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16 years ago
Daytime for me also, for all of the reasons already mentioned. Sometimes I'll stay later into the evening on a Friday or Saturday night, but not too often.
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16 years ago
Yank,
No harm, no foul. I was never offended by any of the posts, since they weren't directed at me personally. Like TUSCL Bro, I just started ignoring them. It was alot simpler that way.
Thx, TUSCL Bro! I like representin' my lesbian hood on this board. I try to offer my (often) slightly different perspective on the SC experience with you zany characters. Between TUSCL & zbone, I get to share with clubbers all over the country, and have even met a few in person, which was something that I never imagined would happen.
Now, if we can just find a hot lesbian dancer that would post here, my life would be complete!
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16 years ago
Well.....
My take on shadow's situation is this: I suspect that she is bisexual, not lesbian....especially if she follows through with the birthday gift that she promised. Women can be very fluid in their sexuality - gay one day, and straight the next. It can drive us lesbians NUTS!
Now,if she backs out of the b-day gift, then she could be a lesbian stripper that is working the stripper-shit angle just to keep you guessing. Hard to tell right now. I guess you're gonna have to see if she holds her end of the deal come your birthday.
And then we want pictures!! ;-D
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16 years ago
giveitayank,
You are wrong about no one on this board being gay. While I find it very hard to believe that there are any real male homosexuals posting on a stripper website (why would they bother?) there is at least one FEMALE gay board member. ME.
For anyone, in this day and age, to try and "best" someone by calling them "gay" is beyond stupid & childish. Please be the bigger person and refrain from joining in and encouraging more ridiculous behavior from certain individuals.
Like ozy said....the "ignore" feature is your best friend.
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16 years ago
By the power vested in me by the state of Lesbianism, I hereby dub both shadow & TUSCL Bro honorary lesbians.
You are now free to move about the Dykedom.
Enjoy, gentlemen....er.....women!!
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16 years ago
LOL - my bad! sorry about that.
I actually do know the meaning, and was supposed to put a "dash" in between the "s" & the "cat". I guess it fell out. But I will refrain from using it in the future.
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16 years ago
The way I look at it - true friendship is guaranteed. Pussy is NOT.
A true friend will understand why you ditched him, coz he has no doubt done the same thing himself a time or two. We all have.
So to answer your question - would I ditch a pal for pussy?
Yup. In a heartbeat.
BTW early happy bday scat! I know you'll make all us TUSCLer's proud and have a great orgy with the girlies. Your buddies will understand that you'll be "busy" that night.
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16 years ago
I am a regular female custie and believe me - I never have any trouble getting dancer attention. The OP sounds like just the kind of female custie that I don't like seeing in a club - you have too many rules for the dancers to adhere to. You gotta be VERY open minded and flexible when visiting stripclubs. If I were a dancer I probably would have avoided you too.
To the OP - maybe it would be best for you & your man to avoid stripclubs althogether. I don't think that you are gonna find what you are looking for there.
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16 years ago
7 hours ago.
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16 years ago
Alot of dancers read zbone, since it is a popular SC site that is specific to the LA/OC area of Southern California. I've asked a few of those ladies if they also might read TUSCL, but none of them had ever heard of it.
I suspect that any SC sites that cater to specific geographic areas (like zbone) will tend to be more popular with dancers.
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16 years ago
Over the years I've met many girls that claim to bank working major holidays. Some clubs close on holidays, but many stay open with shortened hours. There are plenty of lonely people out there with no family that find refuge in places like SC's. I imagine that the girls who do work would do quite well.
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16 years ago
37/8
I started going to clubs after a co-worker's going-away luncheon was held in a SC back in 2000. My first few years consisted of scattered and irregular visits. I started seriously clubbing only about 4 years ago.
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16 years ago
Here's a perspective from a female customer POV. It's not much different than the guys:
What is your outlook on dancers all together?
*Love 'em
What is your tipping style?
*Each dancer gets $2 on stage, regardless of whether or not I buy dances from them. My fave girls get more $$$ on stage as budget allows.
What do you expect out of a lapdance and VIP rooms?
*I expect alot of mutual contact.
Do you pay for talking time and/or do you offer to buy drinks or will you buy the dancer a drink if she asks? Or do you refuse under all circumstances to buy a dancer a drink?
*I always offer the lady a drink if she is sitting with me.
Are you the type of customer that likes to approach dancers your self or vice-versa? If you only like certain dancers and one you don't like approaches you, how do you react to her?
*I prefer to be approached, but will quietly stalk (uh I mean approach!) a dancer that catches my eye and ask for a dance.
If a dancer approaches that I have no interest in, I will politely tell her "no thank you".
What kind of club attracts you and do you ask dancers for extras? If you ask for extras, what is usually the percentage that agree to extras?
*I like nude clubs. I rarely ask dancers for extras, but they offer them alot and I certainly won't turn them down. The rare times I have asked for extras I have gotten them. Woo hoo!!
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15 years ago
Yeah - most dancers have a short shelf life, and that's often for the best (nothing sadder than a nasty old stripper who continues on well past her prime). Constant new blood keeps the landscape always changing, although it does really suck when you find a real keeper and she ups & disappears - sometimes overnight.
Oh well. Tis the nature of the beast.
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16 years ago
As long as the song is dance-able and the girl is moving well to it, it's fine with me. I have never left a club because of the music.
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16 years ago
Actually it was time for a change - Batboy's time was up. Changing it also gave me a good excuse (like I really needed an excuse) to sort through my girl/girl porn pix to look for a replacement pic.
Just how graphic can the pix be for this forum? Not that I'm going to post anything distasteful, of course.
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16 years ago
Ok,Ok.....I guess Batboy was a bit much for some of you guys.
Much better now.
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16 years ago
I couldn't imagine getting a dance from someone who was sullen, angry or stone-faced. Honestly, I'd be afraid to. What if she decided to vent her anger on me during the dance? No thanks. I'll stick with the ones that at least appear happy.
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16 years ago
I've done a few 69's in clubs that give bed dances, like the Deja Vu chain. I couldn't imagine doing a 69 sitting (or slouching) in a chair. Sounds way too tricky to maneuver around while sitting.
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16 years ago
I no longer like getting dances out in the open in topless bars because of the lack of privacy. Too many prying eyes proved distracting. Nowadays I prefer to stick to the nice private individual "booths" in my fave nude clubs. Ahhhhhhh!
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16 years ago
Here in LA I don't often see many other ladies in the audience, which is surprising considering it is LA. And the few ladies I do see are all with their bf/hubbies, and are more into going to the club as voyeurs, rather than participants. Surprisingly, I've seen more female custies in the divey topless place I go to than in the upscale nude clubs. Perhaps the nude factor is a bit intimidating for some ladies.
Thank you s-cat for giving me my own category. I will make you proud.
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15 years ago
I'm as open-minded as they come, but no thanks.
I prefer my dancers to be sporting vaginas.
Once word gets around a club that a she-male might be working there, their days there are usually numbered. They usually leave before they get the shit beat out of them.
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15 years ago
In a room full of hot sexy women, it's how she looks at ME that can help me decide where to spend my $$$ that night.
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15 years ago
1) nude
2) both
3) nude
4) soft drinks
5) don't give a damn about food
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16 years ago
Frilly girly panties.
But commando is good too.
It depends on the dancer I'm seeing that evening - some really get heated up over pretty panties, while others prefer to go right for the goods, with no obstacles in the way.