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15 years ago
I think a good extras gal can make $1200 a shift. Others that don't do extras struggle to make $200 a shift. One dancer told me she would "play" to make the money she needed to make that day but once achieved would stop doing extras and just do dances.
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15 years ago
Yes their relationships are all different. But one common thread is a Stripper's SO does not own that pussy LOL. He may not be aware of it, but he is gonna be sharing it with some of us who can put some serious money in front of her.
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15 years ago
Dudester your situation sounds familiar with one I saw for awhile. I noticed her behavior improved (and the quality of the experience) when he was in jail for a few months.
So if she tells you some day he's in jail, count your blessings.
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15 years ago
I have been seeing a 28 year old stripper Otc / Itc for about 2yr. She is married (common law) and from what she says he is not aware of her sex activities and he just thinks she does lap dances at club. Her comment about it all when asked about how he feels about her working at club (and its reputation for a whorehouse) is "Oh he doesn't care" which I find bizarre. I do her about 2x a week mostly otc but have also done her some in VIP or CR at club. I know of one other client she says she sometimes sees and as far as doing any others itc (sex) thats unknown. You can't assume your the only one. She has never seemed fucked out and has a nice tight one.
She will be getting married for real soon but says that will not affect our meetings she says (as she realizes about $1100 a month - equals her mortgage). POP with her has come down to an average of $150. She gives great GFE and does not mind posing for photos. I like the fact she is drug free, not supporting a BF (he hands over paycheck to her), always on time for session, and drama free. I see nothing to keep this from continuing for a long time as she is one of best I have had.
I think a lot of Stripper BF tolerate what they do bc (1) the gals are supporting them, (2) they get free pussy with a hot gal, and / or (3) they don't really make enough money to support her. I think thru manipulation (these gals are good at it) a lot of them don't realize their gal is doing sex work with clients. IMO its better the BF does not know she is doing clients. Sometimes they know but don't care. When they know its not a good situation bc it can affect her stress and cause her to try to up the price (pressure from him).
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15 years ago
I found some interesting info on EDN - ElectronicDancer.net
They have an Extras is Bad Mentality over there too. You may want to lurk in the background and not post much. I was expelled for a few weeks for using the term ROB. Its a fairly boring site, but you can get some insights into how they think.
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15 years ago
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minnowAny place that interests me.
Watch your pants when in motel with them. A friend of mine had one had one run off with his wallet, cash, and car.
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15 years ago
Rome had no regulations against Prostitution. It was wide open. I really think POP would come way down if Prostitution was left alone to flourish like it did in Rome. In certain ways our society is backwards.
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15 years ago
I find getting them to meet otc at motel is best.
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15 years ago
In Houston there are many clubs where you can get FS. One where I am VIP I don't go there unless I am gonna do it. If I am meeting my ATF I know it will go smoothly. If she is not there then its a crapshoot on the quality of the experience.
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15 years ago
I usually check out gals on backpage.com
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15 years ago
You can get a sore Mr Happy if they bounce on you too much, especially the heavier ones. Don't hesitate to tell them to ease off. An experienced, competent stripper will know better than to inflict pain on Mr Happy.
Ever hear of Runner's Knee? Well there is a such thing as Lap Dance Sore Dick. Be careful out there. Its a good idea to stay from the fat cows - they can be dangerous LOL.
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15 years ago
I will ask them if they are a player. If they do extras they know what that means and will usually tell you what they do. If going to VIP negotiate the price of any extras upfront.
At a club where I am VIP almost all the girls are players. POP has been $150 - $300.
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15 years ago
The keep their money on them (usually in a small purse) bc other dancers will gladly steal it if they are careless. Once after I had finished doing my fav in the upstairs VIP another gal came into our section and asked her if she had seen $160 laying around. It wasn't there - did the gal loose her session money or was she trying to advertise to me? She looked like a gal I had done months before for $160.....
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15 years ago
I would be careful talking to other custies. You never know who it can be or if just their looking to horn in on your girl. IMO they can find their own fun.
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15 years ago
Good summation gk. The instinctive behavior of women is to be attracted to men with money. They are looking for a secure nest and the needs of their children to be taken care of.
I believe in treating Strippers like a queen. When a gal comes to my table I usually compliment her and never talk down to her. Once the discussion goes to what I do Professionally (Financial Controllership) her eyes light up because she knows that means money. Many of them are looking for a regular who can assure them their rent / morgage will be paid. Once your one of these with her, then you have priority over all her other customers. With my ATF its practically like the SW Airlines commercial "Just Say When." She is always on time and gives me a five star enjoyment experience the way I want it drama free. On Valentines she gave me a card and a present. She is a class act all the way.
