No musts -- if I find a girl I like, I strike while the iron is hot (and before some other guy sweeps her away for the afternoon). At a club I haven't been to before, I may try to get a feeling for the place first, but I find a girl I really like, I grab her. However, I'm also unafraid of sending a girl away, and find it is not at all hard to do so without hurting her feelings, so if I'm with a girl and end up with stripper envy over a different girl, I gracefully exfiltrate myself from my current one.
I cant believe im doing this but i agree with juice. Gotta see all the acts at the talent show before i can declare a winner. Or i need to at least see a girl ive had my eye on dance on stage so i can guage how shell move off it. Now to rethink my life after agreeing with sgt major sanders...not quite the colonel yet.
Mine is, she has to be hotter than I've seen OTC. Then I'll get a two song maximum. If I really liked her will get her later for wherever the night takes me.
If I can I like to look them all over first. A full time through the stage list might not be practical. But I always ask a male door keeper or male bar tender how many dancers they have right then. I would never ask another dancer or a waitress this, because females will repeat this about me.
Once I know the number I try to check them all out. I want to pick my girl. But I also want her to know that I have picked her. This carries a great deal of weight with girls.
Yeah, at my local club even during the dayshift there are usually at least a dozen if not twenty dancers working. Songs are about 2.5-3 minutes, girls do two song sets on stage. So in an hour you *might* see the whole rotation. On a weekend night? If you got there at 10 and left at 2 (when they close) you'd barely see the whole rotation.
It's funny, when I first started going to clubs I was seeking the "perfect" girl. I wanted to know I was getting the hottest girl available. I've become more flexible recently. If the right girl approaches me early and the vibe is right and we can negotiate what I need I don't feel any desire to keep "shopping".
So I guess my one "requirement" is a girl has to touch me during her sales pitch. Doesn't have to be a "stripper handshake" (although that doesn't hurt). But there's got to be some sense of sensuality and flirtation on her end (fake, of course, just has to be believably fake).
I don't really need to see all the acts. Usually, most of the girls working that night will be walking around at some point. So if I see a girl I like, I usually just go for it. But I do prefer to approach her on stage than just grabbing at her while she's walking around, so I may wait for her next set.
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Once I know the number I try to check them all out. I want to pick my girl. But I also want her to know that I have picked her. This carries a great deal of weight with girls.
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Tina Turner, live
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At Tootsie's in Miami, you'd be there just about all evening and not spend a dime.:)
It's funny, when I first started going to clubs I was seeking the "perfect" girl. I wanted to know I was getting the hottest girl available. I've become more flexible recently. If the right girl approaches me early and the vibe is right and we can negotiate what I need I don't feel any desire to keep "shopping".
So I guess my one "requirement" is a girl has to touch me during her sales pitch. Doesn't have to be a "stripper handshake" (although that doesn't hurt). But there's got to be some sense of sensuality and flirtation on her end (fake, of course, just has to be believably fake).
I've heard of over 100 at Tootsie's. And I've never found that Asian dancer. :(
Plus, I need a couple drinks in me to loosen up.
Bj then LD....lol
Plus, I need a couple drinks in me to loosen up.
Yes !!!
there's got to be some sense of sensuality and flirtation
Yes !!!
Doesn't have to be a "stripper handshake" (although that doesn't hurt)
Yes !!!
100?
Great Scott !!!