Comments by token

Once, years ago in either Ala or Miss I went to a place where the dancer would take customers glasses and hats and fog them up-down below. The best part was when she lit up a big cigar and then smoked it-down below and then started shooting out smoke rings (not perfectly symmetrical but an "A" for effort). I remember her saying "bet you boys can't do this."

Thanks for all the input. Thinking that basically this kind of stuff tends to annoy us somewhat. In my reported instance it was actually a kind of relief and I will used it against her, in future visits. Maybe it will keep her away. Chandler, it wasnt about the act of what she did, it was about how she treats her customers and what she should expect in return.

This is the one topic about strip clubs that I hate. My feelings are that numerous "camp followers" are extracting blood money from the dancers. Yes, I'm talking about house, DJ tip out, Bar Tender tip out, security tip out etc. I don's have exact figures, and was pointed out before--you get different $ values from different dancers. Typically, for this area (and the clubs I visit), I think the house gets 20-30, bar staff gets 10-20, dj gets 10-15 and security gets 5-10. If that's accurate the top end for a mid-level club here may be $75 and the low end may be $45. Big bucks when the dancer may realize $50-$300 a nite.

No, no sessions. I did email a female fitness model from the local area (Yvette Bova). She spends some time in the Orlando area and (im led to believe) is receptive to occasional in call visits. She is very upfront and emphatically states will not do any domination/submissive/sexual etc., but may be available for dinner etc., with fans. Check her website out. She is very (scarey) muscular but still sensual. I like her (and her website) and may be interested when the divorce is final.

They are not high on my agenda. I wouldn't turn one down but I wouldnt pay extra for one either.....so, maybe I have turned a few down. geeeez

Hi handsome = god, you're an ugly fuck! I feel a special closeness to you = you tip well You have soft hands = you make my skin crawl I think of you as my boy friend = keep the money coming I'll call you right back = I'm busy, leave me alone

In addition to night dancers coming in a few hours early, many dancers who have been out of the business all year make a come back tour in Nov and Dec. By late Dec they are exclusively back to their mainstream jobs.

Well, I enjoyed the post and agree with many who correctly state that the suggestion or offering of INT/OTC favors are initiated by the dancer. In rare instances I've suggested it but that usually resulted in a no (and in some of those instances the dancers have reinitiate the suggestion at a later visit. It's all based on their financial need (or greed) at the time anyway. The post made me think of the worst OTC (of 2) I had. The dancer suggested meeting her at a local HoJo where she was staying and she would call her husband to leave the room with their kids. Well, I got there, called, and he wasnt gone yet, 10 min later he is buckling little kids in the van and drives off. I go to the room and could barely get a hard and didnt nut thinking of the husband and kids etc. She also explained that they were on the run from Canada for some thing or other and trying to relocate in Fla. The entire situation sucked and was very sad.

I can't remember how to put someone on ignore. Please help me.

Alone....always alone. Tip the 1 or 2 (on stage) that interest you the most--you really don't have to tip em all. Show interest and the ladies will eventually get to you. Please remember, many ladies have "regulars" and need to spend an appropriate amount of time with each of them before (hopefully) adding to their core of admirers. Being out with 5-6 friends is cool for a Lite Beer commercial but sucks in a strip club.

Thanks to all who have posted so far. I really hope to hear from any black dancer....what are your opinions? are all customers the same? (I'd suspect probably so); actually I don't really know what I'm asking (sound confused?) but I'd like any input. Please don't confuse me with some star-struck teenager--I've been going to strip clubs for 20-25 years.

This is a good thread! Hopefully, I always respect my dancer. That being said; honestly, I will try to gain what the market will allow....meaning, over time, as a mutual trust and respect is established and if it becomes a two-way street I'll enjoy whatever experiences become available. To me, the best thing I ever heard from a dancer was "I've known you for 10 months now and you have never once disrespected me.....that's very unusual and very, very nice; thank you." Super stuff!

