Handjobs
chandler
Blue Ridge Foothills
I don't care for them much, in a strip club or anywhere. They seem like a weak substitute to settle for when she won't suck your dick or fuck. I've only had one girl give me one in a strip club years ago, and it was okay but it seemed like a lame way to end my fun. I like having my dick rubbed, just not to orgasm. I'd rather have her take me to a ladies room stall to fuck. Outside a club, other than a few clandestine thrills at a restaurant or a movie, I haven't gotten excited about getting jerked off since high school dating. When I'm alone with a girl, it's just not my idea of the main event.
So what's the big attraction for you handjob freaks? Can't you get laid? What's wrong with you perverts?
So what's the big attraction for you handjob freaks? Can't you get laid? What's wrong with you perverts?
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Hey, Shadowcat, why did you skip Saturday?
Thanks for the great info!!!!! I'be making my Road Trip in the near future to SL area. Seems like fun.
Of all ways to reach an orgasm with a woman that I don't have an emotional tie to (in other words, a woman that I am f***king, rather than to whom I am making love), my preference would be a blow job, because it requires little exertion or effort, no attention to the woman's pleasure, and is ALL ABOUT ME. However, in a club, a blowjob may be the most dangerous activity to your health. The risks of vaginal sex are well known, and most dancers are going to insist on a condom. I don't know that there are are any health hazards from a handjob other than, as set out above, chafing. Virtually everything you can get from f*cking, you can get from oral sex (either from the flora that live in the mouth, just as in the vagina, or from blood in her mouth), but hardly anyone in clubs uses a condom with oral sex. So you have all the health hazards of vaginal sex, with none of the customary protections.
In some clubs, there is just enough privacy for a hand job, but not enough for other activities, so handjobs are a useful expedient. But I understand that Chandler's question had to do with preferences among available forms of sexual activity, so this statement is not really in keeping with the spirit of the original question as posed.
As far as the HJ as a sex act, I don't have a problem with a girl using it as part of her repertoire. Sometimes, at my age and with 50mg of Viagra in my blood stream, it's the best way to "finish" especially the second pop. Half the fun of a hand job-not in a club but in the bedroom-is seeing where she aims it.....
BTW, in case anybody didn't realize it, I was being facetious above with my last two questions, although I am genuinely curious what the appeal is.
Better than the chicken in the fridge, anyway.
A Stripper in Hand is Worth Two Unpenetrated Bush?
Something like that,
DG
BookGuy, let me first say that I'm not the only expert on ESL clubs. chitownlawyer, among others, have been there, and since I've only reviewed clubs in Wash. Park, they can probably give you the goods on Sauget, Brooklyn, and Centreville better than I.
As for arranging a vacation there: I go online for air, hotel and rental. I always use Priceline and name my own price for hotel, and I'm going to start using them to name my own price for car. Along that vein, let me give you another website: www.biddingfortravel.com. If you've never used Priceline, look over there for what other people have bid. It also has small reviews of hotels "won" on Priceline bids; there, I gleaned the observation that all hotels in St. Louis charge for parking except for the ones close to the airport (if that information's incorrect, someone please let me know). That's why I've always bid for hotels close to Lambert. The downside is that you're 20-30 minutes away for East St. Louis, and I'm not sure if the cost of gas evens out the relative proximity of paying a daily parking fee in a hotel downtown or in Forest Park, et a . Prices are by no means stable, especially for a flight, but for my last trip there (four nights), I think I got $30/night for a hotel and $30/night for a car.
Hope that helps!