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now_starring

North Carolina
joined Feb 2008last seen Sep 2024
There is no such thing as unconditional love.

Morning comes whether you set the alarm or not.

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discussion comment
a year ago
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solemnfarrow
On strippers and polygamy
I do like things to be personal to an extent. It makes conversations easier. However I only ever see myself as the "club bf". Even if we hang out outside the club I separate "Amy" from "Sapphire(her club persona)". Does "hang out" mean OTC to help her pay bills? No. It just means hangout. OTC's are business transactions, even if we both enjoy it. The strippers I've gotten to know on a personal level always had a separation of business from non-business interactions, at least with me, and there never any SS to get over outside the club. SS was only in the club but I saw it as part of her job. Some guys may get confused if a stripper is a very friendly or charismatic person. I made a promise to myself that I'd step away from a stripper if I started to entertain thoughts of a relationship, or wanting to save anyone. I've seen enough stories from others that I want no part of that experience.
discussion comment
3 years ago
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drewcareypnw
not the real drew carey, but I play him at strip clubs...
P4P in small towns… tips and techniques?
www.usasexguide.nl theeroticreview.com Skipthegames.com You'll normally better off just going to a bigger city that's close to the small town depending on how far you're willing to drive. As for skip the games there are scammers, and using usasexguide and/or the erotic review to verify the people you want to see is a good idea. If you're new to this I'd be careful with skip the games. There's quality, but there's also a few providers that talk a good game until you meet them. Also be prepared to walk away if their appearance online is too far removed from their actual appearance. What's "too far"? Well, that's for you to decide. :) PS: Avoid anyone asking for deposits. I'm not saying they're all scammers, but 99% of them are.
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3 years ago
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carolinaclubman
North Carolina
Two clubs, three former Semper Fi strippers
This dive used to be THAT type of dive, but once the latest owners took over, that came to a stop. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it went from almost every dancer allowing something to almost none of them allowing anything.
discussion comment
4 years ago
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SneakySecret2
Probably in the VIP
VIP Mid Pandemic?
I wish I was within driving distance of an open strip club. I'd definitely be getting lap dances. If I had a family that depended on me I'd be more cautious, but I don't so I live my life like I want to without too much worry.
discussion comment
5 years ago
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FishHawk
The mustache makes the man
What makes an ideal dancer for you? (Unicorn Dancer)
We'd need good chemistry. So I'd have to like her personality. She'd have to be attractive(to me), give great dances and there'd have to be extras for her to get unicorn status. I almost had this once, however the young lady got married. We had our "in club personas", and our real life personas for when we met outside the club, which was rare. There was never any confusion despite some of our real life events being discussed in the club. The balance was perfect. I just never got to have sex with her. That would have made her a unicorn. I almost did, but thinking back that may have caused some confusion so I guess it's good that I didn't.
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