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15 years ago
I've gotten some of my best lapdances by asking the dancer instead of waiting for her to come by. Not only are you saving her having to walk around and risk possible rejection, you are guaranteed money in the bank as well as a nice ego boost to her for having asked her. Win-Win!!
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15 years ago
Dancers I've met OTC I got to know for at least a few months before suggesting anything, and that was after I became a good spending regular of theirs. One particularly shy gal took me close to a year before it happened, and in that case she was the one who initiated it. Most of the others I did the initiating. Some did it for money, some did it for kicks. Ya gotta love the "curious" ones!
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15 years ago
I know that some dancers have had bad experiences with certain types of people, and if you happen to fall into a "type" that a dancer doesn't like, you're SOL if you wanna get a dance from her. Pre-judging a person based on stereotyping their "type" sucks.
Like TUSCL Bro, I don't know if a dancer has ever given me a crappy dance to get rid of me. I also just assumed that she just gave crappy dances. Thankfully, lousy lapdances have been few & far between lately, so that's a good sign.
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15 years ago
I've never run into a door girl at any of my regular clubs.
They sound like they would be a nice addition to the dives I frequent.
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15 years ago
It's good that you're not a "lesbo", lane.
We are allowed only one here on TUSCL, and I'm it.
It's the law, gosh darn it!
Just doing my part to fulfull a much-needed quota.
:-p
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15 years ago
Like samsung1 said, it usually takes time and $$$ before a dancer will feel comfortable enough and trust you enough to even consider it.
If you really like the girl, consider it an investment.
but if you're just looking for a quick fuck with anything with a pulse, then look for the strung out old/fat/ugly trolls.
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15 years ago
C'mon stripperchick!!
Post noodz!!!
Noodz!!
Noodz!!
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15 years ago
Shadowcat,
Seems the owner "Larry" sold out to the city of Inglewood for megabucks to tear down the beloved Goose and replace it with apartments & condos. He's such a sack of shit. He & his dickhead sister inherited the business from their father back in the 1990's and proceeded to run it into the ground. Now he claims he'd like to own a "clean, family" style business, namely those low-rent apartments & condos. He's such a hypocritical douchebag.
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15 years ago
Clubber,
LOL u smartass! ;)
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15 years ago
I dunno, TUSCL_Bro....whip out a turkey baster in a SC and half the crowd will be scratching their heads, while the other half makes a run for the exits!
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15 years ago
A sincere compliment given to anyone , male or female, is always appreciated. There is a big difference, tho, between telling a dancer "Gawd - you are so HOTTTTT!", and saying something like: "You are an absolutely stunning young woman". Might sound corny, but that first line they hear 1000 times a day. Saying basically the same thing in a much classier way can be received much better.At least this has been my experience.
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15 years ago
shadowcat-
Every lesbian is different, so I suppose the answer to your question is "all of the above". For some lesbians, the act of inseminating their partner is considered to be very special, romantic, and gives the impression that they "concieved" together (even if it was while using a turkey baster!)
For me personally, I've never thought about it. I'm not real big on kids, and never expect to have any. But if I ever changed my mind, I honestly don't know which path I would use.I'm not repulsed by the idea of sex with men, and I'm not real big on turkey basters.....so who knows? But whichever path I would choose, it would have to be done on stage in a stripclub (staying on topic)!
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15 years ago
judyjudy-
The more ladies on here, the more fun we usually have. I try to hold down the female perspective side of the fort, but it's always nice to see other ladies posting.
Hang around awhile - it can only get more interesting!
shadowcat - I don't remember the lesbian couple that you refer to...they must have been in & outta here in a hurry. And you're right - unless they were artificially inseminating each other on stage at a stripclub, they had no reason to post about it here.
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15 years ago
Regardless of what a customer is looking for, it's the dancer that has to determine her own boundaries. Some dancers seem more than happy to give "happy ending" dances, but many will not. I personally seek out dancers that provide extras, but sometimes they are not available so I'll just enjoy what I can find.
We ladies & gentlemen come in all persuasions when it comes to lapdance expectations.
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15 years ago
No more favorites for me. I've run into too much possessiveness on the dancer's part. And besides, I like variety.
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15 years ago
Geez....$20 is a bargain here in LA.
Sometimes I try and get the girl to come down in price by offering volume - if dances are normally $30, I'll offer 3 for $60 or 5 for $110. They will usually go for it, thinking that they are somehow coming out ahead.
God bless dancers with poor math skills.
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15 years ago
^^^ what shadowcat said.
It's just small talk.
I try not to read too much into what strippers say most of the time.
Actions speak louder than words.
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15 years ago
Here in LA, topless (21yo+) is full bar and nude (18yo+) is non-alcohol. Same in Vegas, with one exception - The Palomino. It is the only nude club in the greater Vegas area that is allowed to serve alcohol. I'm not sure why...I suspect it is due to an old grandfathering rule of some sort.
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15 years ago
lol - true, shadowcat - it's hard to compete with young, tasty pussy! But at least we can always come here and compare notes.
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15 years ago
Clubber,
Well, the first few times a dancer really started grinding on me I was wearing some pretty thick jeans, and I figured that the contact wouldn't be good enough to really feel anything - certainly not enough to actually cum. I was (happily) wrong. I gotta give props to the ladies who know how to hit the hot spot, even through thick clothing! But sometimes, knowing that my plumbing is different than the average customer, they grind into me with reckless abandon to the point of pain and bruising. The first few times that happened I just sucked it up, paid the girl, and hobbled home. Nowadays I gently instruct the young lady in the proper approach to tribadism - as a public service, of course.
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15 years ago
It's happened more times than I'd care to admit. It often surprises the dancers, too, since they often don't expect it from a girl! But sometimes in their zealousness to please they grind WAY too hard and just wind up bruising me. But I give 'em an "A" for effort.
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15 years ago
Biggest side effect is my dwindling bank account.
But it's SOOOOO worth it!
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15 years ago
I've had a lot of ladies eat off of my plate, but I've never been asked to buy them anything.
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15 years ago
Unless the theme has something to do with saving me money, I'm not interested. Just keep the nekkid ladies coming, and I'm happy.
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15 years ago
I have been a regular in clubs all over the west coast, and have never had any trouble either getting into a club or getting dances. I don't know if the "escort" with a male thing is an east coast or southern thing, but I've never run into it here, and I've been clubbing for an awful long time.
True - it's unfortunate that women custies have developed bad reps because of previously stated reason....but any woman looking for fun, with a good attitude, should be successful in finding a club with great dancers more than happy to accommodate her.