Another good thread! Thanks TD. - Started visiting SC's in late 70s while on military leave in the Mecca (Tampa). I grew up in the Tampa area. - I don't dance :) (n/a) - Favorite club--have a handful of favorites around Tampa. I avoid full nude clubs (a younger crowds playground) in favor of bikini or topless clubs. - Favorite dancer--I've got a couple of ATFs but won't post names. - Dream dancer....black, proportional body, outstanding personality, average breasts--absolutely no build-ups!, kick-ass butt and a sweetheart.

hit the wrong button...hope I continue with my responses. - Club regular. Yes, circulate between 2, sometimes 3 clubs over a 1-2 week period. - Conv/dance? I have to have both. - Date a dancer? Yes - Drink? Yes - Smoke? Quit 20 years ago (yes I'm old....dammit!) :) - Drugs? Never - Club attendance? I stay away from the big name Tampa draws..they are simply cash-cow money traps (if a traveler wants to drop a load (money only) in Mons, 2001, DV etc., that's a personal choice. - Talk to? Yes, have and will!

TD, you don't sound like "a bitch." I'm sure you encounter many crude-dudes at work. Unfortunately, youth, alcohol and a total lack of social graces tend to paint males as a pretty sorry lot....been there, done that. I've seen plenty of disrespectful, putrid behavior from some punks--you don't need them and they don't deserve your attention. We're not all the same; check out the new guys as they enter your arena and stick with the good guys.

TD, come back often girl! I'm very new here as well. Please.....let me know of anyother strip club sites or stripper posting venues. We're not all jerks.

The only thing that really bothers me are the "drive-byes" You may, or may not be a first-time visitor to a club and some air-head is in your face with...."wanna private dance?" No, hi my name is and yours? no nothing... These dolts expect you to jump up before you can even order a drink for them? They are clueless...maybe you have a favorite that you want to see......?

Dang. I don't know where you are from but my experiences in Fla are that $10 dances are "air dances" and sadly, most $20 dances are as well. The kind of stuff you described just doesn't happen.

This is a good post. Over the years I've been asked for my phone # (which wasn't called); have been given her phone # (which didn't work); have called/or have been called for the expressed intent of keeping me appraised of her schedule; etcal. Over-all, I kind of lean with the poster who said some of the phone # swappers may be more inclined to call during slow periods in their schedule or when the rent/utilities are due. Still: Whether she wants you for her personal pleasures, or her purse, or merely to keep you informed of her whereabouts.....what's the problem? My guess is that your dancer does not give/exchange #'s with every customer. Take it for what's it's worth. Enjoy what you want to enjoy. Pass on what you care to. Sucker???--nah.

See my comments under PonyTails. Thanks.

I'm a ebony freak too but ya gotta know that there are plenty of web sites that can be accessed via search engines. Look around.

Never been in a bar where a dancer actually stole from a patron. I was fortunate enough to witness a dancer spit in a guys draft beer when he was in the bathroom (several saw it), and she was immediately terminated. Oh year, I go to classy places.

I'm new and I think the board serves a purpose but if it means wading thru countless negative postings from 1 particular poster then what is the point? Cannot the posts from the 1 or 2 A-HOLES just be deleted and spare us sane ones???

Thanks for the insight. What's troubling about this is she is "supposed" to be divorced but admittingly coming off a nasty div and fighting for custody of kids and she is "supposed" to be bf-free. Things just dont add up. How did he get his number? Did she use somebody elses phone and it left a number trail? He thinks like me in that there are plenty of strippers and the dude can have her but a good strip club that is well stocked is tougher to find so he will venture back there--I may skip that trip :)

I tip during lap dances in some instances. This would be in bikini bars where the dances are $10 in some clubs and $20 in others. Basically if Im getting a $10 dance or a two for $20 I might tip the dancer as she entertains (depending on her attitude etc.). You will be surprised at the increased mileage. Many dancers have commented that Im the only guy that has ever done that.......they do appreciate it.