A lot of SC Losers treat Strippers like they are dirt and the girls can tell them a mile off. Treat Strippers like they are a queen and it will reap huge dividends.
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15 years ago
What a ripoff. The Lifetime VIP membership I have at a SE Houston Club cost me $800. I pay no fee to enter VIP or CR and extras are very plentiful at this club. POP has varied ITC between $100 - $300 depending on girl.
I would luv to have some gal at Flashdancers try to proposition me to pay $600 just to go into VIP there. I would put the bitch in her place and say "Honey if you want to make some money we can go to motel for FS for $200."
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15 years ago
I think it is natural and normal based on our evolutionary history for humans to want a variety of sex enjoyment partners. It is our society with its maze of mores and zany culutres that is the aberration. Will these cultures be here in 10,000 years? Probably not. Look at all the wars in the world fought over some kinda religious shit. I am surprised there hasn't been an in your face atheist movement because of it.
The strip club scene goes back to cave times when a couple of men shared a woman. Consequently these gals are built to handle more than one man. The strippers are essentially kept by the strip club players along with management. Of course the gals won't admit it, especially those ROB's on Strippers Web. Everybody knows the average stripper BF is too much of a loser to really support her. The stripper I have been seeing is shared by myself, her common law husband (of course he doesn't know LOL), and probably a couple of other clients. For me, months away from 60 its a neat little deal to have a 28 year old mistress that is a stripper and bikini model. When I do a photo shoot of her, she is as excited as she can be and the sex is great. Sure my contributions pay her mortgage but I frankly don't see paying for pussy any different than paying for food. Only an idiot would try to attach a stigma to paying for pussy.
A lot of these gals like shows like Sex and the City or Diary of a Call Girl (BBC). I love it, as it essentially programs them that recreational sex and prostitution are fun. The one thing women care about is money bc that means shopping. Lots of money equals lots of good pussy. No money means it can be a bear getting some. Thats just how it is.
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15 years ago
A guy who looked like an illegal sat at my table where I had left my beer when I went to tip a gal on stage. You know these scum have no money. I confronted him and he left my table but was hacked. I think I would have fought him. In retrospect I prob shoulda just picked up my beer and gone to another table. At that time I was on Lexapro and it made me combative.
He seemed to be cussing at me but I could not hear him over the music. I just waived and said "same to you." A coctail waitress (aparrently his GF) seeing the incident came over and asked me if everything was ok. I told her "Settle your frend down or I will get management and a frind of mine over there who is INS." A few minutes later he left in a huff. Later the dancer who I had tipped, witnessing the whole thing came over to my table and said "Your tough." I had a few dances with her. I would not recommend this type of confrontational behavior with another customer.
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15 years ago
I have a date with one Sunday at a friends house. We are going to take turns doing her. POP will be $125. He has had her a few times and says she can go a long time like the energizer bunny.....
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15 years ago
I had this occur in a club called The Diamond Club and the gal pointed it out. I never went back as I not consider this type of thing intrusive, but a rip off. When I pay money for VIP, I am paying for privacy. I have not seen this in any other clubs in my area.
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15 years ago
Strippers use the term whale on Strippers Web especially Hustle Hut. These are guys who are big spenders in the club like $500 - $1000 or more.
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15 years ago
No he is not a pimp. He spends all of his discretionary income on girls and is a RIL with two he has seen over the past 5 years, many sessions. One is in jail, the other not available bc she is with rich Iranian BF who paid a fortune for her bail. He got a reverse mortgage on his house so he would have more money for the hobby. Some of these gals have really drained his money. I believe he will invite other men over to do his girl if it means reduced POP for him. That is his angle in trying to get me to go over there and do her. The backpage gal does have a BF who is also a runner (driver) for her. He could also be her pimp although she claims she is an independent.
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15 years ago
I agree a stripper is likely to be cleaner than a street whore. But many of the backpage.com gals are x strippers.
As far as strippers there is nothing to keep them from doing sex with 3 or 4 guys or more during a shift especially in an extras friendly club. The stripper I am seeing is married so I don't think she has quite the activity as a really active gal. But I could be wrong.
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15 years ago
Strippers dream about a RIL with them. But its not really about love from their point of view, its about draining your wallet.
If your want to use the L word with them go ahead. But remember, their heart belongs to the man that fathered their children even if he is a bum. If they use it with you, play the game, but realize they are attempting to manipulate you.
What matters to me is POP ant the gals performance in bed. As far as their drama, their problems are theirs, not mine.
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15 years ago
I have never asked for coffee in a SC, but I usually do drink coffee before meeting a gal at a motel for a session.