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15 years ago
They usually use the term Regular or Whale (big spender). If your VIP and you take a gal to VIP, the other gals will ask her what did she get off you(money).
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15 years ago
Being in love with a stripper is a fools errand. Even if you are seeing her otc.
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15 years ago
I had a gal at Saint James quote me $1000. I passed. My ATF who dances at a SE Houston club gave me two sessions at a motel for a total of $250, and average of $125 per session. Frankly I think some of these bitches quoting these high prices really don't have a clue.....most likely they don't fuck.
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15 years ago
I think thats great that SJ ran off the gang members. I really think gang members were the undoing of Ricks South. It would really piss me off as a paying coustomer to see those bums in the club knowing their only reason for being there was to sell the dancers drugs.
Some strippers are really stupid in going with gang members. The only future those guys have is prison or the grave. A lot of them don't even have the IQ to keep a job. I used to see a gal that bragged her BF was a gangster. When he beat her up so bad she spent some time in ICU and she almost died it stopped but she would still defend him at times. "Its not really his fault bc he is bipolar," she would say. There are some really sick bitches out there.
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15 years ago
I plan to give mine a Valentines Day Card, some candy, and a gift card. Or I might just sub a 50 or Ben instead. She gave me two FS sessions at motel this week at $250 total or an average of $125.
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15 years ago
Many strippers are bi and like threesomes. I talked to a bi coctail waitress and she says she takes girls home to share with hubby. The one I am seeing has a friend on her Facebook page she describes as her BFF (bi female friend?) Her and this woman travel a lot to get aways like Miami to lay out on the beach (and meet men?). She is going on a trip with 2 BFF later this month, one who used to dance at the club. She tells me they used to do threesomes with this guy.
The Lesbos on the other hand are some of the biggest ROB's. They will try to lead you on but rip you off. Watch out for them.
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15 years ago
I would be hesitant to visit the new club if I believed it would be more restrictive in mileage / extras.
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15 years ago
I have never tipped a Bouncer or DJ. Never had a reason to.
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15 years ago
I prefer Trojan Magnum Thin
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15 years ago
In Houston it can vary from club to club but extras are the Norm at many of the clubs here. At the one where I am VIP, I would say 85% of the gals do extras. Non extras girls don't survive there very long.
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15 years ago
Go for it - you've got the money, have fun.
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15 years ago
The only gals I take to VIP are FS gals. I negotiate the rate upfront. As I a am LT VIP, there is no charge for me taking a gal to the upstairs VIP or CR. I recently had a hot 20 yr old blonde in VIP for $300 for FS - BJ then sex. She had a nice tight pussy too - I got off quick!
Before taking a gal I will ask her if she likes to play. If no, I send her away. If yes I will ask what kinda fun does she like to have, etc.
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15 years ago
When I take them to VIP it is for FS.
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15 years ago
Strippers resent being compared to prostitutes but I just dismiss it as SS. ATS on SW those gals would have you believe all they do is give dances, a sort of denial mentality. In reality, many of them lead a double life with their s/o's, friends, and family. Their denial is like a job search liar believing all the lies on his resume. But then again part of a good lie system is being able to deliver it efficiently. With all the lies they tell customers whats a few more to friends and family?
If I am looking for extras, I ask the gal if she likes to play. If she does then I find out what service / price before I take her to VIP. Negotiate the deal before you take her to CR or VIP.
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15 years ago
While I have my ATF / Mistress, I have a roster of 3-4 gals all who fuck. Unless you rotate them contact can be lost. This month I had the ATF 4 times and one time with two other gals (one otc and the other itc). Consequently, I have already reached my budget for the month.
Because my club is very extras friendly, I do not go there without being ready to do sex in VIP. The times my ATF has been outta town finding an extras gal at the club has not been difficult but their performance can vary. Always negotiate the price up front.
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15 years ago
Its not uncommon for a gal and her BFF to work in teams in VIP, especially at an extras friendly club. One who is a BJ specialist will start things off with BJ, then the other who is a HJ / Sex specialist will finish off the session with sex. Also the two will meet customers otc. On the plus side they make an awesome pair bringing a super one - two punch to the fray. However, this can be expensive and addicting for a coustomer. Be sure and negotiate things before engaging in any activities as there is no more unpleasant surprise like a really expensive tab and a bouncer appearing to escourt you to the ATM.
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15 years ago
I think he made a good choice in paying her but I certainly see your point gatorfan. I just wonder what she would have done if he just simply started on his way out. Believe me they can make a scene, I have seen them follow a guy out screaming and cussing, then hanging on to his car as the poor fellow tries to escape. They could accuse him of hittig them and then getting a bouncer involved.
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15 years ago
2 of my articles of interest for the subject posted by the op - Meeting a Stripper for OTC Session and Dealing with Dancer Drama.
If your are starting the hobby young will good for you. I wish I had started it when I was younger. Never discuss your SC hobby with civilians (non dancers, non strip clubbers). Above all keep it secret from a wife or GF. Wife just wants to do sex once a week? No prob, don't get mad, just go to a Strip Club.
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15 years ago
I simply make them an offer or ask them if they "play."
Beware of picking them up as to the neighborhood and who might come to the car. Drive carefully not breaking any traffic laws or giving a cop a chance to stop you. If she has drugs you could find yourself in jail facing drug charges and your car "seized." You will never see your car again as it will be ripped apart as they look for more evidence / serious violations. For this reason I am uneasy about strippers who don't have a car or one that spends most of its time in impound.
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15 years ago
The VIP membership at this club is $800. This is a lifetime ViP. Major benefits are free admission to the club (normally 7-10$) and no charge for the CR (downstairs) or VIP (upstairs). I would say most (possibly nearly all) of the dancers do extras. I negotiate POP before I take a gal to VIP and their prices have ranged from $150 - $300.
Some good comments, appreciate your input. I agree with you Clubber on paying the money and learning from it. Jim had a good experience and did not want a scene where mgt might have become involved. Why take a chance on losing your VIP membership?
gk - I like your comment, it sums it all up.
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15 years ago
I should have mentioned this - Jim's total cost for the experience with Val was $450.
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15 years ago
I once got a bad case of itchy hives. I believe it may have been from food at the club or touching a dancer then eating, ingesting something.
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15 years ago
In a SC they are selective on who they will fuck. I would say its based primarily on money and how they perceive the cleanliness, safety, and other factors they prefer in a customer. They are excited to get some different dick and a guy that lasts long enough to get them off can be preferred by them.
Mainly its money and how they perceive the customers ability to pay.
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15 years ago
Neoguy - If your goal is OTC, you need to move on.
To answer your question: I call it quits after 2 dances if they don't fuck. In my club almost all of them do.
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15 years ago
8. Not negotiating POP before going to VIP / CR.