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15 years ago
1. Visit more clubs, especially some I have not been in.
2. Stay on budget if possible
3. I will seek out more variety by doing more gals itc in CR or VIP
4. I will avoid gals I who give me bad vibes or known ROB's
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15 years ago
Whats hilarious is a lot of them will ask you how long you've been married. I recall telling one stripper I had been married over 30 years and she told me "I might one day, but none of my relationships go past 6 months." I think its just their way of making small talk but they will tell you some enlightening things.
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15 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
I would rather pay SC gals and hookers for really great sex than suffer the BS a lot of other types of gals will put me thru.
I remember 20 years ago I had a few dates with an engineering secretary who would not fuck bc I was married and told me I had 6 months to leave my wife or the relationship was over. One nite I might have actually gotten some but her 8 yr old son interrupted things. She was telling co-workers who were telling everyone else. Instead of fooling with that stupid bitch, I just needed to be going to a Strip Club!
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15 years ago
It depends on the gals performance for me - I will be 60 in 5 months. With my 28 yo atf who is a good, experienced performer and does me on top leaning forward - 6 minutes is average (I use condoms) and she gets me off every time - she is nice and tight too (not some fucked out, stretched out assembly line whore). When I was on Lexapro (antidepressant) it took me much longer and was more difficult - 75% of the time (she probably could only go about 15 min) I would need to take a HJ from her to get off. Had she not been such a good HJ specialist I would have dropped her. IMO Lexapro is for guys who have PE. I dropped Lexapro in Jan 2009 after doing some research on the net about DE. Before that time different gals got me off 25-80% of the time. Of course the 80% gal was the best. It probably took me in excess of 10-15 minutes or more to get off. Most women their parts get sore after 10 minutes. However there are ones who can go much longer. Doing a new girl can be a crapshoot in terms as to how tight she will be, her technique, and stamina.
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15 years ago
a. Mostly for conversation
b. They could care less (contrasted with some bitch in a bar) - their concern is getting your money. Its all about the money for them (and maybe some strange dick along with otc money) and of course they don't want any drama or somebody fixed on interfering with their private life.
c. There is no correct SC answer. Married if otc then motel. Single if otc they may come to your place. I just tell them the truth - "I come to SC for stress relief, relaxation, entertainment." Sometimes I may mention wife just wants business relationship. Their focus is money and possibly tapping you as a good atm regular. I spent a whole summer spinning my wheels on the bar scene (flaky gals, ugly bitches, too many men) and when I started going to SC's it was a totally refreshing ballgame. They were coming after me instead.....or essentially my wallet LOL. SC's beat the hell outta the bar scene or even worse trying to mess with some slut at work.
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15 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
My therapy is seeing my ATF otc and itc for great sex. Yes it sometimes bothers me I have averaged 15 -20k a year on this hobby the last several years but others spend those kinda funds on golf or boating. It takes setting a budget and not being manipulated by some gals drama.
As I am married to a bitch as described above like casual guy therapy is a waste of time. I am pushing 60 anyhow - not looking to start over LOL. I have found there is no greater therapy for me than my SC hobby or great sex with a really hot gal.
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15 years ago
An interesting thought Dudester. Sort of like worshippers being buried in the church yard. Only if I can buried next to a stripper.....
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15 years ago
The Galleria club and Ricks South are no longer Ricks. They have the club near Bush Airport.
I have been to SJ and Treasures - they are no match for the Ritz in my view. Unfortunately, like a planet running into a shitstorm of asteroid bombardment, the Ritz has been subject to some recent LE raids.
Your money will go further at the Ritz.
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15 years ago
Where I am VIP (Houston Area extras friendly club), entry into ViP (upstairs) or CR (downstairs behind stage) is $125 for non members. I am LT VIP so no entry charge. A recent review of the club by an out of towner said he paid the $125 fee and got pussy for $125. These rooms offer good privacy and darkness. Most of the girls give extras be it BJ, HJ, or FS. I have negotiated these before going to CR or taken two dances and then made an offer if I wanted to continue. POP has been $100 to $200 and the quality of the experience varies with the girl. Some gals may give HJ foreplay then sex or a BJ before sex. Just depends on the gal. The one I have been seeing mostly otc gave me HJ foreplay then sex in CR the first time we met. POP with her (she's married and 28) has been $150 - $200 otc and $100 - $150 itc. With recent LE raids on the club, itc is looking less attractive for me although having her completely naked doing me cowboy on one of the divans is an awesome experience.
