits with her we had our first otc encounter of 76 sessions. By July 2005 I had added two other strippers to my otc collection of girls I had fucked. My friend, M had them living at his house and Jessica was one I met there and took in a bedroom and fucked (34th session with her last week). At this point I have done about 30 of them but one I met at the Ritz in 2008 I am still seeing (she no longer dances) and we are around 225 sessions. She entered her thrid marriage almost yr and half ago. She has been the best and I a doing her around 2x week along with rotating occasional other gals like Jessica.
Strip Clubbing helped me overcome depression as a result of a dead marriage, elder care issues, and other disappointments. I have just about seen it all: strippers who cheat on their boyfriends and husbands, running them around town, all sort of ss and sob stories to get money, their stories about how they would bring a girl from the club home to hubby or pair up with another girl for a threesome, and of course the current fav who has been my concubine longer than any of her three marriages have lasted.
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13 years ago
A good story and excellent read. Your not alone in making big money contributions to one of them. The worst thing is to do this and not get pussy.
It is easy for one to be taken in by their hypnotic SS. While I dont spend big bucks on dances or for that matter in a SC I have been seeing one steady for 3 years otc. She is married and we fuck 2x week at avg of $125 a session. She stopped dancing about a year hand half ago and is now a paralegal. It is a constant $1000 a month drain and while she is really good I think of how that money could have been invested. Well you cant take it with you and I dont give them handouts or loans.
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13 years ago
Thanks for your list Daisy. I think its only simple common sense for a customer to treat a dancer like a queen.
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13 years ago
Yes I prefer strippers too - itc or otc. Jackslash makes a good point.
If your considering escorts take a look at ECCIE - there are many escort reviews plus horror stories of guys who had bad experiences - ROB's, robbeb by pimp, gross / dirty girl.
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13 years ago
I am VIP at an extras friendly club where there are many girls who play itc, I have a fav I have been seeing for 3 years who used to dance there, and recently have hooked up with some gals from SA. I have not tried the escorts off Eccie but may be tempting.
Reading reviews on ECCIE there are a lot of scam gals out there and Art has good advice. You may also want to try SA (SeekingArrangement) - they don't ask for your real name. Housewives, single moms, and students looking for some strange n fun.
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13 years ago
Great article. It should be required reading for any man contemplating going to a SC or buying a VIP memebership sort of like the realease sky divers have to sign.
A good hustler, ROB can put a man under a spell where he will do irrational things like hand over big money (like $400) to her like in a trance and get absolutely nothing in return. The sad thing she will use that money to take her BF somewhere for a romantic weekend getaway. She even had the gall to tell the guy that and her excuse for not meeting him at motel (after he paid $67 for the room) was an old boyfriend had come from out of town to take her to dinner.
Obey rule #1 - Never, ever lend (or donate) money to them. If they hit on you with some sad story they are about to be evicted and need $ make them an offer for the itc or otc sex service of your choice. If they wont take it walk away as it is probably a lie anyhow. If the dollar amount is larger than what you would pay for a session, then offer them x sessions at x Dollars.
All strippers are sex workers, but there are varying degrees - many will play - itc / otc extras. Your goal as a Strip Clubber is to get the best bang for your buck.