A ploy of a lot of ROB's I have read on sites like SW, is to get you to pay some huge upfront extras fee for a set time with it vague as to what you will be really receiving. Don't fall for this SS. From my perspective taking a stripper to VIP is for one thing - to get pussy or some other extra. I will not pay big bucks to just enter a VIP room. If the gal really wants to make some money she can meet me at motel.
At another Houston area near me the upstairs VIP is an open area and has a flat $25 entry fee. This is more sane but their VIP area is too open. There is usually a manager sitting at a desk up there (not always) but he does not really pay attention to what is going on. Whats hilarious is he will give you an armband like in case you go back downstairs - what is this Disneyland? I even fucked a gal there one time there with him not 15 feet away (7 total sessions with her otc and itc). IDK if he was aware of what was going on or simply did not care. She told me it was ok and that she "likes to do it with people around." I had barely finished comming in her, not even had a chance to withdraw and the damn coctail waitress comes up and says "your 5 oclock has arrived early." Needless to say she was in a hurry "to go potty." Thank gosh I got off before that bitch witress interrupted things.
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15 years ago
The most classic ROB experience I know of was a guy a dancer wanted $400 from to help her get the ac fixed on her car. As he was a SC newbie - RIL, he meekly handed it over - no dances, no pussy, no nothing. Later when he really realized what he had done he says it was like he was in a hypnotic trance.
He said she had gotten him in VIP full of champagne and was dancing with a back and forth hypnotic swing. Would you believe this gal was 42 and flat?
Never, ever give them money for services not performed!
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15 years ago
IDK about emotional bonding with a stripper. Lets face it she could dump you any time for a BBD. I like my ATF bc of her superior performance in bed, her intelligence, great personality, drug free, and no drama. As far as what a wife or s/o would think they are not need to know about my SC fun so frankly I don't give a damn. My relationship with strippers resembles more of a college coach / star WR relationship. Sooner or later they graduate. But when players leave the team there is always recruiting. One door closes, another opens.
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15 years ago
As far as angry BF or Husbands lets face it your either in the program or not. Just use common sense and discretion. In a town like Houston where I hear men outnumber women 2-1 I am sure a lot of guys are not aware their gals are in the "Wife / GF sharing program." While the gals are as thrilled as they can be, I am sure I would not want to express any thanks to the husbands LOL however I have known of many instances where a stripper BF or ex did not mind pimping out his woman. I have even had them come out to car and say cordially "she's running a little late but will be out in a few, you know how women are."
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15 years ago
Every dancer, single or married, I have known has a husband, BF, or pimp doing her (unless she's a Lesbo). Believe me, they do not sleep alone at night LOL.
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15 years ago
Many waitresses want to get in on the action they see dancers getting. Its usually to get more money but they like hot sex too.
I hooked up with one at Sugars Cabaret in Houston aftering seeing her dance one time. She was a really hot tall brunette around 30. I did 7 sessions at her both otc and itc. She really loved to fuck and she could go long time. Her performance was above average. Unfortunately I was rotating 2 other girls at the time and got distracted with their lower prices. My current ATF, a superior performer has essentially kept me to busy for that gal and last I heard she was dancing at Heartbreakers and going to dental assistant school. She is still on my roster, but IDK if her number is still active - might have to chalk her up as "contact lost" like in the U-boat Game on my pc when a target has moved out of range. Houston is a really rich target environment for SC players and this happens frequently.
When waitresses become dancers, compliment them on their dancing, etc. Usually they will give close contact high mileage dances to show you they can be dancers too!
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15 years ago
I go to the Ritz on a regular basis and have a lot of fun there. I wondered why my ATF who works there wanted to meet at a motel Saturday afternoon instead of the club. She said it had been slow with hardly anyone in there bc of the holidays - interesting.
It would be be really gutsy for a gal to give a bj on the floor. The club has an upstairs VIP and CR but the fee is $125 for non vip. There is hardly any privacy on the floor except maybe back in a dark corner. However, it would be easy for LE to probably spot this if looking. It is disgusting this LE intereference with personal privacy when people are being assualted and robbed in Houston mall parking lots.
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15 years ago
A lot of the old ROB's are has beens who can't compete with younger gals or gals who actually give a fair deal. They will try to lead you on with all kinda SS to get money for services not performed. Never, ever give them money for services not performed no matter how dire the drama. If its a VIP deal, make sure you understand whats involved. Don't accept statements from them like "I will rock you" at face value.
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15 years ago
Dances don't get me off but HJ and sex with the one of the girls does.
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15 years ago
A great story with a happy ending. Thanks for the contribution. It is sad some of the things that can happen to these girls and I hate to hear it when they are on drugs or have a health problem.
I believe a lot of these girls are more thrilled to come to a guys house vs a motel.
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15 years ago
As far as extras - Many specialize in one thing or another. My ATF specializes in HJ then sex. It is a dynamite combo. She will get you hot with HJ as she loves it and I believe part of her arousal process. Then she will slip condom on you putting it on very expertly. In the club she will do me cowboy facing me. Her technique guarantees a happy ending every time. OTC is similar but in bed she gets on top, leaning forward thrusting. It is fantastic to watch in mirror. Of course there is HJ foreplay before. She says she saves BJ for hubby LOL. She has a close friend who used to dance at the club but is now a teacher (also married). She says the friend still sees clients and discussed a threesome as that gal specializes in BJ (but is expensive - $400). She says they would team up with her friend giving the guy BJ, then she would finish him with sex. But with her expert HJ IMO, no need for BJ.
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15 years ago
I am able to buy mine off the floor for $20 so no interruption of fun in VIP.
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15 years ago
1. At club where I am LT VIP extras rule. My ATF essentially picked me - she started playing with Mr Happy when I tipped her on stage. This continued to CR where we had sex. Call it her cheerleader good looks, nice personality, or boob job we have been doing it around 15 months both itc and otc. She is best I have had out of 20 or so strippers in last five years. She's married too, but it don't plug no holes......
2. Wife wants just business relationship - marriage failed years ago I guess - so Strippers are 100% of my sex life nowadays - I am pushing 60. Too late to start over with new wife but 28 year old stripper atf better and cheaper anyway. What I give her pays her mortgage but heck she is giving me pussy 2-3 times week!
3. What would I change - Wish I had sarted seeing Strippers years ago. Heck I would do it even if I was happily married. Why be just one dimensional?
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15 years ago
An insulting intrusion on personal privacy and individual freedom.
And taxpayer dollars financed this, how sad.
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15 years ago
I share this with a fellow Strip Clubber I have known for a number of years. As a matter of fact I have gone over to his place and done girls there.
Otherwise I keep it to myself. My wife becomes very upset at the mention of anything involving SC's. Once she caught me when I snuck out to a club late at nite by getting in car, letting it coast down driveway without engine running, and then turning ignition when in street so nut to wake her. She was waiting for me when I came back at 2am.
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15 years ago
I find a lot of that disgusting the ways mainstream try to portray the SC scene. Its like a lot of nuns gigling about sex.
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15 years ago
A lot of the gals who post on SW are old has been ROB's. The forums are full of their "how to" and kudos to each other on ripping customers. They very much resented my comments there (they know they are no competetion for extraas girls) and I was eventually kicked off the board by this AH mod.
To me the VIP / CR room is for one thing - getting extras - BJ, HJ, FS. As I am LT VIP at a local club where extras are available this is no problem there. At other clubs you should negotiate exactly what you will be getting as YMMV. If the VIP room fee is high say $125, then why not see if she will meet you otc at a motel? I will not pay a VIP room fee of say over $25. Never, ever give them your credit card LOL.